Anonymous
Post 03/28/2021 21:12     Subject: My politics contradict my sexual preferences
Liberal guy here. When I was younger, I grew up thinking I had to treat the woman right, blah, blah, blah. Little did I know that it was turning them off. It took me many years to realize the truth about what most women wanted. Men are being raised not to be so open-minded and caring and blah, blah, blah that they are ignoring the biological truth about what actually works in opposite-sex sexual relationships.
Anonymous
Post 03/28/2021 19:55     Subject: My politics contradict my sexual preferences
Anonymous wrote:
Anonymous wrote:I hear you. I am white and my wife is African-American, and we are both super-liberal. However, we engage in a lot of racial abuse and master/slave role-play in the bedroom.

That's mind-boggling to me.

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I am a super-liberal white woman who dated a black man who liked me to degrade him verbally/racially during sex. It was really hard to do, but since I am GGG I did it.
Anonymous
Post 03/27/2021 23:05     Subject: Re:My politics contradict my sexual preferences
Anonymous wrote:I'd like to find a man who is progressive but not into astrology, numerology, polyamory, tattoos, energy healing, "vibrating", "manifesting" and veganism.
It seems difficult.


I live in SF and there are plenty of men like you’re describing. They eat healthier here (generalization, I know), so there are definitely more plant based meals, but lots of guys aren’t full vegan. I’m shocked that this is relatively easy to find in the hippie/liberal/gay/vegan capitol of the world, but you’re having a hard time with it in the dmv. I guess that’s on me for assuming.
Anonymous
Post 03/27/2021 22:17     Subject: Re:My politics contradict my sexual preferences
Anonymous wrote:I'd like to find a man who is progressive but not into astrology, numerology, polyamory, tattoos, energy healing, "vibrating", "manifesting" and veganism.
It seems difficult.


STEM doctorate is a good place to start.
Anonymous
Post 03/27/2021 22:05     Subject: My politics contradict my sexual preferences
I am very liberal and feminist, but love being dominated and degraded in bed.
Anonymous
Post 03/27/2021 19:54     Subject: My politics contradict my sexual preferences
I am a straight feminine liberal and never had a problem finding hot liberal manly men.

Anonymous
Post 03/27/2021 18:34     Subject: My politics contradict my sexual preferences
I haven't read the responses, but it's the DC area. Men are more effeminate and women are less feminine here. Lots of gender-neutral looking straight couples here. It's the only area I've ever been to where even many wealthy people don't seem to care at all about sex appeal in a mate.
Anonymous
Post 03/27/2021 17:26     Subject: Re:My politics contradict my sexual preferences
Anonymous wrote:
Anonymous wrote:I'd like to find a man who is progressive but not into astrology, numerology, polyamory, tattoos, energy healing, "vibrating", "manifesting" and veganism.
It seems difficult.


I did, he's actually a scientist. We have no tattoos, no piercings other than the ears, we believe in God, and are married and cis.

We are personally conservative but liberal politically. Most of my friends are. Being "liberal" doesn't mean you are "woo" and get tatted up.

My dh and I, and most of our friends, are scientists, mathematicians, statisticians, programmers, librarians, historians, doctors, etc... None of us have tats (or visible tats with regular clothes on), none of us have purple hair, none of us are poly.

We are mostly cis, and gay and lesbian couples, personally very conservative with our behavior, accepting of others sexuality, and are super left liberal. Or at least the conservatives have moved so far to the right that we are now far to the left.

It sound like you aren't having around with educated people pp, most of whom are now considered "liberal."


Most of the men I meet are educated but not as educated as I am. Maybe that matters. I don't know. I'm an atheist though, and it's important to me that anyone I become involved with is not religious. He doesn't need to be an atheist. I'm also an urbanite and that matters.
I haven't tried to date in the past year but prior to that I found it difficult to meet anyone who was progressive (I'm pretty much a socialist) but not woo and annoying af.
Anonymous
Post 03/27/2021 14:57     Subject: My politics contradict my sexual preferences
Oh, and my dh and his friends are very traditionally "masculine" except dh cooks. I take care of the house and he is currently rebuilding our potch. I wear skirts and makeup and have long hair. He has short hair, a beard, and a phd.

Not sure where people get these weird ideas about liberals, unless they just watch too much Fox News. Y'all need to get out more.
Anonymous
Post 03/27/2021 14:55     Subject: Re:My politics contradict my sexual preferences
Anonymous wrote:I'd like to find a man who is progressive but not into astrology, numerology, polyamory, tattoos, energy healing, "vibrating", "manifesting" and veganism.
It seems difficult.


I did, he's actually a scientist. We have no tattoos, no piercings other than the ears, we believe in God, and are married and cis.

We are personally conservative but liberal politically. Most of my friends are. Being "liberal" doesn't mean you are "woo" and get tatted up.

My dh and I, and most of our friends, are scientists, mathematicians, statisticians, programmers, librarians, historians, doctors, etc... None of us have tats (or visible tats with regular clothes on), none of us have purple hair, none of us are poly.

We are mostly cis, and gay and lesbian couples, personally very conservative with our behavior, accepting of others sexuality, and are super left liberal. Or at least the conservatives have moved so far to the right that we are now far to the left.

It sound like you aren't having around with educated people pp, most of whom are now considered "liberal."
Anonymous
Post 03/27/2021 14:45     Subject: Re:My politics contradict my sexual preferences
I'd like to find a man who is progressive but not into astrology, numerology, polyamory, tattoos, energy healing, "vibrating", "manifesting" and veganism.
It seems difficult.
Anonymous
Post 03/27/2021 14:43     Subject: My politics contradict my sexual preferences
Anonymous wrote:
Anonymous wrote:
Anonymous wrote:I call troll because of the sheer number of progressive to leftist men I know who do not fit OP's description.


I agree.


Yeah my DH is very masculine and Liberal. This was written by a Conservative troll who wants to promote the idea that all Liberal men are "weak" or "beta" etc.


Bingo.

You can't argue that John Fetterman isn't traditionally masculine, or Robert De Niro, or Michael Jordan. Or the few dozen men I work with, mostly quite leftist.
Anonymous
Post 03/27/2021 14:35     Subject: My politics contradict my sexual preferences
Anonymous wrote:
Anonymous wrote:
Anonymous wrote:I call troll because of the sheer number of progressive to leftist men I know who do not fit OP's description.


I agree.


Yeah my DH is very masculine and Liberal. This was written by a Conservative troll who wants to promote the idea that all Liberal men are "weak" or "beta" etc.


This!
Anonymous
Post 03/27/2021 14:14     Subject: My politics contradict my sexual preferences
Anonymous wrote:
Anonymous wrote:
Anonymous wrote:I call troll because of the sheer number of progressive to leftist men I know who do not fit OP's description.


I agree.


Yeah my DH is very masculine and Liberal. This was written by a Conservative troll who wants to promote the idea that all Liberal men are "weak" or "beta" etc.


+1 We have very dom/him sub/me relationship. DH is very liberal, very masculine, very dominating and has a very giving soft heart.
Anonymous
Post 03/27/2021 03:09     Subject: Re:My politics contradict my sexual preferences
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