Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:I am annoyed with my friend who gave birth this weekend. We are always expected to go the extra mile for her (and then some). We only got a text via hubby that baby was born then radio silence. We don’t even have a name. Idk why but this is irritating me so much. Don’t even have a place to send flowers!
Be patient. Child birth can bring forth a lot of emotion, challenge, medical issues that some people never, ever really discuss, especially if they don't know that others can truly relate to the experience. She could be exhausted, dealing with complications around recovery, or just taking in the reality of the change. Be supportive, her hormones will fluctuate, don't pull away. I had a really tough time and i am so thankful for friends that understood.
I am trying to be patient, there’s a bit history as she’s been my friend for 27 years. I’ll spare everyone the boring details. She also had placenta previa so Im extremely paranoid as with her last pregnancy she wanted us with her all the time as her babies were in the nicu. Like I told a friend I am annoyed and paranoid. I too am a parent so I’ve tried to really rationalize this one out.
Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:I want to have a lower face lift without my husband and teenagers knowing. I'm 49, recently laid off, and ageism in hiring is real. I have my own $$ and could easily afford it. But no one in our circle gets plastic surgery and I know my family would think I'm being vain and superficial.
I did this about 15 years ago and while my kids thought I was crazy my husband was very supportive. I wasn't doing it because of hiring ageism I just didn't like what I saw in the mirror. I had inherited my Dad's fat bags under my eyes and his turkey neck (but I did adore my Dad!). The work I had done made me look rested and not stretched and I felt great about the results. And as husbands say, a happy wife makes for a happy life. My MIL loved my more rested look so she had a little work done and was very happy. You might be surprised about people in your circle as many people get something done but don't talk about it.
Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:I absolutely hate my in-laws and can't wait for the day to cut them off. Coldly.
I hate my in-laws and can’t wait for the two remaining to die.
Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:Lame. I’m a lesbian, and should probably tell my husband.
Well do you ever plan to come out and why did you marry a man if you’re a lesbian ?
How are you OK with not getting any p***?
Who says she's not?
Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:I am annoyed with my friend who gave birth this weekend. We are always expected to go the extra mile for her (and then some). We only got a text via hubby that baby was born then radio silence. We don’t even have a name. Idk why but this is irritating me so much. Don’t even have a place to send flowers!
Be patient. Child birth can bring forth a lot of emotion, challenge, medical issues that some people never, ever really discuss, especially if they don't know that others can truly relate to the experience. She could be exhausted, dealing with complications around recovery, or just taking in the reality of the change. Be supportive, her hormones will fluctuate, don't pull away. I had a really tough time and i am so thankful for friends that understood.
Anonymous wrote:My employee applied for a job that would make her my boss, and I am working behind the scenes to undermine her chances.
Anonymous wrote:I am annoyed with my friend who gave birth this weekend. We are always expected to go the extra mile for her (and then some). We only got a text via hubby that baby was born then radio silence. We don’t even have a name. Idk why but this is irritating me so much. Don’t even have a place to send flowers!
Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:Lame. I’m a lesbian, and should probably tell my husband.
Well do you ever plan to come out and why did you marry a man if you’re a lesbian ?
How are you OK with not getting any p***?
Anonymous wrote:Lame. I’m a lesbian, and should probably tell my husband.
Anonymous wrote:I wished I could sleep with my College Career Counselor. She is effortlessly beautiful and I get turned on thinking about her beautiful green eyes. We are still in touch purely on a professional basis ever since I graduated, and we always maintained a cordial and appropriate faculty-student relationship but if only...