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Anonymous wrote:My very thin dad prefers a curvier woman. My mom has always been around a size 8-10 and his previous girlfriends (I've seen photos) had a similar build. I inherited his build and am a size 0-2, and he's always told me I am too thin and need to gain a few lbs.

Size 8-10 is curvy but not necessarily fat in an unattractive way. I can’t tell if OP is chubby in a cute/sexy way or is she grossly fat. OP what size are you? Are you seeking a long-term relationship or casual sex?

I am a size 14 usually can squeeze into a 12 or 10. Since I'm short I look bigger than I am. Seeking LTR definitely.

A 14 at 4'11 is pretty round, so they are definitely playing games with you. I'm sorry.

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Anonymous wrote:My very thin dad prefers a curvier woman. My mom has always been around a size 8-10 and his previous girlfriends (I've seen photos) had a similar build. I inherited his build and am a size 0-2, and he's always told me I am too thin and need to gain a few lbs.

Size 8-10 is curvy but not necessarily fat in an unattractive way. I can’t tell if OP is chubby in a cute/sexy way or is she grossly fat. OP what size are you? Are you seeking a long-term relationship or casual sex?

I am a size 14 usually can squeeze into a 12 or 10. Since I'm short I look bigger than I am. Seeking LTR definitely.

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Anonymous wrote:OP you are really yucky. Not sure why you're playing this game anonymously, but seek help.

Who are you? Why wouldn't I seek dating help on a dating thread?

Because no one here is a qualified therapist, which is obviously what you need to get to the root of your plethora of issues.

What plethora of issues? The only one who has an issue with me is you attacking me. I am here for dating help. If you have no advice please butt out.

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Anonymous wrote:OP you are really yucky. Not sure why you're playing this game anonymously, but seek help.

Who are you? Why wouldn't I seek dating help on a dating thread?

Because no one here is a qualified therapist, which is obviously what you need to get to the root of your plethora of issues.

Anonymous wrote:My very thin dad prefers a curvier woman. My mom has always been around a size 8-10 and his previous girlfriends (I've seen photos) had a similar build. I inherited his build and am a size 0-2, and he's always told me I am too thin and need to gain a few lbs.

Size 8-10 is curvy but not necessarily fat in an unattractive way. I can’t tell if OP is chubby in a cute/sexy way or is she grossly fat. OP what size are you? Are you seeking a long-term relationship or casual sex?

Anonymous wrote:OP you are really yucky. Not sure why you're playing this game anonymously, but seek help.

Who are you? Why wouldn't I seek dating help on a dating thread?

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Anonymous wrote:Op here. I am chubby why is that a bad word?

Here are 2 of the messages among many from thin white men

I think chubby and tiny are mutually exclusive. So these messages do not prove that you are chubby. You need to get over your ex.

So in your world a person can't be short and chubby at the same time? That is the dumbest thing I heard on this forum.

The text thread is so cringe. Saying hey after you said hi... No flirting back...and asking why they swiped right (fishing for compliments). But yeah girl these guys might just want to smash, you don't really know until you meet.

A guy telling a chubby girl she’s tiny and has a hot bod knows how to get into her pants. The low self-esteem is evident and they play on that to get no strings sex right away. They will keep telling you what you are dying to hear as long as you put out.

The tiny part I took is because I'm 4ft 11 but being that the app isn't tinder I thought more guys would be serious.

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Anonymous wrote:Op here. I am chubby why is that a bad word?

Here are 2 of the messages among many from thin white men

I think chubby and tiny are mutually exclusive. So these messages do not prove that you are chubby. You need to get over your ex.

So in your world a person can't be short and chubby at the same time? That is the dumbest thing I heard on this forum.

The text thread is so cringe. Saying hey after you said hi... No flirting back...and asking why they swiped right (fishing for compliments). But yeah girl these guys might just want to smash, you don't really know until you meet.

A guy telling a chubby girl she’s tiny and has a hot bod knows how to get into her pants. The low self-esteem is evident and they play on that to get no strings sex right away. They will keep telling you what you are dying to hear as long as you put out.

OP you are really yucky. Not sure why you're playing this game anonymously, but seek help.

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Anonymous wrote:Op here. I am chubby why is that a bad word?

Here are 2 of the messages among many from thin white men

I think chubby and tiny are mutually exclusive. So these messages do not prove that you are chubby. You need to get over your ex.

So in your world a person can't be short and chubby at the same time? That is the dumbest thing I heard on this forum.

The text thread is so cringe. Saying hey after you said hi... No flirting back...and asking why they swiped right (fishing for compliments). But yeah girl these guys might just want to smash, you don't really know until you meet.

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Anonymous wrote:OP. Some guys are into spinners. 4’11” is definitely spin zone

What is a spinner?

A woman that is say, 4'11" and very slender.
So tiny, that you could, ahem, place her on your pelvic region and spin her around easily.

Op here. I dont qualify for spinner or whatever ridiculousness. I am chubby and short.

How much do you weigh? Chubby can be cute, but morbidly obese not do much.

Chubby babies are cute not adults

OP, is this your first experience with online dating? It seems like you're expecting "skinny" men not to find you attractive because of your weight. But many men of all sizes and races are in fact attracted to heavier women (although you'd never know it from reading DCUM!). I have no idea why you're only getting skinny white guys. Is it possible you're swiping right more often on those for whatever reason? In any case, it's time to stop it with the self-deprecating talk and embrace the fact that you are attractive to many people. Putting yourself down will only make you less attractive. Be confident and own it!

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Anonymous wrote:OP. Some guys are into spinners. 4’11” is definitely spin zone

What is a spinner?

A woman that is say, 4'11" and very slender.
So tiny, that you could, ahem, place her on your pelvic region and spin her around easily.

Op here. I dont qualify for spinner or whatever ridiculousness. I am chubby and short.

How much do you weigh? Chubby can be cute, but morbidly obese not do much.

I'm picturing the pot belly scene in Pulp Fiction

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Anonymous wrote:OP. Some guys are into spinners. 4’11” is definitely spin zone

What is a spinner?

A woman that is say, 4'11" and very slender.
So tiny, that you could, ahem, place her on your pelvic region and spin her around easily.

Op here. I dont qualify for spinner or whatever ridiculousness. I am chubby and short.