Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:OP I’m like you. Small town, elite college, even an engineer.
Did fine? So your HHI is like $200k — guessing from being in a condo looking at lower price SFH.
That is fine but going to a better pyramid opens up a network of people to learn and benefit from, peers who succeed and can refer you, parents with even more successful careers to give advice to their kids friends. I saw it at my elite college, having others from your circle helps a lot.
You did fine, but a better school let’s your kids do better.
+1. You may have “did fine,” but it doesn’t sound like you’ve done great. Wouldn’t you like your kids to do better than just fine?
Control for income and there is no evidence that similar kids do better at Langley than at Justice.
I went to Justice HS as a refugee when it was still under the name Stuart. The school was terrible, lot of fighting between Asians and white kids, Asians and black kids, Asians and Hispanics, etc... I did OK. I have been living in Mclean for the past twenty years and I have one kid at Potomac school and two kids at Langley HS.
Going to a better pyramid is so much better at many levels. There are so many successful people with kids at both Potomac school and Langley HS and they are more than willing to help my kids with both professional and personal finance advises. Several families offer my kids summer internships. I lost my job last year and one of the parents who is a CEO of a consultant company hired me and my salary increased by 40%.
Those opportunities are not likely to happen at Justice.
This is probably the biggest legitimate difference between high and lower-income pyramids. Other factors mentioned here--not so much. If this is something that matters strongly to you, then you should probably spend more for a "top" school. If you care more about things like avoiding entitlement and fostering empathy for those who are less fortunate, you're probably better off at a school like Justice.
Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:OP I’m like you. Small town, elite college, even an engineer.
Did fine? So your HHI is like $200k — guessing from being in a condo looking at lower price SFH.
That is fine but going to a better pyramid opens up a network of people to learn and benefit from, peers who succeed and can refer you, parents with even more successful careers to give advice to their kids friends. I saw it at my elite college, having others from your circle helps a lot.
You did fine, but a better school let’s your kids do better.
+1. You may have “did fine,” but it doesn’t sound like you’ve done great. Wouldn’t you like your kids to do better than just fine?
Control for income and there is no evidence that similar kids do better at Langley than at Justice.
I went to Justice HS as a refugee when it was still under the name Stuart. The school was terrible, lot of fighting between Asians and white kids, Asians and black kids, Asians and Hispanics, etc... I did OK. I have been living in Mclean for the past twenty years and I have one kid at Potomac school and two kids at Langley HS.
Going to a better pyramid is so much better at many levels. There are so many successful people with kids at both Potomac school and Langley HS and they are more than willing to help my kids with both professional and personal finance advises. Several families offer my kids summer internships. I lost my job last year and one of the parents who is a CEO of a consultant company hired me and my salary increased by 40%.
Those opportunities are not likely to happen at Justice.
Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:OP I’m like you. Small town, elite college, even an engineer.
Did fine? So your HHI is like $200k — guessing from being in a condo looking at lower price SFH.
That is fine but going to a better pyramid opens up a network of people to learn and benefit from, peers who succeed and can refer you, parents with even more successful careers to give advice to their kids friends. I saw it at my elite college, having others from your circle helps a lot.
You did fine, but a better school let’s your kids do better.
+1. You may have “did fine,” but it doesn’t sound like you’ve done great. Wouldn’t you like your kids to do better than just fine?
Control for income and there is no evidence that similar kids do better at Langley than at Justice.
I went to Justice HS as a refugee when it was still under the name Stuart. The school was terrible, lot of fighting between Asians and white kids, Asians and black kids, Asians and Hispanics, etc... I did OK. I have been living in Mclean for the past twenty years and I have one kid at Potomac school and two kids at Langley HS.
Going to a better pyramid is so much better at many levels. There are so many successful people with kids at both Potomac school and Langley HS and they are more than willing to help my kids with both professional and personal finance advises. Several families offer my kids summer internships. I lost my job last year and one of the parents who is a CEO of a consultant company hired me and my salary increased by 40%.
Those opportunities are not likely to happen at Justice.
Anonymous wrote:We moved from one of the worst school pyramids to one of the best in FCPS.... I personally would not choose justice. Burke. W Springfield, Fairfax, Centreville and Chantilly all have excellent schools.
Anonymous wrote:Honestly asking - Does the school pyramid really make a difference in the long run? I grew up in a small city in upstate NY and there was no moving around to a better school district. I got into a great engineering school and have done fine in life. But now, as my family is looking to move from a condo to SFH in NOVA with 2 kids, I'm feeling like I'm missing something. I'm feeling like the competition and school hunting that I see my peers doing when singling out a SFH is too much. My husband I are very engineering and math focused and see our children headed in that direction as well. Do I really need to be in the top school district, 7's and above on great schools?? Top 20 in the state? Will it make a difference in school experience or getting into college depending on what HS you went to? Any hidden gem schools that aren't rated great on GS but are, in fact, great?
For perspective, we are looking for a SFH with decent sized yard and 2000+ sq for $950k or less. Arlington, Falls Church, McLean, Vienna, Alexandria, Annandale, or closer in Fairfax
Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:OP I’m like you. Small town, elite college, even an engineer.
Did fine? So your HHI is like $200k — guessing from being in a condo looking at lower price SFH.
That is fine but going to a better pyramid opens up a network of people to learn and benefit from, peers who succeed and can refer you, parents with even more successful careers to give advice to their kids friends. I saw it at my elite college, having others from your circle helps a lot.
You did fine, but a better school let’s your kids do better.
+1. You may have “did fine,” but it doesn’t sound like you’ve done great. Wouldn’t you like your kids to do better than just fine?
Control for income and there is no evidence that similar kids do better at Langley than at Justice.
Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:OP I’m like you. Small town, elite college, even an engineer.
Did fine? So your HHI is like $200k — guessing from being in a condo looking at lower price SFH.
That is fine but going to a better pyramid opens up a network of people to learn and benefit from, peers who succeed and can refer you, parents with even more successful careers to give advice to their kids friends. I saw it at my elite college, having others from your circle helps a lot.
You did fine, but a better school let’s your kids do better.
+1. You may have “did fine,” but it doesn’t sound like you’ve done great. Wouldn’t you like your kids to do better than just fine?
Control for income and there is no evidence that similar kids do better at Langley than at Justice.
Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:12:58 here again,
Just re-read your question in the title of this thread.
I guess my answer to "does the school pyramid really make a difference in the long run?" is:
Maybe. It depends on your kid.
Many people think of it like an insurance policy -- they buy in the best zone they can afford so that they know they've done all they can do for the kid to succeed. Whatever happens from there is on the kid.
This.
I went to a TERRIBLE high school, as did my brother (middle school). There were routine knife fights in my school, and my brother was relentlessly bullied. As recent immigrants, we didn’t have options. Nor did our parents understand that there could be options. We kept our head down, and nose in the books. My brother tested into a really good high school (he didn’t even tell the family about the test. Or the bullying), a horrible commute away, but made it work. My partial college scholarships were insufficient for me to go to private college, so I went to a local one. Then went to a top tier grad school, while working 3 jobs to make it work. We have both done well in life. My brother just made partner, and I am immensely proud of how far we have both come.
TL;DR A really good work ethic, and family support, goes a long way in life. People with options wouldn’t want to put their children through that.
Give me a break. There are no schools in Fairfax or Arlington counties with "routine knife fights".
Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:OP I’m like you. Small town, elite college, even an engineer.
Did fine? So your HHI is like $200k — guessing from being in a condo looking at lower price SFH.
That is fine but going to a better pyramid opens up a network of people to learn and benefit from, peers who succeed and can refer you, parents with even more successful careers to give advice to their kids friends. I saw it at my elite college, having others from your circle helps a lot.
You did fine, but a better school let’s your kids do better.
+1. You may have “did fine,” but it doesn’t sound like you’ve done great. Wouldn’t you like your kids to do better than just fine?
Anonymous wrote:Justice and Langley or McLean? Yeah. Langley/McLean vs. Madison/Marshall/Oakton? Not really.