Anonymous
Post 08/01/2021 10:56     Subject: Introverted relatives

Anonymous wrote:
Anonymous wrote:Perhaps your children damaged something in her home and she doesn’t want them inside.


My children have NEVER been to her home. NEVER. She never invites our family over. She never invites her parents over. So no, my parents have never damaged anything in her house.


You know this, yet you plan on confronting her about your children’s hurt feelings? REALLY? She hasn’t invited her own mother or father over but you are going to talk to her about how your kids feel? Think really hard about that.

Focus on the relationship and do what you need to foster it. Hint: it doesn’t involve your kids going to her house, ok?
Anonymous
Post 08/01/2021 07:35     Subject: Introverted relatives

Anonymous wrote:
Anonymous wrote:Perhaps your children damaged something in her home and she doesn’t want them inside.


My children have NEVER been to her home. NEVER. She never invites our family over. She never invites her parents over. So no, my parents have never damaged anything in her house.


OP, is it possible that your SIL's house is dirty, untidy or full of junk? Perhaps she is embarrassed to invite people into her house.
Anonymous
Post 07/31/2021 21:58     Subject: Introverted relatives

Anonymous wrote:You’re the worst, OP.


I have never seen so many introverts come out of the woodwork! You all are so cranky and defensive.