Anonymous wrote:Has anyone else noticed it’s always “the best weekend”? I don’t see how it can always be “the best”.

This is exactly why I gave up listening to her podcast. I used to be a fan of Jen’s written work, but I just couldn’t with her “the is the best guest I’ve ever had on” and “listen to this guys, etc” for 3-4 MINUTES every week before the actual interview. I never even tried the YouTube version. I would have lasted 10 seconds.

Okay, I'm all for sarcasm and a good snark, but let's stay on this side of just flat-out mean, like the comment above mine. I just picked up a copy of Fierce, Free, and Full of Fire from a used book store and read it. Some good stuff and some cringeworthy stuff for sure. But Jen points out that she's an Enneagram 3 and that when 3s are at their worst, they're basically shilling, crazy spotlight hogs at the expense of all others to try and find their footing. By her own standard, she's floundering badly. This is the kind of situation that is prime for her to read the mean comments and consider suicide. And then if you posted a mean comment, you'd have that to deal with. By all means, hold her accountable and call out the garbage. But stay on this side of the mean line.

Everytime Big Sis sees a Magnolia Magazine at the local HEB or sees a Property Brothers commercial on HGTV an angel gets its wings.

#YouFailedJen

Hard pivot AWAY from the Sex Course nonsense on her recent posts.

What are you talking about? Jen has the BEST boyfriend and the BEST family and the BEST friends and the BEST community and the BEST time always… unless she’s going through trauma. Then it’s 5 minutes at the bottom of the ocean but don’t worry, she’s the BEST healer.

Has anyone else noticed it’s always “the best weekend”? I don’t see how it can always be “the best”.

It must be exhausting always trying to present a false and fake image to the world. Jen is 100% feeling the pressure. It's easy to broadcast success, contentment, achievement, glory, and romantic love when you are on top of the world.

It's way harder, though, to broadcast success, contentment, achievement, glory, and romantic love when you aren't really a big shot anymore, when your fan base is falling away, when you don't have a book deal anymore, and when your boyfriend is a disinterested user just in it for the likes and clicks.

Well by her own frequent admittance, Jen has grown up her entire life overvalued:

“We demonstrate that narcissism in children is cultivated by parental overvaluation: parents believing their child to be more special and more entitled than others.”
https://www.pnas.org/doi/10.1073/pnas.1420870112

And then she found Brandon and a cult following of besties who also fawned over her like the sun shines out her bum.

Not sure what Tyler’s origin story is… sounds like the typical low self-esteem theatre kid who probably never felt like he got the adoration he deserved. So he used that as an excuse to treat women as disposable except for Shannon who is clearly his “main supply” of narc fuel.

Now Tyler knows he needs Jen to continue boosting his popularity but he really can’t stand her, which is why we see all the devaluation tactics (e.g., cutting her off, putting her down) now that most of the love bombing has subsided.

Jen can never be the “loser” especially not compared to Brandon and his goddess Tina so she’ll aggressively prop up the relationship for as long as possible despite zero effort on Tyler’s side to progress things to a deeper level. Notice there was zero mention of their “first anniversary” in February. If Tyler had made the slightest effort, Jen would’ve shouted that out to the moon.

Some woman replied: hanging out with you both might be the highlights of my WHOLE ENTIRE LIFE. you can't blame them for having egos when they surround themselves with sychophants

Has Jen’s team given up? There are barely any comments in a TYLER video and half of them are spam.

Why am I not surprised that Jen is someone that takes videos with her phone at a concert? You have the privilege of sitting in the front row! Put your damn phone down and enjoy the moment!

Her turning the camera to his hand on her leg while the singer talks about people getting pregnant during his song is just juvenile. She desperately wants everyone (Brandon? This page?) to see that. Why? Tyler is not amused…at all. It’s the eye roll for me.

And I cannot with calling grown adults “Baby” … she is incessant with it in the concert/engagement video.

Cheap fake and basic
The Hatmaker away

I haven’t listened to this yet but noticed JH was a recent guest in this marketing podcast:
https://podcasts.apple.com/us/podcast/551-the-anti-niche-jen-hatmakers-approach-to-creating/id594703545?i=1000603257029

Yeah I wonder if he’s put boundaries up about her filming and posting their time together bc she’s got a camera rolling all the time but theres no documentation of his trips to Austin etx.