Anonymous
Post 09/13/2020 14:59     Subject: Re:Did you continue to have kids until you had at least one daughter and one son?

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Anonymous wrote:I don't get why people do this these days. If I had my heart set on a specific sex I would just do IVF. No way would I keep having kids trying to get the opposite gender.


IVF is very expensive.


So is having a lot of kids!


My sister was not allowed to gender-select her embryos. She’s having her third IVF baby and found out the same way the rest of us do - ultrasound.


Weird! Also odd these days to find out via ultrasound and not NIPT testing. Sounds like an old school practice.
Anonymous
Post 09/13/2020 14:58     Subject: Re:Did you continue to have kids until you had at least one daughter and one son?

Anonymous wrote:
Anonymous wrote:
Anonymous wrote:
Anonymous wrote:I don't get why people do this these days. If I had my heart set on a specific sex I would just do IVF. No way would I keep having kids trying to get the opposite gender.


IVF is very expensive.


So is having a lot of kids!


IVF is about the cost of sending one of those kids to college!


It absolutely is not. Have you seen what college costs? One round of IVF is not 300k.
Anonymous
Post 09/13/2020 11:49     Subject: Did you continue to have kids until you had at least one daughter and one son?

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Anonymous wrote:Cute story:

My father grew up in an Italian / Irish neighborhood. He got roped into taking a girl from a protective Italian family to the prom . There were 4 boys in the family and then finally the girl. 2 of the brothers came along to the prom date to "protect" the girl.

My dad says she probably became a nun!



I don't see anything cute about this story..


I don't either, I think it is kind of YUCK.




It's adorable! Typical liberal no sense of humor! Your dinner parties and bar-b-ques must be awful.



I'm a conservative (non Trump) voter. I didn't think this was a cute story either. Please explain what's so adorable about it?
Anonymous
Post 09/13/2020 11:14     Subject: Did you continue to have kids until you had at least one daughter and one son?

Anonymous wrote:
Anonymous wrote:
Anonymous wrote:Cute story:

My father grew up in an Italian / Irish neighborhood. He got roped into taking a girl from a protective Italian family to the prom . There were 4 boys in the family and then finally the girl. 2 of the brothers came along to the prom date to "protect" the girl.

My dad says she probably became a nun!



I don't see anything cute about this story..


I don't either, I think it is kind of YUCK.




It's adorable! Typical liberal no sense of humor! Your dinner parties and bar-b-ques must be awful.
Anonymous
Post 09/13/2020 09:10     Subject: Did you continue to have kids until you had at least one daughter and one son?

No, I was lucky to be able to have kids at all. I will admit even despite two years of primary infertility, I was disappointed my first was a boy. If I was only going to have one, I really wanted a girl. When trying for number two, I still wanted my girl but thought my son would go better with a younger brother, so I was fine either way. We ended up having one of each.
Anonymous
Post 09/13/2020 08:43     Subject: Re:Did you continue to have kids until you had at least one daughter and one son?

Anonymous wrote:
Anonymous wrote:
Anonymous wrote:
Anonymous wrote:I don't get why people do this these days. If I had my heart set on a specific sex I would just do IVF. No way would I keep having kids trying to get the opposite gender.


IVF is very expensive.


So is having a lot of kids!


IVF is about the cost of sending one of those kids to college!


Are you kidding? A year of private school tuition is 75k.
Anonymous
Post 09/13/2020 08:41     Subject: Did you continue to have kids until you had at least one daughter and one son?

I would have gone to four if my first three were the same sex, but I always wanted 3-4 kids. I wouldn't have gone past than the number of kids I felt comfortable with and could afford, just for that. We ended with 3.
Anonymous
Post 09/13/2020 08:22     Subject: Re:Did you continue to have kids until you had at least one daughter and one son?

Anonymous wrote:
Anonymous wrote:
Anonymous wrote:I don't get why people do this these days. If I had my heart set on a specific sex I would just do IVF. No way would I keep having kids trying to get the opposite gender.


IVF is very expensive.


So is having a lot of kids!


IVF is about the cost of sending one of those kids to college!
Anonymous
Post 09/13/2020 08:22     Subject: Did you continue to have kids until you had at least one daughter and one son?

I had three kids always wanting a daughter but ended up with three sons. My brother had three kids always wanting a son but ended up with three daughters. I don't think either of us willing to gamble on a fourth. I have a friend who kept trying to have a son and he ended up with SIX daughters and finally a son on the seventh try. I guess he thought his luck had finally changed because they tried to have another boy and ended up with an eighth child who was another daughter.
Anonymous
Post 09/13/2020 08:08     Subject: Re:Did you continue to have kids until you had at least one daughter and one son?

Anonymous wrote:
Anonymous wrote:
Anonymous wrote:I don't get why people do this these days. If I had my heart set on a specific sex I would just do IVF. No way would I keep having kids trying to get the opposite gender.


IVF is very expensive.


So is having a lot of kids!


My sister was not allowed to gender-select her embryos. She’s having her third IVF baby and found out the same way the rest of us do - ultrasound.