Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:Our society has changed a lot. Women don't need men to have a fulfilling life. And they tell men every chance they get.
+1. What can a man offers a woman that she cannot have by herself if she is financially successful?
Sex - easy (the younger she goes the easier)
Child- easy (adoption, or sperm donor/
Money, - easy(more women graduating college and quickly climbing corporate ladder)
Emotional support - other women (their friends) better suited for that
Taking care of the home and a man-child - they can easily avoid that by not marrying and they will be much happier
Longevity - I heard never married single women live longer
So what do women need men?
So you won't become a lonely shrew on a message board.
A woman surrounded by her friends is not lonely.
How old are you? What married women are hanging out with girlfriends even one day, let alone seven days a week? Married mothers are too consumed with their husband, kids, then grandkids -- plus a career, if they have one. Girlie get togethers happen once or twice a year, if that.
Are you being purposely obtuse or just illiterate? Maybe read the thread so you understand the conversation that is happening.
Long threads have sub threads. A PP in this specific sub thread said a woman surrounded by friends is not lonely and thus doesn't need a husband. However, no such thing exists in real life past your late 20s or early 30s. Once you hit your late 20s and all your girlfriends are getting married, nobody is "surrounded by girlfriends" day in and day out ever again. Your girlfriends are consumed with their husbands, kids, and careers.
Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:Our society has changed a lot. Women don't need men to have a fulfilling life. And they tell men every chance they get.
+1. What can a man offers a woman that she cannot have by herself if she is financially successful?
Sex - easy (the younger she goes the easier)
Child- easy (adoption, or sperm donor/
Money, - easy(more women graduating college and quickly climbing corporate ladder)
Emotional support - other women (their friends) better suited for that
Taking care of the home and a man-child - they can easily avoid that by not marrying and they will be much happier
Longevity - I heard never married single women live longer
So what do women need men?
So you won't become a lonely shrew on a message board.
A woman surrounded by her friends is not lonely.
How old are you? What married women are hanging out with girlfriends even one day, let alone seven days a week? Married mothers are too consumed with their husband, kids, then grandkids -- plus a career, if they have one. Girlie get togethers happen once or twice a year, if that.
Are you being purposely obtuse or just illiterate? Maybe read the thread so you understand the conversation that is happening.
Long threads have sub threads. A PP in this specific sub thread said a woman surrounded by friends is not lonely and thus doesn't need a husband. However, no such thing exists in real life past your late 20s or early 30s. Once you hit your late 20s and all your girlfriends are getting married, nobody is "surrounded by girlfriends" day in and day out ever again. Your girlfriends are consumed with their husbands, kids, and careers.
Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:Our society has changed a lot. Women don't need men to have a fulfilling life. And they tell men every chance they get.
+1. What can a man offers a woman that she cannot have by herself if she is financially successful?
Sex - easy (the younger she goes the easier)
Child- easy (adoption, or sperm donor/
Money, - easy(more women graduating college and quickly climbing corporate ladder)
Emotional support - other women (their friends) better suited for that
Taking care of the home and a man-child - they can easily avoid that by not marrying and they will be much happier
Longevity - I heard never married single women live longer
So what do women need men?
So you won't become a lonely shrew on a message board.
A woman surrounded by her friends is not lonely.
How old are you? What married women are hanging out with girlfriends even one day, let alone seven days a week? Married mothers are too consumed with their husband, kids, then grandkids -- plus a career, if they have one. Girlie get togethers happen once or twice a year, if that.
Are you being purposely obtuse or just illiterate? Maybe read the thread so you understand the conversation that is happening.
Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:https://www.nytimes.com/2025/06/20/style/modern-love-men-where-have-you-gone-please-come-back.html?smid=nytcore-ios-share&referringSource=articleShare
Wonder what posters here think of this and if things are equal in dc or no?
I would be curious if the author, in addition to her anecdotes, talked to 24, 34 and 44, and 64 year olds.
This yearning for "real men" [to return] has been a trope for generations. Example, in the mid 1990s there was this Grammy-nominated top 10 song "Where Have All The Cowboys Gone" by Paula Cole:
What a throwback. Is this the original trad wife song? “I’ll do the laundry if you pay all the bills” and she calls that “her happy ending” fantasy. I’m surprised this hasn’t yet been a hit country cover song in 2025.
The lyrics in the last verse of this song are not positive. I don't think it's the tradwife anthem it appears upon superficial glance.
Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:Our society has changed a lot. Women don't need men to have a fulfilling life. And they tell men every chance they get.
+1. What can a man offers a woman that she cannot have by herself if she is financially successful?
Sex - easy (the younger she goes the easier)
Child- easy (adoption, or sperm donor/
Money, - easy(more women graduating college and quickly climbing corporate ladder)
Emotional support - other women (their friends) better suited for that
Taking care of the home and a man-child - they can easily avoid that by not marrying and they will be much happier
Longevity - I heard never married single women live longer
So what do women need men?
So you won't become a lonely shrew on a message board.
A woman surrounded by her friends is not lonely.
How old are you? What married women are hanging out with girlfriends even one day, let alone seven days a week? Married mothers are too consumed with their husband, kids, then grandkids -- plus a career, if they have one. Girlie get togethers happen once or twice a year, if that.
Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:Our society has changed a lot. Women don't need men to have a fulfilling life. And they tell men every chance they get.
+1. What can a man offers a woman that she cannot have by herself if she is financially successful?
Sex - easy (the younger she goes the easier)
Child- easy (adoption, or sperm donor/
Money, - easy(more women graduating college and quickly climbing corporate ladder)
Emotional support - other women (their friends) better suited for that
Taking care of the home and a man-child - they can easily avoid that by not marrying and they will be much happier
Longevity - I heard never married single women live longer
So what do women need men?
So you won't become a lonely shrew on a message board.
A woman surrounded by her friends is not lonely.
Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:https://www.nytimes.com/2025/06/20/style/modern-love-men-where-have-you-gone-please-come-back.html?smid=nytcore-ios-share&referringSource=articleShare
Wonder what posters here think of this and if things are equal in dc or no?
I would be curious if the author, in addition to her anecdotes, talked to 24, 34 and 44, and 64 year olds.
This yearning for "real men" [to return] has been a trope for generations. Example, in the mid 1990s there was this Grammy-nominated top 10 song "Where Have All The Cowboys Gone" by Paula Cole:
What a throwback. Is this the original trad wife song? “I’ll do the laundry if you pay all the bills” and she calls that “her happy ending” fantasy. I’m surprised this hasn’t yet been a hit country cover song in 2025.
The lyrics in the last verse of this song are not positive. I don't think it's the tradwife anthem it appears upon superficial glance.
Anonymous wrote:Young single men are trying to lock down nice young tradwives these days. No one is interested in run through heaux.