Anonymous wrote:https://www.theroot.com/the-2019-rules-and-revisions-for-black-thanksgiving-1840024400

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Anonymous wrote:Her first book made a lot of “literary” waves (both by being loved and hated), and paved the way for similar memoirs, including many by black women (Roxane Gay is a clear descendant). People of any race who are into that world would have been aware of it, but if you’re not big into navel-gazing literary controversies it easily could have passed you by.

I think what triggered me was that the reviews suggested that she had such an impact on Gen X. I went to a women’s college and so that’s why I was really curious as a black woman. This is been so intriguing to me that I called a girlfriend who is also black. She had the same reaction that I did. I told her I was calling her because she was black and went to Harvard so maybe she had a different perspective. She didn’t. We have the same perspective. We laughed about it.

Yeah, but there are several whites women on the thread saying she had no impact or they didnt know who she was. So why extrapolate to a race distinction?

PP posed a question and hypothesis. Why is the mention of race making you so uncomfortable?

It's not the mention of race, it's the suggestion of extrapolating one person's experience into a racial thing. That's lazy and prejudiced. If I posted saying my coworker always suggests having wine at work and asked if that's a "black woman thing" people would be horrified, and for good reason. Or if I said my other coworker likes to imitate accents, and is that a "Hispanic thing." That's ignorant. I don't assume that because my coworkers of any particular race, age, religion do something, that that means everyone of that race, age, or religion does that thing. It's equally ignorant coming from this PP and from you.

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Oh my God. Get over yourself. You are projecting. No one is denigrating anything. There are definitely cultural differences. There are definitely some things that are white women things. If you don’t know that then you have not been paying attention for a very long time. That’s not good or bad, it’s just a thing. I am sure that I can mention some things that are very prominent in the black women’s community that you would have no clue about. That’s not good or bad, it’s just a thing. Clearly, the book may or may not have been interesting to me. I just didn’t realize that it was such a big deal. You are the epitome of being too PC. Some things have nothing to do with racism. There are cultural differences between black people and white people. For instance, have you ever been to a black Thanksgiving? It’s very different.

I realize this has nothing to do with Elizabeth Wurtzel, but now I really want to hear about the cultural differences between black and white Thanksgiving celebrations.

There was a thread that discussed this around Thanksgiving:

Mac and Cheese as Thanksgiving staple?
https://www.dcurbanmom.com/jforum/posts/list/840515.page

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Anonymous wrote:Her first book made a lot of “literary” waves (both by being loved and hated), and paved the way for similar memoirs, including many by black women (Roxane Gay is a clear descendant). People of any race who are into that world would have been aware of it, but if you’re not big into navel-gazing literary controversies it easily could have passed you by.

I think what triggered me was that the reviews suggested that she had such an impact on Gen X. I went to a women’s college and so that’s why I was really curious as a black woman. This is been so intriguing to me that I called a girlfriend who is also black. She had the same reaction that I did. I told her I was calling her because she was black and went to Harvard so maybe she had a different perspective. She didn’t. We have the same perspective. We laughed about it.

Yeah, but there are several whites women on the thread saying she had no impact or they didnt know who she was. So why extrapolate to a race distinction?

PP posed a question and hypothesis. Why is the mention of race making you so uncomfortable?

Anonymous wrote:Guys the story here is cancer mowing down someone who had every resource to treat it and in her early 50s. It's extremely disturbing and something we all have reason to fear and pay attention to.

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Oh my God. Get over yourself. You are projecting. No one is denigrating anything. There are definitely cultural differences. There are definitely some things that are white women things. If you don’t know that then you have not been paying attention for a very long time. That’s not good or bad, it’s just a thing. I am sure that I can mention some things that are very prominent in the black women’s community that you would have no clue about. That’s not good or bad, it’s just a thing. Clearly, the book may or may not have been interesting to me. I just didn’t realize that it was such a big deal. You are the epitome of being too PC. Some things have nothing to do with racism. There are cultural differences between black people and white people. For instance, have you ever been to a black Thanksgiving? It’s very different.

I realize this has nothing to do with Elizabeth Wurtzel, but now I really want to hear about the cultural differences between black and white Thanksgiving celebrations.

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Anonymous wrote:The story of her wedding in 2015 sounds really lovely. https://www.nytimes.com/2015/05/31/style/elizabeth-wurtzel-finds-someone-to-love-her.html

Though I find it disturbing her initial diagnosis was only stage 2 breast cancer. That's a fairly early stage for diagnosis, to have it turn out to be terminal in the end.

30% of early stage breast cancer becomes stage four (terminal). People forget that admist all the pink washing.

This.

My mother was diagnosed and treated for Stage 2. Two years later it came back as Stage 4; died three years later. So, 5 years from original Stage 2 diagnosis.

Breast cancer sucks. And when it comes back (as it usually does), it comes back with a vengeance.

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Anonymous wrote:The story of her wedding in 2015 sounds really lovely. https://www.nytimes.com/2015/05/31/style/elizabeth-wurtzel-finds-someone-to-love-her.html

Though I find it disturbing her initial diagnosis was only stage 2 breast cancer. That's a fairly early stage for diagnosis, to have it turn out to be terminal in the end.

30% of early stage breast cancer becomes stage four (terminal). People forget that admist all the pink washing.

Oh my God. Get over yourself. You are projecting. No one is denigrating anything. There are definitely cultural differences. There are definitely some things that are white women things. If you don’t know that then you have not been paying attention for a very long time. That’s not good or bad, it’s just a thing. I am sure that I can mention some things that are very prominent in the black women’s community that you would have no clue about. That’s not good or bad, it’s just a thing. Clearly, the book may or may not have been interesting to me. I just didn’t realize that it was such a big deal. You are the epitome of being too PC. Some things have nothing to do with racism. There are cultural differences between black people and white people. For instance, have you ever been to a black Thanksgiving? It’s very different.

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Anonymous wrote:Her first book made a lot of “literary” waves (both by being loved and hated), and paved the way for similar memoirs, including many by black women (Roxane Gay is a clear descendant). People of any race who are into that world would have been aware of it, but if you’re not big into navel-gazing literary controversies it easily could have passed you by.

I think what triggered me was that the reviews suggested that she had such an impact on Gen X. I went to a women’s college and so that’s why I was really curious as a black woman. This is been so intriguing to me that I called a girlfriend who is also black. She had the same reaction that I did. I told her I was calling her because she was black and went to Harvard so maybe she had a different perspective. She didn’t. We have the same perspective. We laughed about it.

Yeah, but there are several whites women on the thread saying she had no impact or they didnt know who she was. So why extrapolate to a race distinction?

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Anonymous wrote:Her first book made a lot of “literary” waves (both by being loved and hated), and paved the way for similar memoirs, including many by black women (Roxane Gay is a clear descendant). People of any race who are into that world would have been aware of it, but if you’re not big into navel-gazing literary controversies it easily could have passed you by.

I think what triggered me was that the reviews suggested that she had such an impact on Gen X. I went to a women’s college and so that’s why I was really curious as a black woman. This is been so intriguing to me that I called a girlfriend who is also black. She had the same reaction that I did. I told her I was calling her because she was black and went to Harvard so maybe she had a different perspective. She didn’t. We have the same perspective. We laughed about it.

Again, she clearly paved the way for a certain kind of work or voice, which, again, clearly was very influential on Gen X. Maybe you didn’t tie the trends and impact she had to her, but those reviews are obviously correct.

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Anonymous wrote:Her first book made a lot of “literary” waves (both by being loved and hated), and paved the way for similar memoirs, including many by black women (Roxane Gay is a clear descendant). People of any race who are into that world would have been aware of it, but if you’re not big into navel-gazing literary controversies it easily could have passed you by.

I think what triggered me was that the reviews suggested that she had such an impact on Gen X. I went to a women’s college and so that’s why I was really curious as a black woman. This is been so intriguing to me that I called a girlfriend who is also black. She had the same reaction that I did. I told her I was calling her because she was black and went to Harvard so maybe she had a different perspective. She didn’t. We have the same perspective. We laughed about it.

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Anonymous wrote:Her first book made a lot of “literary” waves (both by being loved and hated), and paved the way for similar memoirs, including many by black women (Roxane Gay is a clear descendant). People of any race who are into that world would have been aware of it, but if you’re not big into navel-gazing literary controversies it easily could have passed you by.

I think what triggered me was that the reviews suggested that she had such an impact on Gen X. I went to a women’s college and so that’s why I was really curious as a black woman. This is been so intriguing to me that I called a girlfriend who is also black. She had the same reaction that I did. I told her I was calling her because she was black and went to Harvard so maybe she had a different perspective. She didn’t. We have the same perspective. We laughed about it.