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Anonymous wrote:for whatever reason (male, white “smart”) BA has been able to attract much more desirable partners than JLO. BA is her “best catch” in terms of appearance and star power. her other partners are either unattractive or not professionally accomplished.

Marc Anthony is professionally accomplished. And she's dated Alex Rodrigues, Drake, Ben, and P. Diddy. Yes, most of these guys have serious issues but they are all very professionally accomplished and most are pretty good looking.

She has a thing for dancers and has had several relationships with them. I actually think this reflects a good instinct -- the desire to be with someone who shares a passion for music and dance, is a fundamentally artistic person. But you can't be JLo and date some regular guy dancer/choreographer. It won't work out. Not just because she's famous but because she's an exhibitionist and loves the limelight -- a mortal is not going to survive in that environment. But this also torpedos her relationship with celebs.

I think she's not really built for stable relationships but is a romantic and doesn't like being alone either.

i know who she has dated, which is why i made my point. none of these men are attractive AND accomplished, and, except for a-rod, none is comparable to BA in terms of celebrity. meanwhile, BA has dated several A listers, and could easily date another dozen right now. who is JLO going to date next?

Tom Cruise

she would but he won't

She wouldn't. Her former BFF Leah Rimini told her too much about how Scientology operates.

Anonymous wrote:New day. New article from Ben's team."Ben feels like Jen has a hard time feeling satisfied and that's one of the issues they're facing. Ben is one of the only people who feels comfortable enough to be honest and real with Jen. It's part of why Jen loves him, but also why she's upset with him." "Ben and Jen are going through normal problems and nothing scandalous is going on."

https://www.etonline.com/ben-affleck-feels-like-jennifer-lopez-has-a-hard-time-feeling-satisfied-source-says-225881?

this is not ben's team. he is not going to write "she loves her fans so much".

People magazine has broken the news that things are sour.

https://people.com/ben-affleck-jennifer-lopez-marriage-not-in-best-place-exclusive-8651551

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Anonymous wrote:for whatever reason (male, white “smart”) BA has been able to attract much more desirable partners than JLO. BA is her “best catch” in terms of appearance and star power. her other partners are either unattractive or not professionally accomplished.

Marc Anthony is professionally accomplished. And she's dated Alex Rodrigues, Drake, Ben, and P. Diddy. Yes, most of these guys have serious issues but they are all very professionally accomplished and most are pretty good looking.

She has a thing for dancers and has had several relationships with them. I actually think this reflects a good instinct -- the desire to be with someone who shares a passion for music and dance, is a fundamentally artistic person. But you can't be JLo and date some regular guy dancer/choreographer. It won't work out. Not just because she's famous but because she's an exhibitionist and loves the limelight -- a mortal is not going to survive in that environment. But this also torpedos her relationship with celebs.

I think she's not really built for stable relationships but is a romantic and doesn't like being alone either.

i know who she has dated, which is why i made my point. none of these men are attractive AND accomplished, and, except for a-rod, none is comparable to BA in terms of celebrity. meanwhile, BA has dated several A listers, and could easily date another dozen right now. who is JLO going to date next?

Tom Cruise

she would but he won't

New day. New article from Ben's team."Ben feels like Jen has a hard time feeling satisfied and that's one of the issues they're facing. Ben is one of the only people who feels comfortable enough to be honest and real with Jen. It's part of why Jen loves him, but also why she's upset with him." "Ben and Jen are going through normal problems and nothing scandalous is going on."

https://www.etonline.com/ben-affleck-feels-like-jennifer-lopez-has-a-hard-time-feeling-satisfied-source-says-225881?

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Anonymous wrote:It probably stings that Ben had three kids with JG and none with JLo.

This. She talks all the game about the greatest love story, and how he’s always loved her but…he created three people with another woman and that’s his family forever more. She never got that and will never have that with him.

Bingo!!! The love of your life had a 10-year marriage and 3 children with another woman. Tough breaks. And he totally was in love with Jen Garner at that time. She was hot as hell in Alias and in hot demand by many famous men.

And he still values and JG and is often seen laughing and deep in conversation. He had a major midlife crisis and hit rock bottom and knows she would never go back.

Please drop the Jen G thing. She's wonderful, both know they're not suited, the end.

So much more class and good sense than Bennifer. Too stable for those nutjobs.

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Anonymous wrote:for whatever reason (male, white “smart”) BA has been able to attract much more desirable partners than JLO. BA is her “best catch” in terms of appearance and star power. her other partners are either unattractive or not professionally accomplished.

Marc Anthony is professionally accomplished. And she's dated Alex Rodrigues, Drake, Ben, and P. Diddy. Yes, most of these guys have serious issues but they are all very professionally accomplished and most are pretty good looking.

She has a thing for dancers and has had several relationships with them. I actually think this reflects a good instinct -- the desire to be with someone who shares a passion for music and dance, is a fundamentally artistic person. But you can't be JLo and date some regular guy dancer/choreographer. It won't work out. Not just because she's famous but because she's an exhibitionist and loves the limelight -- a mortal is not going to survive in that environment. But this also torpedos her relationship with celebs.

I think she's not really built for stable relationships but is a romantic and doesn't like being alone either.

i know who she has dated, which is why i made my point. none of these men are attractive AND accomplished, and, except for a-rod, none is comparable to BA in terms of celebrity. meanwhile, BA has dated several A listers, and could easily date another dozen right now. who is JLO going to date next?

I don't think jlo is trying to date her equal

like a vast majority of women, she prefers to date someone more accomplished than her. she also wants to date a man who is sought by other women. she needs to show there rest of us that this man chose her, because she is so much more than we are. it's the ultimate proof of her position among women.

only AB fits that bill for her. i mean, she would gladly date brad pitt, but that's not gonna happen.

I have a different take. Jennifer Lopez has such a tenuous grasp on her self-esteem that she needs to keep going, striving, amassing or else reality will put her in her "proper" place. I believe she really loves Ben and that there absolutely was (is?) an element of 'I can't believe I got him'. She's like someone obnoxiously posting on SM about her perfect marriage and her hot "hubby" but the difference is JL has millions to spend blowing up this narrative for public consumption.

Their union is like a dozen others where I look at the spouse and wonder, How do you stay in that mess? For example, men who set up with Real Housewives or Kardashians. Or women who marry into the enclave of Stoic Male Influencers. Ladies, why?

The difference is that we have access to both sides of this high profile marriage on the skids. Would it help if she took their relationship offline? Probably. Would it help if he didn't emotionally and physically bail when he's too grouchy for too long? Probably.

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Anonymous wrote:for whatever reason (male, white “smart”) BA has been able to attract much more desirable partners than JLO. BA is her “best catch” in terms of appearance and star power. her other partners are either unattractive or not professionally accomplished.

Marc Anthony is professionally accomplished. And she's dated Alex Rodrigues, Drake, Ben, and P. Diddy. Yes, most of these guys have serious issues but they are all very professionally accomplished and most are pretty good looking.

She has a thing for dancers and has had several relationships with them. I actually think this reflects a good instinct -- the desire to be with someone who shares a passion for music and dance, is a fundamentally artistic person. But you can't be JLo and date some regular guy dancer/choreographer. It won't work out. Not just because she's famous but because she's an exhibitionist and loves the limelight -- a mortal is not going to survive in that environment. But this also torpedos her relationship with celebs.

I think she's not really built for stable relationships but is a romantic and doesn't like being alone either.

i know who she has dated, which is why i made my point. none of these men are attractive AND accomplished, and, except for a-rod, none is comparable to BA in terms of celebrity. meanwhile, BA has dated several A listers, and could easily date another dozen right now. who is JLO going to date next?

Tom Cruise

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Anonymous wrote:for whatever reason (male, white “smart”) BA has been able to attract much more desirable partners than JLO. BA is her “best catch” in terms of appearance and star power. her other partners are either unattractive or not professionally accomplished.

Marc Anthony is professionally accomplished. And she's dated Alex Rodrigues, Drake, Ben, and P. Diddy. Yes, most of these guys have serious issues but they are all very professionally accomplished and most are pretty good looking.

She has a thing for dancers and has had several relationships with them. I actually think this reflects a good instinct -- the desire to be with someone who shares a passion for music and dance, is a fundamentally artistic person. But you can't be JLo and date some regular guy dancer/choreographer. It won't work out. Not just because she's famous but because she's an exhibitionist and loves the limelight -- a mortal is not going to survive in that environment. But this also torpedos her relationship with celebs.

I think she's not really built for stable relationships but is a romantic and doesn't like being alone either.

i know who she has dated, which is why i made my point. none of these men are attractive AND accomplished, and, except for a-rod, none is comparable to BA in terms of celebrity. meanwhile, BA has dated several A listers, and could easily date another dozen right now. who is JLO going to date next?

I don't think jlo is trying to date her equal

like a vast majority of women, she prefers to date someone more accomplished than her. she also wants to date a man who is sought by other women. she needs to show there rest of us that this man chose her, because she is so much more than we are. it's the ultimate proof of her position among women.

only AB fits that bill for her. i mean, she would gladly date brad pitt, but that's not gonna happen.

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Anonymous wrote:for whatever reason (male, white “smart”) BA has been able to attract much more desirable partners than JLO. BA is her “best catch” in terms of appearance and star power. her other partners are either unattractive or not professionally accomplished.

Marc Anthony is professionally accomplished. And she's dated Alex Rodrigues, Drake, Ben, and P. Diddy. Yes, most of these guys have serious issues but they are all very professionally accomplished and most are pretty good looking.

She has a thing for dancers and has had several relationships with them. I actually think this reflects a good instinct -- the desire to be with someone who shares a passion for music and dance, is a fundamentally artistic person. But you can't be JLo and date some regular guy dancer/choreographer. It won't work out. Not just because she's famous but because she's an exhibitionist and loves the limelight -- a mortal is not going to survive in that environment. But this also torpedos her relationship with celebs.

I think she's not really built for stable relationships but is a romantic and doesn't like being alone either.

i know who she has dated, which is why i made my point. none of these men are attractive AND accomplished, and, except for a-rod, none is comparable to BA in terms of celebrity. meanwhile, BA has dated several A listers, and could easily date another dozen right now. who is JLO going to date next?

I don't think jlo is trying to date her equal

Women hating other women. Do not change DCUM.

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Anonymous wrote:for whatever reason (male, white “smart”) BA has been able to attract much more desirable partners than JLO. BA is her “best catch” in terms of appearance and star power. her other partners are either unattractive or not professionally accomplished.

Marc Anthony is professionally accomplished. And she's dated Alex Rodrigues, Drake, Ben, and P. Diddy. Yes, most of these guys have serious issues but they are all very professionally accomplished and most are pretty good looking.

She has a thing for dancers and has had several relationships with them. I actually think this reflects a good instinct -- the desire to be with someone who shares a passion for music and dance, is a fundamentally artistic person. But you can't be JLo and date some regular guy dancer/choreographer. It won't work out. Not just because she's famous but because she's an exhibitionist and loves the limelight -- a mortal is not going to survive in that environment. But this also torpedos her relationship with celebs.

I think she's not really built for stable relationships but is a romantic and doesn't like being alone either.

i know who she has dated, which is why i made my point. none of these men are attractive AND accomplished, and, except for a-rod, none is comparable to BA in terms of celebrity. meanwhile, BA has dated several A listers, and could easily date another dozen right now. who is JLO going to date next?

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Anonymous wrote:for whatever reason (male, white “smart”) BA has been able to attract much more desirable partners than JLO. BA is her “best catch” in terms of appearance and star power. her other partners are either unattractive or not professionally accomplished.

It's because there are less steady men out there than women.

Ben doesn't seem like much of a catch to me. He's a hairy, flabby, alcoholic smoker who always looks annoyed, with the baggage of three kids. I wouldn't date him.

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Anonymous wrote:It probably stings that Ben had three kids with JG and none with JLo.

This. She talks all the game about the greatest love story, and how he’s always loved her but…he created three people with another woman and that’s his family forever more. She never got that and will never have that with him.

Bingo!!! The love of your life had a 10-year marriage and 3 children with another woman. Tough breaks. And he totally was in love with Jen Garner at that time. She was hot as hell in Alias and in hot demand by many famous men.

And he still values and JG and is often seen laughing and deep in conversation. He had a major midlife crisis and hit rock bottom and knows she would never go back.

Please drop the Jen G thing. She's wonderful, both know they're not suited, the end.

This. He obviously cares very much for Jlo too. He kept their letters for a reason.

What ever happened to her restaurant?