Anonymous
Post 02/21/2019 01:12     Subject: Re:Confession Thread: What do you need to get off your chest?

I am replying to the thread title but my response is political:

Need to get off my chest that I used to be middle of the road all the way around and at one point was a Republican.

But I do not even think I can be friends with Trump supporters anymore. I only have two who are local but was surprised to learn how many of my college friends are supporters.

Am thinking of skipping my 25th college reunion because I do not want to be around a bunch of Trumpsters.

Anonymous
Post 02/21/2019 00:28     Subject: Re:Confession Thread: What do you need to get off your chest?

Anonymous wrote:
Anonymous wrote:
Anonymous wrote:I am annoyed with my friend who gave birth this weekend. We are always expected to go the extra mile for her (and then some). We only got a text via hubby that baby was born then radio silence. We don’t even have a name. Idk why but this is irritating me so much. Don’t even have a place to send flowers!


Be patient. Child birth can bring forth a lot of emotion, challenge, medical issues that some people never, ever really discuss, especially if they don't know that others can truly relate to the experience. She could be exhausted, dealing with complications around recovery, or just taking in the reality of the change. Be supportive, her hormones will fluctuate, don't pull away. I had a really tough time and i am so thankful for friends that understood.


I am trying to be patient, there’s a bit history as she’s been my friend for 27 years. I’ll spare everyone the boring details. She also had placenta previa so Im extremely paranoid as with her last pregnancy she wanted us with her all the time as her babies were in the nicu. Like I told a friend I am annoyed and paranoid. I too am a parent so I’ve tried to really rationalize this one out.


Something could be horribly wrong and she's trying to process it or dying. Who knows?

Give her a call. Tell her you're worried.

And also, take a deep breath and hug your own kids.
Anonymous
Post 02/20/2019 22:33     Subject: Re:Confession Thread: What do you need to get off your chest?

Anonymous wrote:
Anonymous wrote:I want to have a lower face lift without my husband and teenagers knowing. I'm 49, recently laid off, and ageism in hiring is real. I have my own $$ and could easily afford it. But no one in our circle gets plastic surgery and I know my family would think I'm being vain and superficial.


I did this about 15 years ago and while my kids thought I was crazy my husband was very supportive. I wasn't doing it because of hiring ageism I just didn't like what I saw in the mirror. I had inherited my Dad's fat bags under my eyes and his turkey neck (but I did adore my Dad!). The work I had done made me look rested and not stretched and I felt great about the results. And as husbands say, a happy wife makes for a happy life. My MIL loved my more rested look so she had a little work done and was very happy. You might be surprised about people in your circle as many people get something done but don't talk about it.


I had work done on my face and the people I told were all extremely supportive and I feel a ton better after. Cosmetic surgery is also not prevalent in my circle. Now is the time when you’re out of work and can take the time to recover properly.
Anonymous
Post 02/20/2019 22:31     Subject: Re:Confession Thread: What do you need to get off your chest?

Anonymous wrote:
Anonymous wrote:I absolutely hate my in-laws and can't wait for the day to cut them off. Coldly.


I hate my in-laws and can’t wait for the two remaining to die.


Me, too.
Anonymous
Post 02/20/2019 21:14     Subject: Confession Thread: What do you need to get off your chest?

Anonymous wrote:
Anonymous wrote:
Anonymous wrote:Lame. I’m a lesbian, and should probably tell my husband.


Well do you ever plan to come out and why did you marry a man if you’re a lesbian ?

How are you OK with not getting any p***?


Who says she's not?


I wanna hear from her directly.
I wanna hear her confirm one way or another

So, lesbian in hiding are you getting any p****?

I’m a bicurious female and am married in a heterosexual relationship
I fantasize about women a lot lol
Anonymous
Post 02/20/2019 21:05     Subject: Confession Thread: What do you need to get off your chest?

If you knew me you'd know there is nothing to be jealous of in my life at all.im truly sorry you're losing your best friend, but he's the one person who makes me happy and makes me feel safe. I want to be your friend, but you're going to have to accept your new role first.
Anonymous
Post 02/20/2019 17:07     Subject: Re:Confession Thread: What do you need to get off your chest?

Confession: there was a job I wanted to apply for but didn’t because the supervisor was god awful. The job was given to someone who isn’t doing a great job and i’d Be stellar. I just don’t think he knew what it took to do this job. The awful supervisor ended up leaving so I am extra bitter.
Anonymous
Post 02/20/2019 16:48     Subject: Re:Confession Thread: What do you need to get off your chest?

Anonymous wrote:
Anonymous wrote:I am annoyed with my friend who gave birth this weekend. We are always expected to go the extra mile for her (and then some). We only got a text via hubby that baby was born then radio silence. We don’t even have a name. Idk why but this is irritating me so much. Don’t even have a place to send flowers!


Be patient. Child birth can bring forth a lot of emotion, challenge, medical issues that some people never, ever really discuss, especially if they don't know that others can truly relate to the experience. She could be exhausted, dealing with complications around recovery, or just taking in the reality of the change. Be supportive, her hormones will fluctuate, don't pull away. I had a really tough time and i am so thankful for friends that understood.


I am trying to be patient, there’s a bit history as she’s been my friend for 27 years. I’ll spare everyone the boring details. She also had placenta previa so Im extremely paranoid as with her last pregnancy she wanted us with her all the time as her babies were in the nicu. Like I told a friend I am annoyed and paranoid. I too am a parent so I’ve tried to really rationalize this one out.
Anonymous
Post 02/20/2019 16:40     Subject: Re:Confession Thread: What do you need to get off your chest?

Anonymous wrote:My employee applied for a job that would make her my boss, and I am working behind the scenes to undermine her chances.


Why didn't you apply for the job?
Anonymous
Post 02/20/2019 16:35     Subject: Re:Confession Thread: What do you need to get off your chest?

Anonymous wrote:I am annoyed with my friend who gave birth this weekend. We are always expected to go the extra mile for her (and then some). We only got a text via hubby that baby was born then radio silence. We don’t even have a name. Idk why but this is irritating me so much. Don’t even have a place to send flowers!


Be patient. Child birth can bring forth a lot of emotion, challenge, medical issues that some people never, ever really discuss, especially if they don't know that others can truly relate to the experience. She could be exhausted, dealing with complications around recovery, or just taking in the reality of the change. Be supportive, her hormones will fluctuate, don't pull away. I had a really tough time and i am so thankful for friends that understood.
Anonymous
Post 02/20/2019 16:32     Subject: Re:Confession Thread: What do you need to get off your chest?

I am annoyed with my friend who gave birth this weekend. We are always expected to go the extra mile for her (and then some). We only got a text via hubby that baby was born then radio silence. We don’t even have a name. Idk why but this is irritating me so much. Don’t even have a place to send flowers!
Anonymous
Post 02/20/2019 16:16     Subject: Confession Thread: What do you need to get off your chest?

Anonymous wrote:
Anonymous wrote:Lame. I’m a lesbian, and should probably tell my husband.


Well do you ever plan to come out and why did you marry a man if you’re a lesbian ?

How are you OK with not getting any p***?


Who says she's not?
Anonymous
Post 02/20/2019 14:26     Subject: Confession Thread: What do you need to get off your chest?

I was sleeping with three different women at my job. I used their office and the network closet to get it on.
Anonymous
Post 02/20/2019 14:07     Subject: Confession Thread: What do you need to get off your chest?

Anonymous wrote:Lame. I’m a lesbian, and should probably tell my husband.


Well do you ever plan to come out and why did you marry a man if you’re a lesbian ?

How are you OK with not getting any p***?
Anonymous
Post 02/20/2019 12:45     Subject: Confession Thread: What do you need to get off your chest?

Anonymous wrote:I wished I could sleep with my College Career Counselor. She is effortlessly beautiful and I get turned on thinking about her beautiful green eyes. We are still in touch purely on a professional basis ever since I graduated, and we always maintained a cordial and appropriate faculty-student relationship but if only...


Even Michelle Robinson crossed the line with Barack Obama.

I say go for it! You’ll never know unless you try. Update us if you do