Anonymous wrote:
Detrimental in some ways?
- a lot of prestigious opportunities and internships in HS have a strict age-limit and he is always younger by a couple months.
Not really impactful for a kid who is a focussed student and not a wild party animal. YMMV. -
- his driver's license came a few months later than most of his peers
- he will probably be a few months younger than his peers before he can have his first legal beer.
Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:Where is all this evidence? Everything I have seen says that it’s only good for sports. Every kid has that moment where they start to struggle to do well in school when you actually have to study to get good grades. In the long term red shirting doesn’t help.
So why are so many people on here so hot and bothered about other people redshirting and disadvantaging their kids? Something doesn’t add up.
Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:For those of you who don’t know, redshirting is the practice of delaying a fall-born child’s Kindergarten entrance until they’re almost 6 instead of almost 5. This is something I’m thinking about doing with my son, who will be 4 in November and will be eligible for Kindergarten in the fall of 2022. There are many studies that show that kids who are redshirted do better in school as well as later in life, and honestly, you don’t have to be a scientist to see why this makes sense. Kids who start older are going to be more mature and ready to handle the challenges of school. This means they’ll get better grades, get into better colleges, and get better jobs.
You’d think that based on this information, any parent with a fall-born child who could afford an extra year of daycare would redshirt without hesitation. But this is not the case. When I think of all people I know who have fall birthdays and are from affluent families, the vast majority started Kindergarten at 4. As tempted as I am to redshirt my son, I can’t help but feel that there must be a reason why so few parents do it.
If you have a fall-born child who you could afford to redshirt but didn’t, why not? And if you could do it over again, would you redshirt?
How much research have you done on this OP? This study is by two pretty prominent academics and it doesn't make redshirting seem like a slam dunk
https://www.google.com/url?sa=t&source=web&rct=j&url=https://users.nber.org/~dynarski/Deming_Dynarski_Childhood.pdf&ved=2ahUKEwjIt8vouoHxAhVGXM0KHa0nARsQFjAJegQIExAC&usg=AOvVaw2EigEp_u9yAPRXPlGnfLY0
Anonymous wrote:For those of you who don’t know, redshirting is the practice of delaying a fall-born child’s Kindergarten entrance until they’re almost 6 instead of almost 5. This is something I’m thinking about doing with my son, who will be 4 in November and will be eligible for Kindergarten in the fall of 2022. There are many studies that show that kids who are redshirted do better in school as well as later in life, and honestly, you don’t have to be a scientist to see why this makes sense. Kids who start older are going to be more mature and ready to handle the challenges of school. This means they’ll get better grades, get into better colleges, and get better jobs.
You’d think that based on this information, any parent with a fall-born child who could afford an extra year of daycare would redshirt without hesitation. But this is not the case. When I think of all people I know who have fall birthdays and are from affluent families, the vast majority started Kindergarten at 4. As tempted as I am to redshirt my son, I can’t help but feel that there must be a reason why so few parents do it.
If you have a fall-born child who you could afford to redshirt but didn’t, why not? And if you could do it over again, would you redshirt?
Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:Where is all this evidence? Everything I have seen says that it’s only good for sports. Every kid has that moment where they start to struggle to do well in school when you actually have to study to get good grades. In the long term red shirting doesn’t help.
So why are so many people on here so hot and bothered about other people redshirting and disadvantaging their kids? Something doesn’t add up.
I don’t think anybody feels their kids are disadvantaged by others redshirting. I just think it’s a mistake for bright kids especially, but if your child has special needs then it makes sense. I think somehow parents were under the impression that the maturity aspect of it benefits their sons (which it does, temporarily), but it‘s like flunking a grade, it puts them behind their same-age peers. I have sent my kids on-time (and trying to greenshirt my September-birthday youngest), mostly because of academics, though.
When you read these threads there is often someone who chimes in saying it so unfair that her kid has to compete with someone 2 years older than hers. Probably the same one in here now who says kids are going off to college at 20, math is not her strong suit. So yes, some people actually think redshirting is unfair to others even though the people against it are so sure the redshirted kids are losers who will fail at life whose parents have no faith in them. Doesn't make a lot of sense. If it doesn't affect you, why be so judgmental of other parents choices?
I agree with you, there is no competition. My kids have been in class with redshirted boys and I think it’s fairly obvious to most people who they are. The only reason I say anything on these threads is that I think preschool teachers are misguiding anxious moms and insisting their boys need to stay behind to mature, and this is a terrible thing for bright boys. A bright, curious boy does not need to stay behind with a bunch of kids younger than him.
Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:Where is all this evidence? Everything I have seen says that it’s only good for sports. Every kid has that moment where they start to struggle to do well in school when you actually have to study to get good grades. In the long term red shirting doesn’t help.
So why are so many people on here so hot and bothered about other people redshirting and disadvantaging their kids? Something doesn’t add up.
I don’t think anybody feels their kids are disadvantaged by others redshirting. I just think it’s a mistake for bright kids especially, but if your child has special needs then it makes sense. I think somehow parents were under the impression that the maturity aspect of it benefits their sons (which it does, temporarily), but it‘s like flunking a grade, it puts them behind their same-age peers. I have sent my kids on-time (and trying to greenshirt my September-birthday youngest), mostly because of academics, though.
When you read these threads there is often someone who chimes in saying it so unfair that her kid has to compete with someone 2 years older than hers. Probably the same one in here now who says kids are going off to college at 20, math is not her strong suit. So yes, some people actually think redshirting is unfair to others even though the people against it are so sure the redshirted kids are losers who will fail at life whose parents have no faith in them. Doesn't make a lot of sense. If it doesn't affect you, why be so judgmental of other parents choices?
Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:Where is all this evidence? Everything I have seen says that it’s only good for sports. Every kid has that moment where they start to struggle to do well in school when you actually have to study to get good grades. In the long term red shirting doesn’t help.
So why are so many people on here so hot and bothered about other people redshirting and disadvantaging their kids? Something doesn’t add up.
I don’t think anybody feels their kids are disadvantaged by others redshirting. I just think it’s a mistake for bright kids especially, but if your child has special needs then it makes sense. I think somehow parents were under the impression that the maturity aspect of it benefits their sons (which it does, temporarily), but it‘s like flunking a grade, it puts them behind their same-age peers. I have sent my kids on-time (and trying to greenshirt my September-birthday youngest), mostly because of academics, though.
When you read these threads there is often someone who chimes in saying it so unfair that her kid has to compete with someone 2 years older than hers. Probably the same one in here now who says kids are going off to college at 20, math is not her strong suit. So yes, some people actually think redshirting is unfair to others even though the people against it are so sure the redshirted kids are losers who will fail at life whose parents have no faith in them. Doesn't make a lot of sense. If it doesn't affect you, why be so judgmental of other parents choices?
Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:Where is all this evidence? Everything I have seen says that it’s only good for sports. Every kid has that moment where they start to struggle to do well in school when you actually have to study to get good grades. In the long term red shirting doesn’t help.
So why are so many people on here so hot and bothered about other people redshirting and disadvantaging their kids? Something doesn’t add up.
I don’t think anybody feels their kids are disadvantaged by others redshirting. I just think it’s a mistake for bright kids especially, but if your child has special needs then it makes sense. I think somehow parents were under the impression that the maturity aspect of it benefits their sons (which it does, temporarily), but it‘s like flunking a grade, it puts them behind their same-age peers. I have sent my kids on-time (and trying to greenshirt my September-birthday youngest), mostly because of academics, though.
Anonymous wrote:I have a "Greenshirted" kid who is a Junior in HS right now. His birthday is late September and the cut-off was Sept 1. He had to take a test to qualify for early entrance to kindergarten.
Here are the reasons we greenshirted -
- he is very bright and was ahead in all academic markers (could read from 3 yrs of age)
- he was average height and weight, healthy and active.
- he was very well socialized, very articulate, independent, mature and is NT
- keeping him back would have been a disservice to him. - he is the youngest of the siblings and so he was really at par with his elder siblings.
- it made no sense to pay for another year of private school before he could go to public school ES.
He excelled in the classroom and playground. He soon leapfrogged to a more advanced track and program in public school and has really thrived.
Detrimental in some ways?
- a lot of prestigious opportunities and internships in HS have a strict age-limit and he is always younger by a couple months.
Not really impactful for a kid who is a focussed student and not a wild party animal. YMMV. -
- his driver's license came a few months later than most of his peers
- he will probably be a few months younger than his peers before he can have his first legal beer.
Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:Where is all this evidence? Everything I have seen says that it’s only good for sports. Every kid has that moment where they start to struggle to do well in school when you actually have to study to get good grades. In the long term red shirting doesn’t help.
So why are so many people on here so hot and bothered about other people redshirting and disadvantaging their kids? Something doesn’t add up.
Anonymous wrote:Where is all this evidence? Everything I have seen says that it’s only good for sports. Every kid has that moment where they start to struggle to do well in school when you actually have to study to get good grades. In the long term red shirting doesn’t help.
Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:It's not that uncommon. Every year my kids have at least one child in their class who was redshirted.
Yes, but it is always obvious who that kid is. And not always in a positive way. Actually, typically not in a positive way.