Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:A school with only 27 teens and 1:3 ratio?
Appears the diagnosis must have been pretty severe, we understand boy was mentally ill, but I wonder what was the daughter's condition to warrant this school?
If both had severe needs, I agree parents should have focussed more on mental stability rather than focus on the Nazi obsession.
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The buzzfeed article says that one Buckley’s concerns was how the excessive amount of time her daughter spent on the phone with her boyfriend made her forget her meds, etc.
Quoted PP here. Right, even if this boy was a liberal who loved Jews, he was still bad news. So the Nazi aspect was a red herring.
I also feel the matter should have been discussed privately between school and both sets of parents without involving unrelated friends like the 18 year old in the article or emailing the contents around. Regular discipline methods like curfew, social shaming and grounding probably did not work here.
Both sets of parents likely underestimated the criticality of the situation. It is a no win situation overall.
I would be very interested in knowing how he got the gun, since given that anything could have set off this boy, not having the gun seems to be the only way to have avoided this tragedy.
He didn't need a gun to get into that house. If it hadn't have been a gun it could have been a baseball bat, a knife, a brick or God only knows what else.
But chances are high that, had the weapon been a baseball bat, knife, a brick or God only knows what else, the parents would still be alive today.
The problem is ACCESS TO GUNS and the sheer number of guns that are floating around in seemingly "normal" homes and communities now.
And for that, the NRA and gun manufacturers have blood on their hands.
I dunno. The Manson family didn't need guns to carry out their horrors.
Oh please. The Manson family were professional killers, not some 17 year old idiot yahoo, going up against two adults.
Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:For me, the most important detail that hasn't been clarified yet is: how did he get a gun? Having access to a gun made it infinitely easier to kill the victims.
The answer to this would seem fairly obvious, he swiped it from his parents.
Anonymous wrote:For me, the most important detail that hasn't been clarified yet is: how did he get a gun? Having access to a gun made it infinitely easier to kill the victims.
Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:For me, the most important detail that hasn't been clarified yet is: how did he get a gun? Having access to a gun made it infinitely easier to kill the victims.
Does anyone know if the fig has been freed? Will the dog go with the uncle?
. I definitely won't be judging if the dog is not with the uncle. For all we know they have a dog that doesn't get along with his dog cousin or they could have young kids fearful of dogs or allergies. There is someone on here well connected in the shelter and rescue community who can probably find out where the dog is.Anonymous wrote:For me, the most important detail that hasn't been clarified yet is: how did he get a gun? Having access to a gun made it infinitely easier to kill the victims.
Anonymous wrote:For me, the most important detail that hasn't been clarified yet is: how did he get a gun? Having access to a gun made it infinitely easier to kill the victims.
Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:This is just a shout out to the two/three posters who discussed the de Becker book The Gift of Fear way, way back near the beginning of this thread. I ordered the book after reading your posts and the book arrived yesterday. I just finished it. You're right that it has a lot of merit, especially in context of this situation. Thank you for your discussion of the book so that I, and hopefully others, were able to learn from it.
You're welcome! You should also read Protecting the Gift. I found both books very eye opening.
Signed,
One of the posters who got flamed for mentioning these very applicable books
Anonymous wrote:For me, the most important detail that hasn't been clarified yet is: how did he get a gun? Having access to a gun made it infinitely easier to kill the victims.
Anonymous wrote:Just makes you realize that absolute depth of this tragedy. That poor little boy. Thank goodness his uncle is able to step up like that.
Anonymous wrote:I am not sure where the children are now, but it seems the brother is seeking custody.
https://www.gofundme.com/fricker-family-fund