Anonymous
07/22/2020 10:01
Subject: Re:Are hot women less likely to have solid marriages?
Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:People responding that they are pretty and have solid marriages... there is a huge difference between pretty and hot.
Yeah, agreed. And the truth is that "hot" usually fades drastically with age. By the time most hot women are in their 40s and 50s, they are still very pretty but not smoking hot in the same way. Very few women stay truly hot as they age.
Even with gazillions of dollars, doctors, and the best trainers/chefs/stylists at their disposal, it's hard to stay truly hot as you age. Maybe if you are J. Lo but who knows how long even she has left.
My hot friends are still pretty hot and we are 55ish.
It’s almost insane how unbelievably blessed they are with looks and charisma.
Their H’s are a-holes though.
They are hot for their age, but in absolute terms of just being "hot" a hot 55 year old can't compete with a hot 20 year old.
One of mine could beat out any 20yo.
One could best out 80% of them.
The other is weary from the bad marriage.
And here come the delusional posters who think they and their friends still look 18 at 55. Hint: You don't.
I don’t ... but we are not talking about me or average pretty we are talking hot.
You probably just never met one of these women. They run in different circles.
Actually I have met some of the most beautiful 55 y/0s out there. I'm from LA and have friends that work in the business.
BUT here's the thing, in those circles, the 20 year olds are SMOKING. YOU probably have just never met the really hot 20 year olds out there. Not your hot sorority girl here, but Hollywood/Sports Illustrated model hot.
Anonymous
07/22/2020 10:00
Subject: Re:Are hot women less likely to have solid marriages?
My friend is 50 and she looks better than Sophia Vagara.
Anonymous
07/22/2020 09:56
Subject: Re:Are hot women less likely to have solid marriages?
My wife is 46, looks like Jennifer Garner and she has an MBA/JD so she is hot and smart. She is incredibly down to earth and spends little time on her looks with little or any make up and wearing a pony tail or her hair up. But when she glams up she can stop traffic. I’m a decent looking guy running my own pretty successful company so I’m not a loser by any means but I’m sure others wonder what she is doing with me. With three great kids we realize how lucky we are and we have a very solid marriage. FWIW we have a great sex life and I’d be a fool to cheat. I’m quite sure she feels the same way.
Anonymous
07/21/2020 21:18
Subject: Re:Are hot women less likely to have solid marriages?
Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:People responding that they are pretty and have solid marriages... there is a huge difference between pretty and hot.
Yeah, agreed. And the truth is that "hot" usually fades drastically with age. By the time most hot women are in their 40s and 50s, they are still very pretty but not smoking hot in the same way. Very few women stay truly hot as they age.
Even with gazillions of dollars, doctors, and the best trainers/chefs/stylists at their disposal, it's hard to stay truly hot as you age. Maybe if you are J. Lo but who knows how long even she has left.
My hot friends are still pretty hot and we are 55ish.
It’s almost insane how unbelievably blessed they are with looks and charisma.
Their H’s are a-holes though.
They are hot for their age, but in absolute terms of just being "hot" a hot 55 year old can't compete with a hot 20 year old.
One of mine could beat out any 20yo.
One could best out 80% of them.
The other is weary from the bad marriage.
And here come the delusional posters who think they and their friends still look 18 at 55. Hint: You don't.
I don’t ... but we are not talking about me or average pretty we are talking hot.
You probably just never met one of these women. They run in different circles.
Anonymous
07/21/2020 21:17
Subject: Re:Are hot women less likely to have solid marriages?
Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:People responding that they are pretty and have solid marriages... there is a huge difference between pretty and hot.
Yeah, agreed. And the truth is that "hot" usually fades drastically with age. By the time most hot women are in their 40s and 50s, they are still very pretty but not smoking hot in the same way. Very few women stay truly hot as they age.
Even with gazillions of dollars, doctors, and the best trainers/chefs/stylists at their disposal, it's hard to stay truly hot as you age. Maybe if you are J. Lo but who knows how long even she has left.
My hot friends are still pretty hot and we are 55ish.
It’s almost insane how unbelievably blessed they are with looks and charisma.
Their H’s are a-holes though.
They are hot for their age, but in absolute terms of just being "hot" a hot 55 year old can't compete with a hot 20 year old.
One of mine could beat out any 20yo.
One could best out 80% of them.
The other is weary from the bad marriage.
And here come the delusional posters who think they and their friends still look 18 at 55. Hint: You don't.[/quote
I don’t ... but we are not talking about me or average pretty we are talking hot.
You probably just never met one of these women. They run in different circles.
Anonymous
07/21/2020 20:56
Subject: Re:Are hot women less likely to have solid marriages?
Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:To be honest, it’s usually the women I hear of cheating in my orbit more than the men. Hot women are also as good as their options.
All women, regardless how hot, have infinite options (in regards to sexual partners).
Women don’t want sexual partners they want respect and stability.
Speak for yourself sister.
+1
I can provide “stability” for myself. I demand respect from anyone so it is not unique to marriage.
Anonymous
07/21/2020 19:36
Subject: Are hot women less likely to have solid marriages?
Both men and women are more likely to cheat when the woman has a higher socioeconomic status. Women are generally sexually repulsed by men who seem like losers (relative to her status and upbringing).
Anonymous
07/21/2020 19:32
Subject: Are hot women less likely to have solid marriages?
Men usually “marry up” to better looking women. Women usually “marry up” to men with higher socioeconomic status.
At least, that seems to be the type of pairing that works best in the long run, as long as he maintains his socioeconomic edge and she doesn’t let her looks go to much.
At least, that seems to be the type of pairing that works best in the long run, as long as he maintains his socioeconomic edge and she doesn’t let her looks go to much.
Anonymous
07/21/2020 19:30
Subject: Are hot women less likely to have solid marriages?
Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:A lot of hot women are married to rich old not so good looking guys. Thus, your theory is flawed.
Not really because money trumps looks.
Only for men. A man can look like Sasquatch after a month long coke binge, but if he has a high enough socioeconomic status, he will have options (if he is realistic).
A women can be unemployed and uneducated with a double digit IQ, but if she is cute, she will always have options.
It’s not fair, but it does cut both ways.
Anonymous
07/21/2020 16:45
Subject: Re:Are hot women less likely to have solid marriages?
My wife is very hot and we have a great 23 year marriage. Anyone who thinks that hot women are lousy in bed don’t know what they are talking about. At 48 she doesn’t have the hard body of a 24 year old but it’s pretty darn close. Last September we dropped our son off at college and to help him move in she was dressed in jeans and a t-shirt and it was pretty clear the other freshmen boys took notice of his mom.
Anonymous
07/21/2020 14:27
Subject: Re:Are hot women less likely to have solid marriages?
Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:People responding that they are pretty and have solid marriages... there is a huge difference between pretty and hot.
Yeah, agreed. And the truth is that "hot" usually fades drastically with age. By the time most hot women are in their 40s and 50s, they are still very pretty but not smoking hot in the same way. Very few women stay truly hot as they age.
Even with gazillions of dollars, doctors, and the best trainers/chefs/stylists at their disposal, it's hard to stay truly hot as you age. Maybe if you are J. Lo but who knows how long even she has left.
My hot friends are still pretty hot and we are 55ish.
It’s almost insane how unbelievably blessed they are with looks and charisma.
Their H’s are a-holes though.
They are hot for their age, but in absolute terms of just being "hot" a hot 55 year old can't compete with a hot 20 year old.
One of mine could beat out any 20yo.
One could best out 80% of them.
The other is weary from the bad marriage.
And here come the delusional posters who think they and their friends still look 18 at 55. Hint: You don't.
I'm 52 and "hot" for a 52-year-old, probably hot for a 45-year-old. Not hotter than a hot 18-year-old, but still hotter than a homely 25-year-old. I am also more successful, in the sense of having a successful career and a strong relationship with my kids and extended family. Our marriage absolutly sucks. By the way, he is also quite good-looking for a 50-year-old. Not sure how that fits into your fact-finding.
Anonymous
07/21/2020 14:11
Subject: Are hot women less likely to have solid marriages?
My experience - hot women usually suck in bed, they seem to think they can get by on looks alone. The 6s and 7s are far and away the best - not as great looking generally but rocking bods and very sexual. That's why guys with hot partners cheat.
Anonymous
07/21/2020 13:46
Subject: Re:Are hot women less likely to have solid marriages?
Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:^ objectively good-looking is not the same as hot. My husband gets hit on by 20-somethings all the way up to 70-somethings. On vacation, I cane down to the bar and a 65-year old woman was trying to buy him drinks and telling him he looked like a movie star. My 76-year old mother’s friends are always oohing and ahhing over him as are my 20-something nephew’s girlfriends.
He’s almost 49.
So, me again. The tech company that I work at has a very large college hire program. I get flirted with regularly and blatantly hit on to a lesser extent. I’ve been whistled at from cars, flirted with at stop lights etc. Please don’t think that I’m bragging - I’m just trying to say that I’ve never felt the need to cheat.
I get it. I’m your female equivalent, very successful in career too and also never cheated or even been tempted to. My spouse is BLATANTLY hit on every day. It’s probably also partly what he’s throwing off, narc charm. His cheating is definitely as others have said really extreme childhood trauma and mental diagnosis as clinical narc. Very few people are diagnosed as “clinical”.
Well I’ve got a bit of anxiety but nothing requiring meds or treatment. He may be an outlier. Are you happy or considering a change?
Anonymous
07/21/2020 13:30
Subject: Re:Are hot women less likely to have solid marriages?
Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:People responding that they are pretty and have solid marriages... there is a huge difference between pretty and hot.
Yeah, agreed. And the truth is that "hot" usually fades drastically with age. By the time most hot women are in their 40s and 50s, they are still very pretty but not smoking hot in the same way. Very few women stay truly hot as they age.
Even with gazillions of dollars, doctors, and the best trainers/chefs/stylists at their disposal, it's hard to stay truly hot as you age. Maybe if you are J. Lo but who knows how long even she has left.
My hot friends are still pretty hot and we are 55ish.
It’s almost insane how unbelievably blessed they are with looks and charisma.
Their H’s are a-holes though.
They are hot for their age, but in absolute terms of just being "hot" a hot 55 year old can't compete with a hot 20 year old.
One of mine could beat out any 20yo.
One could best out 80% of them.
The other is weary from the bad marriage.
it's this very type of incorrect, desperate delusion that leads 55 y/o women to do stupid things to try to prove they are still hot like a 20 year old even if they aren't.
Anonymous
07/21/2020 13:29
Subject: Re:Are hot women less likely to have solid marriages?
Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:People responding that they are pretty and have solid marriages... there is a huge difference between pretty and hot.
Yeah, agreed. And the truth is that "hot" usually fades drastically with age. By the time most hot women are in their 40s and 50s, they are still very pretty but not smoking hot in the same way. Very few women stay truly hot as they age.
Even with gazillions of dollars, doctors, and the best trainers/chefs/stylists at their disposal, it's hard to stay truly hot as you age. Maybe if you are J. Lo but who knows how long even she has left.
My hot friends are still pretty hot and we are 55ish.
It’s almost insane how unbelievably blessed they are with looks and charisma.
Their H’s are a-holes though.
They are hot for their age, but in absolute terms of just being "hot" a hot 55 year old can't compete with a hot 20 year old.
One of mine could beat out any 20yo.
One could best out 80% of them.
The other is weary from the bad marriage.
And here come the delusional posters who think they and their friends still look 18 at 55. Hint: You don't.