Anonymous
Post 05/27/2023 11:40     Subject: What secrets do most of your friends & family not know about you?
Anonymous wrote:
^^^ I would be someones love bug for 100K a year, and I have 2 master's degrees. It's not just for airheads.


I have a few friends who are sugar daddies. They're not paying out that kind of money, especially to a middle aged mom type. $1-3k/month is more typical unless you're a model or something.
Anonymous
Post 05/27/2023 11:39     Subject: What secrets do most of your friends & family not know about you?
Anonymous wrote:I'm a Domina. I look very boring in real life, a little old lady near retirement age, but have about $20k of equipment in the basement. My friends who know are also in the local scene.


Weird
Anonymous
Post 05/27/2023 11:26     Subject: What secrets do most of your friends & family not know about you?
Hit the lottery for a million dollars, and tucked the winnings into a savings account for future spending. No it hasn’t changed me for the worst, I’m still the same person I was before my little windfall. Comforting knowing I have just shy of $500k in the bank if needed.
Anonymous
Post 05/26/2023 18:05     Subject: What secrets do most of your friends & family not know about you?
I'm a Domina. I look very boring in real life, a little old lady near retirement age, but have about $20k of equipment in the basement. My friends who know are also in the local scene.
Anonymous
Post 05/26/2023 14:53     Subject: What secrets do most of your friends & family not know about you?
Anonymous wrote:I’ve spent over a million dollars on escorts massage parlors 3 somes low end hookers and street hookups over the past 20 years


What a waste you could’ve just put that money in aapl
Anonymous
Post 05/26/2023 14:53     Subject: Re:What secrets do most of your friends & family not know about you?
Moved cross-country in late Feb and haven’t told anyone yet.
Anonymous
Post 05/26/2023 14:50     Subject: What secrets do most of your friends & family not know about you?
Well there is the abortion, which I don't tell people about because too many of my friends are dealing with infertility. I'm very vocally pro-choice though.

Right now people don't know how much I'm struggling with my health. I think they just think I'm a crappy friend and lazy. I share a lot of other things (good, bad, and neutral) on social media and I'm sort of tempted to share something about my health struggles, but I also feel like that's just sort of boring and nobody wants to hear it.
Anonymous
Post 05/26/2023 14:49     Subject: What secrets do most of your friends & family not know about you?
I’ve spent over a million dollars on escorts massage parlors 3 somes low end hookers and street hookups over the past 20 years
Anonymous
Post 05/26/2023 12:59     Subject: What secrets do most of your friends & family not know about you?
Anonymous wrote:I’m autistic.


Said with kindness. Others may know this. It depends. Do you mask?
Anonymous
Post 05/26/2023 12:58     Subject: What secrets do most of your friends & family not know about you?
My ACE’s score is 9. Everything except for family imprisonment happened to me.
Anonymous
Post 05/26/2023 12:33     Subject: Re:What secrets do most of your friends & family not know about you?
Anonymous wrote:
Anonymous wrote:
Anonymous wrote:I have spent thousands of dollars over the years on professional pictures of just myself for no particular reason. Not nudes, and not work headshots. I buy prints of them and told DH my friend took them for free. They’re mostly outdoor shots.


Good for you! Enjoy yourself! Do you enjoy the glam part of it?


Thank you. They are actually outdoor/shots for the most part. On beaches, deserts & mountains.


Cool! What general area (nothing too identifying) are you in, to have those backdrops?
Anonymous
Post 05/26/2023 12:18     Subject: What secrets do most of your friends & family not know about you?
Anonymous wrote:
Anonymous wrote:
Anonymous wrote:My niece who lives in LA is 26 and has been doing porn for 6 years; she tells the family she is modeling. She confided in me and I will never tell. I cannot believe how much money she making.
Have you looked up her videos?


I’m sure he’s done more than look them up


I am her aunt. No, i have no desire to see her films.
Anonymous
Post 05/26/2023 08:10     Subject: What secrets do most of your friends & family not know about you?
I’m autistic.
Anonymous
Post 05/26/2023 08:08     Subject: What secrets do most of your friends & family not know about you?
Anonymous wrote:
Anonymous wrote:
Anonymous wrote:I had a pretty bad eating disorder in my 20s. Had to be hospitalized for a brief time. I am now your typical overweight suburban mom and I LOVE that I love my body as it is. However, when someone shares the (very rare) photo of me from that time, I'm always complimented on how good I look (while I'm in intensive impatient program at 5'7 and 95 lbs).


Sad statement about the norms pushed to us by the media /fashion industry.


I had bulimia in college. Went through counseling and outpatient treatment. Told no one. My future MIL saw photos of me from this time (for something wedding related) and commented on
how “chubby” I was. Decided then and there that I’d never tell her anything personal, to include announcing pregnancies early or anything health-related.


This seems very dramatic and histrionic. How on earth was she to know that your chubby physique was due to an eating disorder? Of course it’s never tactful to comment on someones weight but if someone has a bit of extra weight and is now thin or average, then it is noticeable.
Anonymous
Post 05/26/2023 06:48     Subject: What secrets do most of your friends & family not know about you?
Anonymous wrote:
Anonymous wrote:My niece who lives in LA is 26 and has been doing porn for 6 years; she tells the family she is modeling. She confided in me and I will never tell. I cannot believe how much money she making.
Have you looked up her videos?


I’m sure he’s done more than look them up