jsteele wrote:
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jsteele wrote:
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jsteele wrote:
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Anonymous wrote:So if your child had a friend who was a minority, you would not invite that child to a party because there is "potential" trouble inviting that kid to a private pool? See...here is the issue. I do not see what trouble could arise other than some busybody making a comment. Which, if this is my child's friend, I will stand up and respond to. I do not care what color they are. What kind of example are you setting for your child? Keep quiet if one of your friends is treated unjustly? You may be able to live in peace, but your child is the one who is going to have to face her friend everyday in school. And these are just children! No way I would put my own child or her friend through that. Belonging to "the club" is just not that important to me (and I DO belong to a private pool that, thankfully, has a number of AA families).
This is where we part. I don't have a private pool. I don't belong to a private club. I live among many black people, not 'a number of AA families'. Where I stand, it's more important to keep your nose clean and avoid any blemish on your personal record the best way you can. We, the great unwashed, have to keep it real. We don't have lawyers on retainer to deal with potential civil suits from angry moms of allegedly mistreated kids.
I oversee a very diverse group of people at work. Racial conflict is not common, but it surfaces once in a while. Not once have I heard a substantiated claim from a black employee who complained about 'racism'. I have to deal with the fallout, because it's my job. But I want to spare my kid this insanity. Go ahead, judge and label me all you want; it is irrelevant to me. Because
my child is a white male, it doesn't matter what he does or doesn't do. When push comes to shove, he will be deemed the root of all evil by default. I have to teach my child to stay away for his own sake. I have seen too many lives practically ruined over false allegations. My child deserves better.
White males, apparently the most oppressed group on earth. I've said it before, but DCUM truly has become the Onion.
Jeff, if you know the previous PP is a troll, please tell us.
If you don't, I'd say your response above is inappropriate and racist. PP's opinion is as valid as everyone else's, and to have DCUM's God himself descend from the skies to make an unwarranted attack resembles bullying. IMO of course.
My response is inappropriate and racist? You are taking the "DCUM has become the Onion" suggestion a little too seriously. Did you bother to read the post? It was insulting to previous posters, full of denial of the impact of racism, and concluded by claiming that society considers white males the "root of all evil". My response was, if anything, restrained.
The incident involving the swimming pool -- if it happened as reported here -- is about as clearcut case of racism that you are going to see these days. "You can't come because you are black" is about as basic as you can get. Responding to that with a tale of racial discrimination complaints never being true and white males being unfairly considered evil is pretty ridiculous Of course, it's her opinion and she is welcome to express it. But, I don't have to be silent about it.
I am the PP and not a troll
I wouldn't call your response racist, but it is a typical 'Jeff' reaction. Jeff has little to counter and resorts to humor. I don't mind. As I said, this is irrelevant. I, however, am curious as to what in my message exactly points to:
1. Insult of previous posters;
2. Anything regarding the impact of racism.
Today's society does consider white males the root of all evil. (I can phrase it differently, I guess, but I'm too tired to bicker about semantics.) My kid, like every white male in the country, is better off not touching race with a six-foot pole. This may be news in McLean, but the rest of us have been informed accordingly.
What was insulting to previous posters was your entire first paragraph:
This is where we part. I don't have a private pool. I don't belong to a private club. I live among many black people, not 'a number of AA families'. Where I stand, it's more important to keep your nose clean and avoid any blemish on your personal record the best way you can. We, the great unwashed, have to keep it real. We don't have lawyers on retainer to deal with potential civil suits from angry moms of allegedly mistreated kids.
You seem to be saying that it is reasonable and understandable to disinvite someone based on her color because if she became a victim of real or imagined mistreatment, she would be apt to sue you. You are viewing black children as little more than potential legal liabilities. You also appear to suggest that because the mom in this instance is a person of reasonable means, she likely has legal help lined up to pursue "alleged" mistreatment. So, while the children are potential liabilities, the parents are potential legal threats. Do you believe that the previous poster would not find such suggestions insulting?
Your second paragraph discusses the impact of racism:
I oversee a very diverse group of people at work. Racial conflict is not common, but it surfaces once in a while. Not once have I heard a substantiated claim from a black employee who complained about 'racism'. I have to deal with the fallout, because it's my job. But I want to spare my kid this insanity. Go ahead, judge and label me all you want; it is irrelevant to me. Because my child is a white male, it doesn't matter what he does or doesn't do. When push comes to shove, he will be deemed the root of all evil by default. I have to teach my child to stay away for his own sake. I have seen too many lives practically ruined over false allegations. My child deserves better.
According to you, you have never heard of a claim of racism by an employee that was substantiated, suggesting that all such claims are frivolous. Moreover, you are left to "deal with the fallout" of these frivolous allegations. You conclude that white males are seen as the "root of all evil" and are not given fair defenses when facing racial allegations. So, the impact of racism, as you see it, is false accusations, more work for you, and a host of wrongly-convicted white males. Though, in your defense, you might not consider this to be the "impact of racism" because you don't seem to acknowledge the existence of racism in these instances because it is all fabricated.
When your white male son is routinely followed through department stores, is reported to the police because he is walking down the street, can't catch a taxi cab, is shot on sight while holding a toy gun, or is disinvited from a swimming party because of his race, then maybe we can discuss how society views white males.