Anonymous
03/27/2020 12:19
Subject: Have you ever been called ugly?
Anonymous wrote:Oh Jesus, this thread was supportive for the first couple pages and now it's turning ugly, pun intended. A guy calling you cute means he secretly thinks you're ugly?
Uh yeah. I don’t know if you’ve ever been set up on a blind date but what does it mean when they describe them as “cute “???
Anonymous
03/27/2020 12:17
Subject: Have you ever been called ugly?
Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:I was called ugly once in my teens/college by other girls and it's made me so insecure. Everyone else has called me pretty but I'm still shook up about two women I knew as a teenager. Wtf.
It depends. What were the circumstances when those girls called you ugly? Were they being serious or were you girls fighting or arguing? Also, if the “everyone “ who calls you pretty are related to you, I’m sorry but those really don’t count.
LOL this response started as nice but then got so bitchy so quick.
LOL is that a phrase? Or did you make it up? I like it.
That response reminded me of the time I confided in someone that I was called ugly as a kid and she said "Well, pretty people don't really get called ugly."
LOL, OMG that is horrible!
Plus see my comment about Cameron Diaz. She was called ugly as a kid.
I know. And I was only called ugly by other girls, I have been called cute or pretty by multiple men (good looking ones too!) so I really think it's fine. But I was like what the f, who says that?!
FYI getting compliments from men really doesn’t count much because they have ulterior motives. Just sayin. I notice that a lot on FB. The ugliest girls possible getting all these crazy compliments on their selfies but only from men. .
Men find them attractive. That matters more than what some competitive women think of other women.
Sorry I’ve always valued a woman telling me I’m beautiful way more than a man! She doesn’t have any ulterior motives.
I've been called beautiful by both men and women, ugly by women only (twice in my life, ouch), and "unattractive at first" once by a man (and I suspect others felt it but didn't say it). What does that make me? Everyone has different tastes I guess....
Anonymous
03/27/2020 12:17
Subject: Have you ever been called ugly?
Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:I was called ugly once in my teens/college by other girls and it's made me so insecure. Everyone else has called me pretty but I'm still shook up about two women I knew as a teenager. Wtf.
It depends. What were the circumstances when those girls called you ugly? Were they being serious or were you girls fighting or arguing? Also, if the “everyone “ who calls you pretty are related to you, I’m sorry but those really don’t count.
LOL this response started as nice but then got so bitchy so quick.
LOL is that a phrase? Or did you make it up? I like it.
That response reminded me of the time I confided in someone that I was called ugly as a kid and she said "Well, pretty people don't really get called ugly."
LOL, OMG that is horrible!
Plus see my comment about Cameron Diaz. She was called ugly as a kid.
I know. And I was only called ugly by other girls, I have been called cute or pretty by multiple men (good looking ones too!) so I really think it's fine. But I was like what the f, who says that?!
FYI getting compliments from men really doesn’t count much because they have ulterior motives. Just sayin. I notice that a lot on FB. The ugliest girls possible getting all these crazy compliments on their selfies but only from men. .
Men find them attractive. That matters more than what some competitive women think of other women.
Sorry I’ve always valued a woman telling me I’m beautiful way more than a man! She doesn’t have any ulterior motives.
What if a couple of women who didn't like me in school called me ugly but other women call me pretty. Does that count or do the bitches who called me ugly negate the ones who think I am pretty?
It depends. We’re the other women at the school for the blind?
God some of you are terrible.
Anonymous
03/27/2020 12:16
Subject: Re:Have you ever been called ugly?
Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:Literally my entire childhood, and throughout my adulthood though less aggressively.
One time when my brother was delivering newspapers, a neighborhood boy in my grade gave my brother a dog biscuit to give me. Because I was a dog. I always dreaded Halloween because all through October I'd get told "Hey, take off your scary mask - it's not Halloween yet" and then on Halloween "wow you don't even need a mask to look terrifying" and all through November "Halloween ended - take off your mask already." One time someone (still don't know who) poured an entire aluminum pan of Elmer's glue over my head in class, and the class promptly took a poll of "Who thinks Lauren looks better with the glue covering her up?" and everyone raised their hands. As an adult, at work, two coworker and I were talking about marriage and one of them said "Well, obviously YOU'LL never be able to get married..."
I could go on and on.
OMG, I am so sorry for this poster. Hugs. People are seriously awful (look no further than some of the responses on this thread). Makes you wish karma were real....
Seriously. What neighborhood did you grow up in, the meanest place in America? Even if you were ugly I can't imagine saying that to someone's face.
Anonymous
03/27/2020 12:15
Subject: Re:Have you ever been called ugly?
Anonymous wrote:Literally my entire childhood, and throughout my adulthood though less aggressively.
One time when my brother was delivering newspapers, a neighborhood boy in my grade gave my brother a dog biscuit to give me. Because I was a dog. I always dreaded Halloween because all through October I'd get told "Hey, take off your scary mask - it's not Halloween yet" and then on Halloween "wow you don't even need a mask to look terrifying" and all through November "Halloween ended - take off your mask already." One time someone (still don't know who) poured an entire aluminum pan of Elmer's glue over my head in class, and the class promptly took a poll of "Who thinks Lauren looks better with the glue covering her up?" and everyone raised their hands. As an adult, at work, two coworker and I were talking about marriage and one of them said "Well, obviously YOU'LL never be able to get married..."
I could go on and on.
OMG, I am so sorry for this poster. Hugs. People are seriously awful (look no further than some of the responses on this thread). Makes you wish karma were real....
Anonymous
03/27/2020 12:13
Subject: Have you ever been called ugly?
Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:I was called ugly once in my teens/college by other girls and it's made me so insecure. Everyone else has called me pretty but I'm still shook up about two women I knew as a teenager. Wtf.
It depends. What were the circumstances when those girls called you ugly? Were they being serious or were you girls fighting or arguing? Also, if the “everyone “ who calls you pretty are related to you, I’m sorry but those really don’t count.
LOL this response started as nice but then got so bitchy so quick.
LOL is that a phrase? Or did you make it up? I like it.
That response reminded me of the time I confided in someone that I was called ugly as a kid and she said "Well, pretty people don't really get called ugly."
LOL, OMG that is horrible!
Plus see my comment about Cameron Diaz. She was called ugly as a kid.
I know. And I was only called ugly by other girls, I have been called cute or pretty by multiple men (good looking ones too!) so I really think it's fine. But I was like what the f, who says that?!
Don’t shoot the messenger but the term “cute” is code for ugly when coming from a guy.
No, it isn't. "Not attracted to her" means ugly.
Anonymous
03/27/2020 12:12
Subject: Have you ever been called ugly?
Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:I was called ugly once in my teens/college by other girls and it's made me so insecure. Everyone else has called me pretty but I'm still shook up about two women I knew as a teenager. Wtf.
It depends. What were the circumstances when those girls called you ugly? Were they being serious or were you girls fighting or arguing? Also, if the “everyone “ who calls you pretty are related to you, I’m sorry but those really don’t count.
LOL this response started as nice but then got so bitchy so quick.
LOL is that a phrase? Or did you make it up? I like it.
That response reminded me of the time I confided in someone that I was called ugly as a kid and she said "Well, pretty people don't really get called ugly."
LOL, OMG that is horrible!
Plus see my comment about Cameron Diaz. She was called ugly as a kid.
I know. And I was only called ugly by other girls, I have been called cute or pretty by multiple men (good looking ones too!) so I really think it's fine. But I was like what the f, who says that?!
FYI getting compliments from men really doesn’t count much because they have ulterior motives. Just sayin. I notice that a lot on FB. The ugliest girls possible getting all these crazy compliments on their selfies but only from men. .
Men find them attractive. That matters more than what some competitive women think of other women.
Sorry I’ve always valued a woman telling me I’m beautiful way more than a man! She doesn’t have any ulterior motives.
What if a couple of women who didn't like me in school called me ugly but other women call me pretty. Does that count or do the bitches who called me ugly negate the ones who think I am pretty?
It depends. We’re the other women at the school for the blind?
Anonymous
03/27/2020 12:11
Subject: Re:Have you ever been called ugly?
Literally my entire childhood, and throughout my adulthood though less aggressively.
One time when my brother was delivering newspapers, a neighborhood boy in my grade gave my brother a dog biscuit to give me. Because I was a dog. I always dreaded Halloween because all through October I'd get told "Hey, take off your scary mask - it's not Halloween yet" and then on Halloween "wow you don't even need a mask to look terrifying" and all through November "Halloween ended - take off your mask already." One time someone (still don't know who) poured an entire aluminum pan of Elmer's glue over my head in class, and the class promptly took a poll of "Who thinks Lauren looks better with the glue covering her up?" and everyone raised their hands. As an adult, at work, two coworker and I were talking about marriage and one of them said "Well, obviously YOU'LL never be able to get married..."
I could go on and on.
One time when my brother was delivering newspapers, a neighborhood boy in my grade gave my brother a dog biscuit to give me. Because I was a dog. I always dreaded Halloween because all through October I'd get told "Hey, take off your scary mask - it's not Halloween yet" and then on Halloween "wow you don't even need a mask to look terrifying" and all through November "Halloween ended - take off your mask already." One time someone (still don't know who) poured an entire aluminum pan of Elmer's glue over my head in class, and the class promptly took a poll of "Who thinks Lauren looks better with the glue covering her up?" and everyone raised their hands. As an adult, at work, two coworker and I were talking about marriage and one of them said "Well, obviously YOU'LL never be able to get married..."
I could go on and on.
Anonymous
03/27/2020 12:07
Subject: Have you ever been called ugly?
Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:I was called ugly once in my teens/college by other girls and it's made me so insecure. Everyone else has called me pretty but I'm still shook up about two women I knew as a teenager. Wtf.
It depends. What were the circumstances when those girls called you ugly? Were they being serious or were you girls fighting or arguing? Also, if the “everyone “ who calls you pretty are related to you, I’m sorry but those really don’t count.
LOL this response started as nice but then got so bitchy so quick.
LOL is that a phrase? Or did you make it up? I like it.
That response reminded me of the time I confided in someone that I was called ugly as a kid and she said "Well, pretty people don't really get called ugly."
LOL, OMG that is horrible!
Plus see my comment about Cameron Diaz. She was called ugly as a kid.
I know. And I was only called ugly by other girls, I have been called cute or pretty by multiple men (good looking ones too!) so I really think it's fine. But I was like what the f, who says that?!
FYI getting compliments from men really doesn’t count much because they have ulterior motives. Just sayin. I notice that a lot on FB. The ugliest girls possible getting all these crazy compliments on their selfies but only from men. .
Men find them attractive. That matters more than what some competitive women think of other women.
Sorry I’ve always valued a woman telling me I’m beautiful way more than a man! She doesn’t have any ulterior motives.
So if one woman calls you ugly than it's definitely true. Got it.
Anonymous
03/27/2020 12:07
Subject: Have you ever been called ugly?
Oh Jesus, this thread was supportive for the first couple pages and now it's turning ugly, pun intended. A guy calling you cute means he secretly thinks you're ugly?
Anonymous
03/27/2020 12:06
Subject: Have you ever been called ugly?
Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:I was called ugly once in my teens/college by other girls and it's made me so insecure. Everyone else has called me pretty but I'm still shook up about two women I knew as a teenager. Wtf.
It depends. What were the circumstances when those girls called you ugly? Were they being serious or were you girls fighting or arguing? Also, if the “everyone “ who calls you pretty are related to you, I’m sorry but those really don’t count.
LOL this response started as nice but then got so bitchy so quick.
LOL is that a phrase? Or did you make it up? I like it.
That response reminded me of the time I confided in someone that I was called ugly as a kid and she said "Well, pretty people don't really get called ugly."
LOL, OMG that is horrible!
Plus see my comment about Cameron Diaz. She was called ugly as a kid.
I know. And I was only called ugly by other girls, I have been called cute or pretty by multiple men (good looking ones too!) so I really think it's fine. But I was like what the f, who says that?!
Don’t shoot the messenger but the term “cute” is code for ugly when coming from a guy.
Anonymous
03/27/2020 12:05
Subject: Have you ever been called ugly?
Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:I was called ugly once in my teens/college by other girls and it's made me so insecure. Everyone else has called me pretty but I'm still shook up about two women I knew as a teenager. Wtf.
It depends. What were the circumstances when those girls called you ugly? Were they being serious or were you girls fighting or arguing? Also, if the “everyone “ who calls you pretty are related to you, I’m sorry but those really don’t count.
LOL this response started as nice but then got so bitchy so quick.
LOL is that a phrase? Or did you make it up? I like it.
That response reminded me of the time I confided in someone that I was called ugly as a kid and she said "Well, pretty people don't really get called ugly."
LOL, OMG that is horrible!
Plus see my comment about Cameron Diaz. She was called ugly as a kid.
I know. And I was only called ugly by other girls, I have been called cute or pretty by multiple men (good looking ones too!) so I really think it's fine. But I was like what the f, who says that?!
FYI getting compliments from men really doesn’t count much because they have ulterior motives. Just sayin. I notice that a lot on FB. The ugliest girls possible getting all these crazy compliments on their selfies but only from men. .
Men find them attractive. That matters more than what some competitive women think of other women.
Sorry I’ve always valued a woman telling me I’m beautiful way more than a man! She doesn’t have any ulterior motives.
What if a couple of women who didn't like me in school called me ugly but other women call me pretty. Does that count or do the bitches who called me ugly negate the ones who think I am pretty?
Anonymous
03/27/2020 12:04
Subject: Have you ever been called ugly?
Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:I was called ugly once in my teens/college by other girls and it's made me so insecure. Everyone else has called me pretty but I'm still shook up about two women I knew as a teenager. Wtf.
It depends. What were the circumstances when those girls called you ugly? Were they being serious or were you girls fighting or arguing? Also, if the “everyone “ who calls you pretty are related to you, I’m sorry but those really don’t count.
LOL this response started as nice but then got so bitchy so quick.
LOL is that a phrase? Or did you make it up? I like it.
That response reminded me of the time I confided in someone that I was called ugly as a kid and she said "Well, pretty people don't really get called ugly."
LOL, OMG that is horrible!
Plus see my comment about Cameron Diaz. She was called ugly as a kid.
I know. And I was only called ugly by other girls, I have been called cute or pretty by multiple men (good looking ones too!) so I really think it's fine. But I was like what the f, who says that?!
FYI getting compliments from men really doesn’t count much because they have ulterior motives. Just sayin. I notice that a lot on FB. The ugliest girls possible getting all these crazy compliments on their selfies but only from men. .
Men find them attractive. That matters more than what some competitive women think of other women.
Sorry I’ve always valued a woman telling me I’m beautiful way more than a man! She doesn’t have any ulterior motives.
So if one woman calls you ugly than it's definitely true. Got it.
Anonymous
03/27/2020 12:03
Subject: Have you ever been called ugly?
Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:I was called ugly once in my teens/college by other girls and it's made me so insecure. Everyone else has called me pretty but I'm still shook up about two women I knew as a teenager. Wtf.
It depends. What were the circumstances when those girls called you ugly? Were they being serious or were you girls fighting or arguing? Also, if the “everyone “ who calls you pretty are related to you, I’m sorry but those really don’t count.
LOL this response started as nice but then got so bitchy so quick.
LOL is that a phrase? Or did you make it up? I like it.
That response reminded me of the time I confided in someone that I was called ugly as a kid and she said "Well, pretty people don't really get called ugly."
LOL, OMG that is horrible!
Plus see my comment about Cameron Diaz. She was called ugly as a kid.
I know. And I was only called ugly by other girls, I have been called cute or pretty by multiple men (good looking ones too!) so I really think it's fine. But I was like what the f, who says that?!
FYI getting compliments from men really doesn’t count much because they have ulterior motives. Just sayin. I notice that a lot on FB. The ugliest girls possible getting all these crazy compliments on their selfies but only from men. .
Men find them attractive. That matters more than what some competitive women think of other women.
Sorry I’ve always valued a woman telling me I’m beautiful way more than a man! She doesn’t have any ulterior motives.
Anonymous
03/27/2020 12:03
Subject: Have you ever been called ugly?
Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:I was called ugly once in my teens/college by other girls and it's made me so insecure. Everyone else has called me pretty but I'm still shook up about two women I knew as a teenager. Wtf.
It depends. What were the circumstances when those girls called you ugly? Were they being serious or were you girls fighting or arguing? Also, if the “everyone “ who calls you pretty are related to you, I’m sorry but those really don’t count.
LOL this response started as nice but then got so bitchy so quick.
LOL is that a phrase? Or did you make it up? I like it.
That response reminded me of the time I confided in someone that I was called ugly as a kid and she said "Well, pretty people don't really get called ugly."
LOL, OMG that is horrible!
Plus see my comment about Cameron Diaz. She was called ugly as a kid.
I know. And I was only called ugly by other girls, I have been called cute or pretty by multiple men (good looking ones too!) so I really think it's fine. But I was like what the f, who says that?!
FYI getting compliments from men really doesn’t count much because they have ulterior motives. Just sayin. I notice that a lot on FB. The ugliest girls possible getting all these crazy compliments on their selfies but only from men. .
Men find them attractive. That matters more than what some competitive women think of other women.
I think it depends. If you're posting skanky selfies a lot, then yes, I could see men only complimenting you because they think you're easy. If you're just going about your life and some jealous women call you ugly but some men call you pretty, I think that's different.