Anonymous
Post 04/15/2023 19:12     Subject: Re:Mother of 2 from VERY prominent Richmond family arrested by FBI for child p@rn, exploitation, etc

Anonymous wrote:Why the heck does this woman have a public fb page that lets anyone post on it?


Boundaries aren't her strong suit.
Anonymous
Post 04/15/2023 18:17     Subject: Re:Mother of 2 from VERY prominent Richmond family arrested by FBI for child p@rn, exploitation, etc

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Anonymous wrote:Are the Huntons one of the First Families of Virginia?


Oh god, no one cares about this outside of Virginia.


As an actual member of a first family (actually a few) in Virginia, not too many people inside of Virginia care either, nor should they… sorry to change topics, just felt like this needed clarifying. The only people who care about hereditary details and social status are the people who have it. No one else GAF. In cases like this, it’s a distraction - when crimes aren’t being committed it’s a moderately interesting and peculiar detail, when they are, it’s totally irrelevant.


NP here. But I think it contributes to the overwhelming privilege this woman has due to her genetics (white, UC, regionally well known family name, etc) for her to get initially arrested on probably what was a lesser charge than she should have (unlawful undressing as opposed to a sex crime), to have the ability to get that dismissed on appeal (she was initially convicted in absentia, she didn’t show up for the initial trial so she was found guilty), and then for the coverage of such a heinous more recent crime to be so little. If she was practically anyone else, she’d still be in jail for what she did in 2019 and on the sex offender registry. So yeah, her genetics matter here.


This exactly. Everything was handed to her and fixed for her.
Anonymous
Post 04/15/2023 16:20     Subject: Re:Mother of 2 from VERY prominent Richmond family arrested by FBI for child p@rn, exploitation, etc

Why the heck does this woman have a public fb page that lets anyone post on it?
Anonymous
Post 04/15/2023 15:39     Subject: Re:Mother of 2 from VERY prominent Richmond family arrested by FBI for child p@rn, exploitation, etc

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Anonymous wrote:A female relative of mine, who was a high school teacher at the time, was caught f*** students. So a woman is definitely capable of being a pedophile.!


No excuse, since it is obviously very wrong to have sex with people that much younger and who are still minors, but technically someone is a pedophile only if the victim has not yet gone through puberty. Most high school kids have gone through puberty.


A high school teacher f($king their students is a pedo. A man doing it would be called one and everyone would agree.


No they wouldn’t! I wouldn’t. I think they’re awful and a sexual predator. But they aren’t a pedophile. Most men think 16-17 year old fully mature girls are attractive. It doesn’t mean they’ll sleep with them HOPEFULLY. But it’s a far cry from finding a 6 year old “attractive”.




+1


Anonymous
Post 04/15/2023 12:51     Subject: Re:Mother of 2 from VERY prominent Richmond family arrested by FBI for child p@rn, exploitation, etc

Anonymous wrote:
Anonymous wrote:
Anonymous wrote:Are the Huntons one of the First Families of Virginia?


Oh god, no one cares about this outside of Virginia.


As an actual member of a first family (actually a few) in Virginia, not too many people inside of Virginia care either, nor should they… sorry to change topics, just felt like this needed clarifying. The only people who care about hereditary details and social status are the people who have it. No one else GAF. In cases like this, it’s a distraction - when crimes aren’t being committed it’s a moderately interesting and peculiar detail, when they are, it’s totally irrelevant.


NP here. But I think it contributes to the overwhelming privilege this woman has due to her genetics (white, UC, regionally well known family name, etc) for her to get initially arrested on probably what was a lesser charge than she should have (unlawful undressing as opposed to a sex crime), to have the ability to get that dismissed on appeal (she was initially convicted in absentia, she didn’t show up for the initial trial so she was found guilty), and then for the coverage of such a heinous more recent crime to be so little. If she was practically anyone else, she’d still be in jail for what she did in 2019 and on the sex offender registry. So yeah, her genetics matter here.
Anonymous
Post 04/15/2023 12:25     Subject: Mother of 2 from VERY prominent Richmond family arrested by FBI for child p@rn, exploitation, etc

You certainly don't think it will turn out like this thread, that is for sure.
Anonymous
Post 04/15/2023 12:06     Subject: Mother of 2 from VERY prominent Richmond family arrested by FBI for child p@rn, exploitation, etc

Anonymous wrote:Not necessarily, many advantages may just lead to elite deviance and a feeling "rules" don't apply to you?


Pp here. I agree but think it's what people hope will be true. Hence, all the DCUM threads about Ivies, private schools, tutoring, lessons, friendships, country clubs, etc.
Anonymous
Post 04/15/2023 11:45     Subject: Mother of 2 from VERY prominent Richmond family arrested by FBI for child p@rn, exploitation, etc

Not necessarily, many advantages may just lead to elite deviance and a feeling "rules" don't apply to you?
Anonymous
Post 04/15/2023 10:46     Subject: Re:Mother of 2 from VERY prominent Richmond family arrested by FBI for child p@rn, exploitation, etc

Anonymous wrote:
Anonymous wrote:
Anonymous wrote:
Anonymous wrote:
Anonymous wrote:Are the Huntons one of the First Families of Virginia?


Oh god, no one cares about this outside of Virginia.


As an actual member of a first family (actually a few) in Virginia, not too many people inside of Virginia care either, nor should they… sorry to change topics, just felt like this needed clarifying. The only people who care about hereditary details and social status are the people who have it. No one else GAF. In cases like this, it’s a distraction - when crimes aren’t being committed it’s a moderately interesting and peculiar detail, when they are, it’s totally irrelevant.


I think it's particularly shocking to most people when a person with many advantages/opportunities and considerable wealth engages in such horrific behaviors and crimes. Shows the strength of genetics and mental disturbance.


This is only revealing of the average persons ignorance then, I suppose


I don't think ignorance is the right word. Most of us know that people from any walk of life can commit crimes. I think most people hope that having advantages will help their children to have a better life.
Anonymous
Post 04/15/2023 10:28     Subject: Re:Mother of 2 from VERY prominent Richmond family arrested by FBI for child p@rn, exploitation, etc

Anonymous wrote:
Anonymous wrote:
Anonymous wrote:
Anonymous wrote:Are the Huntons one of the First Families of Virginia?


Oh god, no one cares about this outside of Virginia.


As an actual member of a first family (actually a few) in Virginia, not too many people inside of Virginia care either, nor should they… sorry to change topics, just felt like this needed clarifying. The only people who care about hereditary details and social status are the people who have it. No one else GAF. In cases like this, it’s a distraction - when crimes aren’t being committed it’s a moderately interesting and peculiar detail, when they are, it’s totally irrelevant.


I think it's particularly shocking to most people when a person with many advantages/opportunities and considerable wealth engages in such horrific behaviors and crimes. Shows the strength of genetics and mental disturbance.


This is only revealing of the average persons ignorance then, I suppose
Anonymous
Post 04/15/2023 10:13     Subject: Re:Mother of 2 from VERY prominent Richmond family arrested by FBI for child p@rn, exploitation, etc

Anonymous wrote:
Anonymous wrote:
Anonymous wrote:Are the Huntons one of the First Families of Virginia?


Oh god, no one cares about this outside of Virginia.


As an actual member of a first family (actually a few) in Virginia, not too many people inside of Virginia care either, nor should they… sorry to change topics, just felt like this needed clarifying. The only people who care about hereditary details and social status are the people who have it. No one else GAF. In cases like this, it’s a distraction - when crimes aren’t being committed it’s a moderately interesting and peculiar detail, when they are, it’s totally irrelevant.


I think it's particularly shocking to most people when a person with many advantages/opportunities and considerable wealth engages in such horrific behaviors and crimes. Shows the strength of genetics and mental disturbance.
Anonymous
Post 04/15/2023 10:10     Subject: Re:Mother of 2 from VERY prominent Richmond family arrested by FBI for child p@rn, exploitation, etc

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After many, many years of hardship


I'm sorry, are we to cue the world's smallest violin for the wealthy family with who knows what skeletons and a freak monstrous relative rather than, you know, CHILDREN SHE HAS HARMED?

Having a mentally ill adult relative is indeed a difficult position, esp if trying to shield children, but tweak your approach.


People have rights. They couldn't lock her in a tower. It sucks but these people have to attempt to commit a crime AND be caught before they can be put away.


"People have rights" should not mean we allow mentally disturbed individuals to freely access innocent victims.


Who says she is mentally I’ll? Remember Cersei from GOT: She liked being evil and incestuous. Maybe this monster likes being disgusting and ruining kids lives, including her own. A 45 yo white woman can be evil disgusting degenerate.


PP here. I still think of people engaging in these types of behaviors as being mentally disturbed, mentally ill, etc. I think our laws are allowing far too many mentally ill individuals to remain free of longterm hospitalization. In this case, she'll likely wind up in prison.




Cersei… was a fictional character in a fictional world. You do realize it wasn’t a documentary…?
Anonymous
Post 04/15/2023 09:51     Subject: Re:Mother of 2 from VERY prominent Richmond family arrested by FBI for child p@rn, exploitation, etc

Anonymous wrote:
Anonymous wrote:Are the Huntons one of the First Families of Virginia?


Oh god, no one cares about this outside of Virginia.


As an actual member of a first family (actually a few) in Virginia, not too many people inside of Virginia care either, nor should they… sorry to change topics, just felt like this needed clarifying. The only people who care about hereditary details and social status are the people who have it. No one else GAF. In cases like this, it’s a distraction - when crimes aren’t being committed it’s a moderately interesting and peculiar detail, when they are, it’s totally irrelevant.
Anonymous
Post 04/14/2023 20:31     Subject: Re:Mother of 2 from VERY prominent Richmond family arrested by FBI for child p@rn, exploitation, etc

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Anonymous wrote:As a friend of the family, I must say that Eleanor’s parents and brother have long known about her mental instabilities and they have made strides to limit the damage Eleanor could cause towards others. For the last several years, they have been very vocal in assisting the exH gain custody of the kids and have tried to get her counseling and medical supervision.

After many, many years of hardship, Eleanor’s support group was limited in what they could do to stop her and incidents like the public sex affair proved that no one had the power to prohibit her actions. Unfortunately, I do not think anyone knew the extent of how far Eleanor gone or had any idea of CSA - thus the family was unable to garner additional support. Eleanor Hoppe is the epitome of how an adult with serious mental issues can inflict untold pain on our society and that her type of situation can only be properly dealt with after it is too late.


It sounds like you are saying that she was refusing treatment or evaluated by professionals and found not to be a risk to herself and others. If that is the case, then the medical professionals should have to answer some questions. Or maybe the mental health clinicians sought to have her committed but the law didn't allow it because there was no proof that she would harm others? These details are important ... sometimes a horrible case leads to a positive change in the law.

Was there really no outward sign that she was at risk of harming others?? I believe what you are saying but it is just hard to believe that the person who was caught to relatively easily was successful t concealing everything in the past.


Her father Eppa, PERSONALLY got her 2019 CONVICTION reversed on appeal. It was an opportunity for compelled treatment and evaluation and perhaps being put on a sex offender registry and having some degree of ongoing monitoring.


Never thought about how her conviction could have put her on the registry - that might have tipped off others to stay away from her.


Exactly. And it could have led to compelled evaluation and treatment. There are few opportunities to intervene re: mentally ill adults, this was a powerful one. Her family is directly responsible for that appeal and the PR attempts on here to cast THEM as heroic victims is disgusting.


Can we talk about how online porn/chat sites also play a role here? without those forums she might not have gone that far. they bear some responsibility.


TIL pedophiles didn't exist until the invention of the Internet.


No, but the internet certainly enhanced their ability to mutually reinforce their illness and exchange CSA materials, thus creating a market for it. And online porn can absolutely have a role in creating and maintaining obsessions.


+1 very much so
Anonymous
Post 04/14/2023 18:18     Subject: Re:Mother of 2 from VERY prominent Richmond family arrested by FBI for child p@rn, exploitation, etc

Anonymous wrote:
Anonymous wrote:
Anonymous wrote:
Anonymous wrote:
Anonymous wrote:
Anonymous wrote:
Anonymous wrote:
Anonymous wrote:As a friend of the family, I must say that Eleanor’s parents and brother have long known about her mental instabilities and they have made strides to limit the damage Eleanor could cause towards others. For the last several years, they have been very vocal in assisting the exH gain custody of the kids and have tried to get her counseling and medical supervision.

After many, many years of hardship, Eleanor’s support group was limited in what they could do to stop her and incidents like the public sex affair proved that no one had the power to prohibit her actions. Unfortunately, I do not think anyone knew the extent of how far Eleanor gone or had any idea of CSA - thus the family was unable to garner additional support. Eleanor Hoppe is the epitome of how an adult with serious mental issues can inflict untold pain on our society and that her type of situation can only be properly dealt with after it is too late.


It sounds like you are saying that she was refusing treatment or evaluated by professionals and found not to be a risk to herself and others. If that is the case, then the medical professionals should have to answer some questions. Or maybe the mental health clinicians sought to have her committed but the law didn't allow it because there was no proof that she would harm others? These details are important ... sometimes a horrible case leads to a positive change in the law.

Was there really no outward sign that she was at risk of harming others?? I believe what you are saying but it is just hard to believe that the person who was caught to relatively easily was successful t concealing everything in the past.


Her father Eppa, PERSONALLY got her 2019 CONVICTION reversed on appeal. It was an opportunity for compelled treatment and evaluation and perhaps being put on a sex offender registry and having some degree of ongoing monitoring.


Never thought about how her conviction could have put her on the registry - that might have tipped off others to stay away from her.


Exactly. And it could have led to compelled evaluation and treatment. There are few opportunities to intervene re: mentally ill adults, this was a powerful one. Her family is directly responsible for that appeal and the PR attempts on here to cast THEM as heroic victims is disgusting.


Can we talk about how online porn/chat sites also play a role here? without those forums she might not have gone that far. they bear some responsibility.


TIL pedophiles didn't exist until the invention of the Internet.


No, but the internet certainly enhanced their ability to mutually reinforce their illness and exchange CSA materials, thus creating a market for it. And online porn can absolutely have a role in creating and maintaining obsessions.


Modern cloud services have made it more difficult for these people. All of the cloud services scan photographs for suspected child pornography. Does your phone get backed up to Apple or Google? Expect those images to get reported and a visit from law enforcement. That's at least one of the benefits of AI. Millions of images can be scanned automatically to look for illegal content.