At least half of the women on Tinder under the age of 40 have either nude, semi-nude, lingerie, or tiny bikini photos on their profiles. They know what this old guy likes.

IG, Tiktok, etc. are new technology and the norms around their use are new and evolving. When I was a kid porn was appearing in Playboy or Penthouse and then x-rated videos that you pop in a VCR. I imagine only a minute number of women engaged in nude modeling. Such women were probably shamed and viewed somewhat as outcasts. If you looked at such images you did it quietly.

Now there seems to be so many women willing to bare all on various platforms, that the norms are changing. Is it ok to "like" fully clad women? Women in bathing suits?

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Anonymous wrote:Ew. Why are you interested in him? He sounds gross.

+1. A grown man overtly following a cam girl, or whatever it’s called, on social media is super strange.

Welcome to planet Earth.

So many boomers in this thread lmao. It’s really hard to tell op what his likes are all about. Could just be supporting your sister - or he could have a thing for her. Hard to tell without more details. If you like him why not just try a couple dates and see how it goes - def don’t get physical too quick tho

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Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:Maybe it’s ok for women to make a living as social media influencers?

Maybe it’s ok for men to support them?

Maybe we can try to unclench in 2021?

It's no different that porn. That doesn't make her sister a ho. If you're cool with porn that's fine. It is what is.

He's not supporting women.


In 2021 we're not going to gaslight

Posting pictures is no different than porn? Not the sharpest tool in the box are you?

Yes, taking pictures is the same thing as getting paid to have sex on screen. Get off your high horse.

Are you familiar with Playboy? Mot every person in that mag is having sex on screen, but it's still considered a pornographic magazine because they are posing for sexualized nude photos. OP's sister is doing softcore porn. If you are viewing those kinds of things on Instagram you are viewing soft core porn. No value judgment from me. you're the one who brought in high horse and trying to twist it to make into something that it's not. You are getting off to nude or semid nude photos that these instagram girls post, same ay you would a playboy or Porn hub, you just aren't paying for the content yet . it is what it is.

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Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:Maybe it’s ok for women to make a living as social media influencers?

Maybe it’s ok for men to support them?

Maybe we can try to unclench in 2021?

Thank you. Times are different. It doesn’t make men gross for liking their pictures and it doesn’t make women “hoes” for showing off their bodies.

This.

It's gross to like the naked pictures of the sister of the irl you are dating. Times are not that different. Only low value men and women will try to convince you otherwise.

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:Maybe it’s ok for women to make a living as social media influencers?

Maybe it’s ok for men to support them?

Maybe we can try to unclench in 2021?

Thank you. Times are different. It doesn’t make men gross for liking their pictures and it doesn’t make women “hoes” for showing off their bodies.

This.

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:Maybe it’s ok for women to make a living as social media influencers?

Maybe it’s ok for men to support them?

Maybe we can try to unclench in 2021?

It's no different that porn. That doesn't make her sister a ho. If you're cool with porn that's fine. It is what is.

He's not supporting women.


In 2021 we're not going to gaslight

Posting pictures is no different than porn? Not the sharpest tool in the box are you?

Yes, taking pictures is the same thing as getting paid to have sex on screen. Get off your high horse.

Anonymous wrote:Maybe it’s ok for women to make a living as social media influencers?

Maybe it’s ok for men to support them?

Maybe we can try to unclench in 2021?

It's no different that porn. That doesn't make her sister a ho. If you're cool with porn that's fine. It is what is.

He's not supporting women.


In 2021 we're not going to gaslight

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Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:Ew. Why are you interested in him? He sounds gross.

And the sister is a Ho. Who is putting nudies of themselves on Instagram? Sex workers? Wtf?

Um, i post half naked pics of myself, but mostly my legs on Instagram! Mother of 4, not a ho, plenty of photographers follow me, along with some cross dressers, other straight women who like hosiery, lesbians, single men and I bet quite a few of your husbands since I have 186k followers. Anyway OP, he knew your sister first but is interested in you! Who cares if he likes your sisters pictures, at least he’s not hiding it! Life is too short to worry about BS, if you like him, go for it. It’s just a picture!!

And yes, my husband knows.

No legit photographers follow you.

Mom must be so proud.

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Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:Ew. Why are you interested in him? He sounds gross.

+1. A grown man overtly following a cam girl, or whatever it’s called, on social media is super strange.

Really? I'm an mid-50s man and I follow several hotties on IG. One of them is getting a PhD in Genetics, and she also loves to show her ass in a tiny thong bikini. Am I gross?

You are gross, and I can promise you there's something wrong with the woman.

In that case could you please put up a list of what I am allowed to look at when I JO?

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:Ew. Why are you interested in him? He sounds gross.

And the sister is a Ho. Who is putting nudies of themselves on Instagram? Sex workers? Wtf?

Um, i post half naked pics of myself, but mostly my legs on Instagram! Mother of 4, not a ho, plenty of photographers follow me, along with some cross dressers, other straight women who like hosiery, lesbians, single men and I bet quite a few of your husbands since I have 186k followers. Anyway OP, he knew your sister first but is interested in you! Who cares if he likes your sisters pictures, at least he’s not hiding it! Life is too short to worry about BS, if you like him, go for it. It’s just a picture!!

And yes, my husband knows.

Your IG sounds extremely hot! I would love to follow you.

I think what makes IG different than porn is that a lot of men see IG models as approachable because of the social media aspect and therefore obtainable.

The sister is fine, she is making money while she is hot.

The guy is a creep who likes your sister. Stay away.