What's the update OP, did you see him again? Has he recovered ?

Anonymous wrote:Either you or the sex didn't turn out to be exactly what he wanted. It's not personal even if it feels like it. Move on.

X2. I’ve had lousy lays. It’s not personal.

It's so annoying how many posters are responding to the earlier posts without following the updates.

All the back and forth about the number when the OP clearly explained it in a follow-up. Sheesh.

Anonymous wrote:I had a third date with a guy I liked. We hit it off and things were going well. He seemed very interested and texted me in between dates. He cooked me dinner and we had sex last weekend and I haven’t heard from him again. I texted him once to say I had a great time and nothing. I’m sure it was just sex for him but it sucks. I really liked him and thought he was interested.

Relax he's probably just waiting to find out if you come up pregnant. Text him and tell him you got your period he'll start chatting away blowing your phone up again.

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Anonymous wrote:Aside from the fact that no one is admitted to the hospital for that long these days, there is 0% chance he didn't have his phone on him. ZERO. Zilch. Nada.

If you are going to proceed (I think this is pathetic and you will regret it) do so with major caution. I suspect he's involved with someone else.

My cousin had emergency appendectomy the summer before covid. He was in and out in less than 48 hours.

I know someone who was previously fit and healthy but who had terrible complications from appendicitis and the surgery that he spent almost 3 weeks in the hospital. So YMMV.

My coworker got sepsis and nearly died! Plus, if you read ahead you will see that he has provided proof, including his scar.

OP, I hope it works out! sounds like he went through a lot but is interested in seeing you, so keep going and dont worry about wht DCUM says. Lotta people who, under the guise of saving you heartbreak, will give bad advice

Anonymous wrote:Warning--remember how you feel RIGHT NOW after you've been ghosted after being intimate with him.

Because he may well get back in touch with you, have a lame excuse, and seem very interested again suddenly. This happens with men who have avoidant attachment styles. When he gets horny or lonely again, or gets over his fears, he will come back in force and seem excited and you'll feel that connection. Then when he gets what he wants again, or it's too much for him, he'll run away again.

So if he gets in touch, ignore and move on.

+1

I got involved and over my head in a relationship like this. It was a cycle, and it was hell on my psyche. There were plenty of times I thought I was happy. The problem was happy came with the devastating lows, and it’s no way to live.

Anonymous wrote:He got what he wanted OP. Sorry.

It sucks to be ghosted.

But maybe the guy didn't get what he wanted?

Maybe he didn't like the way she kisses, the way she chews her food, the way her body looks, etc. Maybe he thought she was mediocre in bed and after spending an evening with her he realized he would never want to spend more than an hour with her again?
Isn't the purpose of dating to find out if the two of you are compatible?

He could text her, or meet in person and say, "I find your personality insufferable, the way you chew your food disgusting, and you need to lose 15 lbs." Would that make him a good guy? Or he could say something like "I don't think this will work out" but would she really feel better?

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Anonymous wrote:Aside from the fact that no one is admitted to the hospital for that long these days, there is 0% chance he didn't have his phone on him. ZERO. Zilch. Nada.

If you are going to proceed (I think this is pathetic and you will regret it) do so with major caution. I suspect he's involved with someone else.

My cousin had emergency appendectomy the summer before covid. He was in and out in less than 48 hours.

I know someone who was previously fit and healthy but who had terrible complications from appendicitis and the surgery that he spent almost 3 weeks in the hospital. So YMMV.

Anonymous wrote:Aside from the fact that no one is admitted to the hospital for that long these days, there is 0% chance he didn't have his phone on him. ZERO. Zilch. Nada.

If you are going to proceed (I think this is pathetic and you will regret it) do so with major caution. I suspect he's involved with someone else.

Talk about black and white thinking. What you posted simply isn't true.

Anonymous wrote:Op ignore all these posters. I am happily in a relationship with someone that everyone on here advised me to move on from when we started dating. I listened to my gut and all is well. Dcum is helpful for some things but not for dating advice.

Oh for how long? Coe back when you have reached your 10 year anniversary.

He's just not that into you. This is a freeing thing to understand.

Also, stop finding people online.

I was a PP who said give him a chance — but reading subsequent posts, I agree that the facts don’t add up. Red flags.

Anonymous wrote:Aside from the fact that no one is admitted to the hospital for that long these days, there is 0% chance he didn't have his phone on him. ZERO. Zilch. Nada.

If you are going to proceed (I think this is pathetic and you will regret it) do so with major caution. I suspect he's involved with someone else.

My cousin had emergency appendectomy the summer before covid. He was in and out in less than 48 hours.

Anonymous wrote:Op ignore all these posters. I am happily in a relationship with someone that everyone on here advised me to move on from when we started dating. I listened to my gut and all is well. Dcum is helpful for some things but not for dating advice.

Don't take advice from someone who asks dcum for advice. Pp is in no position to offer any.