Anonymous
Post 07/04/2020 10:50     Subject: Re:Here from Urban Baby

Yes. Just arrived to check out this site.
Anonymous
Post 07/04/2020 10:47     Subject: Here from Urban Baby

Anonymous wrote:Thank you, Jeff. Good plans and thank you for being welcoming.

Etymology Mom, glad you are here!

Where is History Mom, did she make it?

I would like it just to be on this forum without subforums within it.


FYI you can create a log in if you want to be identifiable (as say History Mom), and decide to post some/all/none of the time under that log in.

Most of us don’t do that because it’s easy to post anonymously and we value the complete anonymity altho sometimes you’ll see people explain when they posted (or if they didn’t post) earlier in the thread.
Anonymous
Post 07/04/2020 10:44     Subject: Re:Here from Urban Baby

This is my analogy of dcum vs urbanbaby.

Dcum is the house of a friend whose parents make sure all the guests have snacks, drinks, approved entertainment, a clean bathroom, etc. Fun and safe.
urbanbaby is the house of a friend whose parents just don’t give a d-mn. We were very neglected, but made our own fun.
Anonymous
Post 07/04/2020 10:35     Subject: Here from Urban Baby

Can’t use the F word here. Triggers an automatic suspension.

They weave it through all parts of speech on YBM.
Anonymous
Post 07/04/2020 10:34     Subject: Here from Urban Baby

Anonymous wrote:I have only seen truly nasty, nasty misogynistic comments deleted here.


There have been others. I like it here, and I think Jeff is generally a fair moderator, but he’s got his own viewpoints and I’ve seen done deletions I’ve disagreed with. Not common, but it happens. Often it’s a questionable post that could be considered off-topic for the thread. But generally on-topic, high-minded, civil discussions go on unabated.
Anonymous
Post 07/04/2020 10:22     Subject: Re:Here from Urban Baby

Why don't you go to YBM? Same format as YBM and posts are not deleted.


Thanks for the tip! I had never heard of YBM.
Anonymous
Post 07/04/2020 09:39     Subject: Here from Urban Baby

Anonymous wrote:Thank you, Jeff. Good plans and thank you for being welcoming.

Etymology Mom, glad you are here!

Where is History Mom, did she make it?

I would like it just to be on this forum without subforums within it.




I found it! Thanks for asking! -HM
Anonymous
Post 07/04/2020 01:22     Subject: Here from Urban Baby

I have only seen truly nasty, nasty misogynistic comments deleted here.
Anonymous
Post 07/03/2020 22:18     Subject: Here from Urban Baby

Anonymous wrote:The thing about moderators is you don’t see what gets deleted. You don’t realize what things have been censored.

I haven’t seen comments deleted in DCUM which gives the perception of free and varied speech.

Yet, I have had posts deleted here. At first I thought maybe I just posted under the wrong topic. Then, I realized after it happened twice that there is some censorship of things including real events that provoked real discussion.

Now, I wonder what other things I am not seeing here as well as other websites. I would never have realized this without my posts getting deleted.


Why don't you go to YBM? Same format as YBM and posts are not deleted.
Anonymous
Post 07/03/2020 22:08     Subject: Here from Urban Baby

The thing about moderators is you don’t see what gets deleted. You don’t realize what things have been censored.

I haven’t seen comments deleted in DCUM which gives the perception of free and varied speech.

Yet, I have had posts deleted here. At first I thought maybe I just posted under the wrong topic. Then, I realized after it happened twice that there is some censorship of things including real events that provoked real discussion.

Now, I wonder what other things I am not seeing here as well as other websites. I would never have realized this without my posts getting deleted.
jsteele
Post 07/03/2020 20:30     Subject: Re:Here from Urban Baby

Anonymous wrote:Do we call this d-CUM?


You can call it whatever you want, but we call it D-Some.
Anonymous
Post 07/03/2020 20:01     Subject: Re:Here from Urban Baby

Do we call this d-CUM?
Anonymous
Post 07/03/2020 16:16     Subject: Here from Urban Baby

Anonymous wrote:
Anonymous wrote:
Anonymous wrote:
I get how lost you feel. A board I used to frequent on reddit was banned in the recent purge, and it broke my heart.


Oh no. Where can you spread hate speech now?




It wasn’t just hate speech subs that got banned. Offending the woke was enough to get the banhammer.


Which non-hate-speech subs got banned?
Anonymous
Post 07/03/2020 16:13     Subject: Here from Urban Baby

Anonymous wrote:

I would like it just to be on this forum without subforums within it.


Then join the rest of us on YBM
Anonymous
Post 07/03/2020 16:09     Subject: Here from Urban Baby

Thank you, Jeff. Good plans and thank you for being welcoming.

Etymology Mom, glad you are here!

Where is History Mom, did she make it?

I would like it just to be on this forum without subforums within it.