Anonymous
02/05/2021 14:08
Subject: DH being super dramatic?
Anonymous wrote:Here is a point I am surprised no one has focused on up to now: cat pee.
A broken-down closet door would be infinitely better than cat pee on the floor, especially in a closet containing clothing items. If the cat HAD peed in there, OP would have had to evacuate her 'luxury' items and get a pro in to treat the floor [b]because it is VERY difficult to get out the smell of cat pee.
If someone told me my cat had been accidentally locked in a space in our house without a litter box, I would IMMEDIATELY rush home, in the hopes of preventing a pee disaster.
So I agree with OP's DH here. It wasn't unreasonable to want to do whatever it took to make sure the cat didn't pee on the floor.
What!?! Noooo . I wouldn’t need that. You think I have wall to wall carpeting in there?!
Anonymous
02/05/2021 14:05
Subject: DH being super dramatic?
Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:Here is a point I am surprised no one has focused on up to now: cat pee.
A broken-down closet door would be infinitely better than cat pee on the floor, especially in a closet containing clothing items. If the cat HAD peed in there, OP would have had to evacuate her 'luxury' items and get a pro in to treat the floor because it is VERY difficult to get out the smell of cat pee.
If someone told me my cat had been accidentally locked in a space in our house without a litter box, I would IMMEDIATELY rush home, in the hopes of preventing a pee disaster.
So I agree with OP's DH here. It wasn't unreasonable to want to do whatever it took to make sure the cat didn't pee on the floor.
OP here. This was the ONLY thing I was concerned about! But my closet floor is polished luxury stone and all my luxury items are up 10 feet inside of glass doors. If I had any expensive items that could’ve been peed on and ruined I would’ve called the fire dept and sent them to my house asap. But I knew I’d be able to get cat pee smell off the floor with no problem. Btw my DH is nose blind and I bet he was hoping the cat would pee everywhere in my luxury closet cause he was so damn mad at me. But luckily she didn’t, not even a turd. Ha
You really overshot your mark, trollina.
Anonymous
02/05/2021 14:03
Subject: DH being super dramatic?
Anonymous wrote:Here is a point I am surprised no one has focused on up to now: cat pee.
A broken-down closet door would be infinitely better than cat pee on the floor, especially in a closet containing clothing items. If the cat HAD peed in there, OP would have had to evacuate her 'luxury' items and get a pro in to treat the floor because it is VERY difficult to get out the smell of cat pee.
If someone told me my cat had been accidentally locked in a space in our house without a litter box, I would IMMEDIATELY rush home, in the hopes of preventing a pee disaster.
So I agree with OP's DH here. It wasn't unreasonable to want to do whatever it took to make sure the cat didn't pee on the floor.
OP here. This was the ONLY thing I was concerned about! But my closet floor is polished luxury stone and all my luxury items are up 10 feet inside of glass doors. If I had any expensive items that could’ve been peed on and ruined I would’ve called the fire dept and sent them to my house asap. But I knew I’d be able to get cat pee smell off the floor with no problem. Btw my DH is nose blind and I bet he was hoping the cat would pee everywhere in my luxury closet cause he was so damn mad at me. But luckily she didn’t, not even a turd. Ha
Anonymous
02/05/2021 07:14
Subject: Re:DH being super dramatic?
DH should have picked up the key or shut up about it. Cats are fine with a few extra snuggles and immediate food/water.
My cat understands words and phrases including but not limited to, I'm so sorry, poor baby, go make pp, chicken, bacon, can I have a kiss, go get your baby (little plush mouse). She's was depressed when we took the xmas tree down. She now has her own mini tree with lights and ornaments that she can play with. She's also a stunningly beautiful diva, and would be quite happy in a luxury closet for a few hours. She'd find the cashmere to nap on.
My cat understands words and phrases including but not limited to, I'm so sorry, poor baby, go make pp, chicken, bacon, can I have a kiss, go get your baby (little plush mouse). She's was depressed when we took the xmas tree down. She now has her own mini tree with lights and ornaments that she can play with. She's also a stunningly beautiful diva, and would be quite happy in a luxury closet for a few hours. She'd find the cashmere to nap on.
Anonymous
02/05/2021 05:58
Subject: DH being super dramatic?
Anonymous wrote:Here is a point I am surprised no one has focused on up to now: cat pee.
A broken-down closet door would be infinitely better than cat pee on the floor, especially in a closet containing clothing items. If the cat HAD peed in there, OP would have had to evacuate her 'luxury' items and get a pro in to treat the floor because it is VERY difficult to get out the smell of cat pee.
If someone told me my cat had been accidentally locked in a space in our house without a litter box, I would IMMEDIATELY rush home, in the hopes of preventing a pee disaster.
So I agree with OP's DH here. It wasn't unreasonable to want to do whatever it took to make sure the cat didn't pee on the floor.
The working class and poors aren’t allowed on the other side of the deadbolt. What about the Valentino!?
Anonymous
02/05/2021 05:41
Subject: DH being super dramatic?
Here is a point I am surprised no one has focused on up to now: cat pee.
A broken-down closet door would be infinitely better than cat pee on the floor, especially in a closet containing clothing items. If the cat HAD peed in there, OP would have had to evacuate her 'luxury' items and get a pro in to treat the floor because it is VERY difficult to get out the smell of cat pee.
If someone told me my cat had been accidentally locked in a space in our house without a litter box, I would IMMEDIATELY rush home, in the hopes of preventing a pee disaster.
So I agree with OP's DH here. It wasn't unreasonable to want to do whatever it took to make sure the cat didn't pee on the floor.
A broken-down closet door would be infinitely better than cat pee on the floor, especially in a closet containing clothing items. If the cat HAD peed in there, OP would have had to evacuate her 'luxury' items and get a pro in to treat the floor because it is VERY difficult to get out the smell of cat pee.
If someone told me my cat had been accidentally locked in a space in our house without a litter box, I would IMMEDIATELY rush home, in the hopes of preventing a pee disaster.
So I agree with OP's DH here. It wasn't unreasonable to want to do whatever it took to make sure the cat didn't pee on the floor.
Anonymous
02/05/2021 05:33
Subject: Re:DH being super dramatic?
Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:I’m sorry, I can’t get over a deadbolt on a closet door. Unless you got a luxury yacht or something in there.
I’m so glad I’m poor.
It’s also fairly pointless unless OP has reinforced French doors with no glass in them.
+1,000 Why doesn't OP's lazy DH get it? I am sure anyone who breaks into their posh home will be stopped by a deadlock on a glass door. Just wow to this logic
She said it was related to workers taking stuff that she wouldn't notice.
This is so true. I bought a Valentino clutch in nyc and I went to go use it a year later and it was gone!
After searching for weeks and accusing everyone from the cleaners to my 4 yr old granddaughter I finally found it! It had fallen behind all my other luxury bags. That’s when I realized I needed a deadbolt because I didn’t miss it until I went to use it.
Anonymous
02/05/2021 05:25
Subject: Re:DH being super dramatic?
Anonymous wrote:I’m sorry, I can’t get over a deadbolt on a closet door. Unless you got a luxury yacht or something in there.
I’m so glad I’m poor.
Actually our luxury yacht is parked at the luxury marina. We looked to find a less expensive marina recently but when we went to check it out and noticed nothing but rednecks loading coolers of beer into their 24’ boats we were out!
Anonymous
02/04/2021 23:02
Subject: Re:DH being super dramatic?
NP. Come on, guys! Don’t let this thread die! I’ve had a sh*tty day and I love this so very, very much!
Anonymous
02/04/2021 18:46
Subject: DH being super dramatic?
Anonymous wrote:If you are so rich, why are you working?
I retired when I had a lot of money. I am much happier.
I work 1 day a week if you must know because I’m bored.
Anonymous
02/04/2021 18:42
Subject: DH being super dramatic?
If you are so rich, why are you working?
I retired when I had a lot of money. I am much happier.
I retired when I had a lot of money. I am much happier.
Anonymous
02/04/2021 18:39
Subject: Re:DH being super dramatic?
Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:I’m sorry, I can’t get over a deadbolt on a closet door. Unless you got a luxury yacht or something in there.
I’m so glad I’m poor.
It’s also fairly pointless unless OP has reinforced French doors with no glass in them.
+1,000 Why doesn't OP's lazy DH get it? I am sure anyone who breaks into their posh home will be stopped by a deadlock on a glass door. Just wow to this logic
She said it was related to workers taking stuff that she wouldn't notice.
Anonymous
02/04/2021 18:24
Subject: DH being super dramatic?
Anonymous wrote:I accidentally locked one of our cats inside my closet this morning. (200sf closet with windows French door btw). My DH calls me at work when he got home frantic because the cat was meowing. I told him I didn’t remember where the extra key was but I’d be home in a few hrs and the worst thing that would happen is the cat would pee inside my closet.He said he was going to break the door open and I was thinking wtf?!? I got home let the cat out and thank god she didn’t pee. I’m so bewildered of why my DH went so crazy over this situation?!? Plus he’s so angry at me for taking the situation so lightly. Fyi I have a deadbolt on my closet for security reasons. I was extremely busy at work and the boss was there so I couldn’t deal with thinking about where the extra key was plus I didn’t think it was an urgent situation.
What are you hiding from your DH? He's desperate to know or can't handle that you have your own space.
Anonymous
02/04/2021 18:22
Subject: DH being super dramatic?
Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:I accidentally locked one of our cats inside my closet this morning. (200sf closet with windows French door btw). My DH calls me at work when he got home frantic because the cat was meowing. I told him I didn’t remember where the extra key was but I’d be home in a few hrs and the worst thing that would happen is the cat would pee inside my closet.
What?
Few hundred thousand worth of luxury items I want to protect .. With workers in and out I would never miss anything.
OP, prepare to become a DCUM MEME!!
For real. We poors just can’t relate to the LuXuRy
Anonymous
02/04/2021 16:25
Subject: DH being super dramatic?
Are the French doors bulletproof? Is this a full on safe room? If yes, you should consider getting a small litter box and plumbing set up in there in case you, your DH, and your cat ever have to shelter in place due to an overzealous AC repairman.