Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Yea, I don?t have my 20 year old body anymore, but when I was 20 I was pretty terrible in bed.

Nah, when you're 20, all you have to do is have a 20 year old body to be "good in bed".

*shrug* if body age is all that a guy is into, that?s fine. Doesn?t bother me. We all have our own tastes. I certainly slept with my share of older men when I was young.

I?m much happier with my sex life now than I was in my 20s. If a guy isn?t into me because I?m not 20, there are plenty of other men who are eager to jump into bed with me. None of us are as hot as a 20 year old in their physical prime. It?s no big deal. I?d much rather enjoy my sex life and have blast than spend all my time worrying that I don?t have a perfect body.

Anonymous wrote:

Yea, I don’t have my 20 year old body anymore, but when I was 20 I was pretty terrible in bed.

Nah, when you're 20, all you have to do is have a 20 year old body to be "good in bed".

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:Single moms who have just become empty nesters are the best. They have a degree of freedom they haven’t had in maybe 20 years and sexually they may be at their peak.

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LOL idiot they were at their sexual peak at 20 and they hit the wall 10 years ago but if that's what you want go for it.

Guess it depends what you’re looking for. Yea, I don’t have my 20 year old body anymore, but when I was 20 I was pretty terrible in bed. I was inhibited, didn’t know what I wanted, and extremely self-conscious. Now I’m much more open, ask for exactly what I want, and can go multiple times a night. But some guys don’t like that, I don’t know if they’re intimidated or what, but I’ve definitely had men who were uncomfortable with anything other than vanilla.

Yea, I don’t have my 20 year old body anymore, but when I was 20 I was pretty terrible in bed.

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:New poster.
As a single mom, I understand why a childless man may not want me or another single mom.
What I do not understand however, is why would a single mom (even the one who is much hotter and younger than me) want a childless dude?
I am new to this, but do such men usually not only marry but financially support their stepkids?! I had no idea.
I mean, I personally don’t care to not only get married again but even move in with anyone, unless I gain a lot financially- a bigger house in a better school district and nice outings and vacations etc etc. However, I am under an impression that it is a very rare occurrence that a single childless man has this to offer and moreover WANTS to offer it to a single mom...
If so, why would a single mom care if the dude is childless??
Please explain?

A lot of men are good people. I’ve never been turned down by a man because I have a child. In my last relationship, he took it very seriously and worked hard on his finances because he wanted to be in a better position to support us (we broke up for other reasons).

I don’t care if a man has kids or not, but I tend to have more in common with those who do.

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:Single moms who have just become empty nesters are the best. They have a degree of freedom they haven’t had in maybe 20 years and sexually they may be at their peak.

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LOL idiot they were at their sexual peak at 20 and they hit the wall 10 years ago but if that's what you want go for it.