Anonymous
Post 05/04/2021 17:01     Subject: Re:Boyfriend judging my past - AITA or what to do?

Anonymous wrote:
Anonymous wrote:
Anonymous wrote:
Anonymous wrote:He is right. You are not trustworthy.


And neither is he. Perfect match.


Actually no one is perfect, and people do change. I didn’t cheat nor lie to my now-ex, and proactively told him about the ex-fling (who I wasn’t sexually involved with, and who was an advocate for my relationship). Since the beginning this guy was involved with a woman I knew nothing about and who knew nothing about me. Anyway, it’s over and I’m using these lessons to continue improving myself and the ways I move through relationships. Appreciate the comments.


Yes. He knew about the friend but I didn’t mention that we saw each other because it was so infrequent.
- that's not proactive.

I'm glad it's over for both of you


Truly appreciate you pointing that out.
Anonymous
Post 05/04/2021 16:17     Subject: Re:Boyfriend judging my past - AITA or what to do?

Anonymous wrote:
Anonymous wrote:
Anonymous wrote:He is right. You are not trustworthy.


And neither is he. Perfect match.


Actually no one is perfect, and people do change. I didn’t cheat nor lie to my now-ex, and proactively told him about the ex-fling (who I wasn’t sexually involved with, and who was an advocate for my relationship). Since the beginning this guy was involved with a woman I knew nothing about and who knew nothing about me. Anyway, it’s over and I’m using these lessons to continue improving myself and the ways I move through relationships. Appreciate the comments.


Yes. He knew about the friend but I didn’t mention that we saw each other because it was so infrequent.
- that's not proactive.

I'm glad it's over for both of you
Anonymous
Post 05/04/2021 13:46     Subject: Re:Boyfriend judging my past - AITA or what to do?

Anonymous wrote:
Anonymous wrote:He is right. You are not trustworthy.


And neither is he. Perfect match.


Actually no one is perfect, and people do change. I didn’t cheat nor lie to my now-ex, and proactively told him about the ex-fling (who I wasn’t sexually involved with, and who was an advocate for my relationship). Since the beginning this guy was involved with a woman I knew nothing about and who knew nothing about me. Anyway, it’s over and I’m using these lessons to continue improving myself and the ways I move through relationships. Appreciate the comments.