Anonymous
Post 05/27/2020 13:00     Subject: YouTube Influencer Myka Stauffer "rehomes" adopted son
I am too old to understand influencers. Who cares what this garbage vapid woman does or wears?
Anonymous
Post 05/27/2020 12:55     Subject: YouTube Influencer Myka Stauffer "rehomes" adopted son
Anonymous wrote:
Anonymous wrote:
Anonymous wrote:
Anonymous wrote:I don't understand the reasoning. Lots of people have bio children with special needs. In many cases, the parents really struggle and their lives are basically ruined. You're still not allowed to give them away!

Why are you allowed to do this with adopted children? They're piling trauma on top of trauma on that little boy.

How many homes has he been in? In a prior video, they mention that he was in a foster home in China so that's two (give up by his birth parents, Chinese foster parent, then their house, then a few other houses, and now his "forever" family? Until they get sick of him??)


People do place their biological kids with disabilities for adoption. It is definitely something that's allowed.

As a parent of a child with severe special needs, I have to disagree with the idea that many parents' lives are "basically ruined".


What? No. This is not a thing people are just allowed to do. When you have a bio kid with SN, if your life is "ruined", too bad so sad in our society.


Sometimes otherwise loving parents do have to terminate parental rights in order to get their kids intensive in-patient care that would otherwise not be affordable.


Yes. This happens rarely--but not a toddler!
Anonymous
Post 05/27/2020 12:54     Subject: YouTube Influencer Myka Stauffer "rehomes" adopted son
What do you tell your other kids? How are they not traumatized by you giving their brother away and wondering if they are next?
Anonymous
Post 05/27/2020 12:54     Subject: YouTube Influencer Myka Stauffer "rehomes" adopted son
Anonymous wrote:
Anonymous wrote:
Anonymous wrote:I don't understand the reasoning. Lots of people have bio children with special needs. In many cases, the parents really struggle and their lives are basically ruined. You're still not allowed to give them away!

Why are you allowed to do this with adopted children? They're piling trauma on top of trauma on that little boy.

How many homes has he been in? In a prior video, they mention that he was in a foster home in China so that's two (give up by his birth parents, Chinese foster parent, then their house, then a few other houses, and now his "forever" family? Until they get sick of him??)


People do place their biological kids with disabilities for adoption. It is definitely something that's allowed.

As a parent of a child with severe special needs, I have to disagree with the idea that many parents' lives are "basically ruined".


What? No. This is not a thing people are just allowed to do. When you have a bio kid with SN, if your life is "ruined", too bad so sad in our society.


Sometimes otherwise loving parents do have to terminate parental rights in order to get their kids intensive in-patient care that would otherwise not be affordable.
Anonymous
Post 05/27/2020 12:53     Subject: YouTube Influencer Myka Stauffer "rehomes" adopted son
Wow, I thought you guys were talking about a difficult teenager. I can't believe they rehomed a toddler like an unwanted puppy. WTF.
Anonymous
Post 05/27/2020 12:49     Subject: Re:YouTube Influencer Myka Stauffer "rehomes" adopted son
It's disgusting and beyond pathetic how they are trying so hard to cry and squeeze out fake tears, and repeatedly saying how much they love him from the bottom of their hearts, yet they gave him away. As the mother of a child with autism and severe needs, these people are despicable, and their actions are inexcusable. The only person in that situation who is truly suffering is Huxley.
Anonymous
Post 05/27/2020 12:48     Subject: Re:YouTube Influencer Myka Stauffer "rehomes" adopted son
Anonymous wrote:How much money did they receive? Did they refund everyone who gave them money?

You know they didn’t.
Anonymous
Post 05/27/2020 12:39     Subject: Re:YouTube Influencer Myka Stauffer "rehomes" adopted son
How much money did they receive? Did they refund everyone who gave them money?
Anonymous
Post 05/27/2020 12:27     Subject: YouTube Influencer Myka Stauffer "rehomes" adopted son
Let's get real. The kid staged a revolt that he planned the very second he found out they planned to call him HUXLEY. Talk about a terrible name.
Anonymous
Post 05/27/2020 12:24     Subject: YouTube Influencer Myka Stauffer "rehomes" adopted son
Anonymous wrote:Vapid garbage people who throw a child away rather than deal with special needs. She cries crocodile tears about it while relating in her best vocal fry how hard they really tried.

Then she turns around and posts on Instagram, “All I want this week is a little ME time (heart emoji). With everything going on right now, I need more than ever to carve out a little extra time, to de stress and recharge. ‘Alexa play spa music!’ Tonight I am going to pretend that I am at the finest spa with my @kiwibotanical goodies! Now on rollback $6.97 at Walmart!”



oh gross

"Hey folks, we rehomed our son like he's a dog"

2 seconds later

"Now about that sale at Walmart..."
Anonymous
Post 05/27/2020 12:21     Subject: YouTube Influencer Myka Stauffer "rehomes" adopted son
His fake tears were pathetic.

Never heard of these people before, but my first impression is about as bad as it gets.
Anonymous
Post 05/27/2020 12:14     Subject: YouTube Influencer Myka Stauffer "rehomes" adopted son
Vapid garbage people who throw a child away rather than deal with special needs. She cries crocodile tears about it while relating in her best vocal fry how hard they really tried.

Then she turns around and posts on Instagram, “All I want this week is a little ME time (heart emoji). With everything going on right now, I need more than ever to carve out a little extra time, to de stress and recharge. ‘Alexa play spa music!’ Tonight I am going to pretend that I am at the finest spa with my @kiwibotanical goodies! Now on rollback $6.97 at Walmart!”

Anonymous
Post 05/27/2020 12:01     Subject: YouTube Influencer Myka Stauffer "rehomes" adopted son
Anonymous wrote:
Anonymous wrote:
Anonymous wrote:I mean, this sounds bad but who really wants to raise a child with severe autism and RAD? Especially with 4 other children in the picture.

I wouldn't. She did a video once about how expensive and time consuming his therapies were. If I could opt out of that, I would too.

Would I actually give the kid back? Probably not but I'd want to, for sure.

Then why adopt a child with special needs? They knew he would have delays before even leaving for China.


+1 There's a perspective among some (white, Christian) adoptive parents that any home in the United States is better than any home in the child's country of origin. But that's not always true, and I think it's worth interrogating whether these folks did more harm than good by removing Huxley from his home culture, language, and whatever supports he could have received in a Chinese foster home (which is increasingly the model).


+ 1

Their "excuse" is that "God called them to adopt" though so that's one of those things that's impossible to argue with when it comes to believers.
Anonymous
Post 05/27/2020 11:44     Subject: Re:YouTube Influencer Myka Stauffer "rehomes" adopted son
Anonymous wrote:Who adopts a BOY from China? Was he special needs


The infant girl adoptions from China are long over. The children available for adoption have special needs and a sizable majority are boys.
Anonymous
Post 05/27/2020 11:43     Subject: YouTube Influencer Myka Stauffer "rehomes" adopted son
Anonymous wrote:I'm always suspicious of people who adopt kids when they already have their own bio kids, it seems like a recipe for disaster, especially when they have to "raise money" to adopt the child from overseas.

Instead, they could have fostered a traumatized child from here, but then they would have some oversight.


Why? What is so suspicious about it?