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Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:Age 18: 0
Age 19: 8
Age 20: 19
Age 21: 27
Age 22: 28 (met DH)
Age 42: 28

How would you judge me for 3 years in college?

I'm embarrassed for your husband at reunions.

100 years of women struggling and being treated like second-class citizens. All so PP can get pounded (erm..."sensual hookups") by 27 different drunken college dudes and anyone who judges her for it is an oppressive sexist!

Exactly WTF is it to you how many guys she's been with?
How does it affect you in any way?

I’ve known people like this, and it always stems from insecurity. People who are secure in themselves and their sexuality don’t care what others do because sex is awesome.

so this applies to the women who have posted here, judging men with high numbers and deeming them unsuitable for LTRs?

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:Age 18: 0
Age 19: 8
Age 20: 19
Age 21: 27
Age 22: 28 (met DH)
Age 42: 28

How would you judge me for 3 years in college?

I'm embarrassed for your husband at reunions.

100 years of women struggling and being treated like second-class citizens. All so PP can get pounded (erm..."sensual hookups") by 27 different drunken college dudes and anyone who judges her for it is an oppressive sexist!

Exactly WTF is it to you how many guys she's been with?
How does it affect you in any way?

I’ve known people like this, and it always stems from insecurity. People who are secure in themselves and their sexuality don’t care what others do because sex is awesome.

For a woman it's mental disease or defect. For a man it's ok.

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Anonymous wrote:It was 1 before college and 3 at end of first year. I lost count in year 2 & 3, but was probably around 30 combined for both years. Most of my friends also had a similar number in years 2&3. Way down in year 4 and afterwards.

DH would be shocked if he knew.

Why would DH be shocked? I assume my wife had a similar experience even though she claims a lower #. I had tons of fun in college with girls like you!

He is under the impression that I had been with very few men before him. I did not talk anything about this, but I may acted a bit too virginal when we are together the first time.

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:Age 18: 0
Age 19: 8
Age 20: 19
Age 21: 27
Age 22: 28 (met DH)
Age 42: 28

How would you judge me for 3 years in college?

I'm embarrassed for your husband at reunions.

100 years of women struggling and being treated like second-class citizens. All so PP can get pounded (erm..."sensual hookups") by 27 different drunken college dudes and anyone who judges her for it is an oppressive sexist!

Exactly WTF is it to you how many guys she's been with?
How does it affect you in any way?

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:No. Sex is normal. Sex is great. Sex should be enjoyed.

Daily.

Dear Gd yes.

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:Age 18: 0
Age 19: 8
Age 20: 19
Age 21: 27
Age 22: 28 (met DH)
Age 42: 28

How would you judge me for 3 years in college?

I'm embarrassed for your husband at reunions.

100 years of women struggling and being treated like second-class citizens. All so PP can get pounded (erm..."sensual hookups") by 27 different drunken college dudes and anyone who judges her for it is an oppressive sexist!

Anonymous wrote:It was 1 before college and 3 at end of first year. I lost count in year 2 & 3, but was probably around 30 combined for both years. Most of my friends also had a similar number in years 2&3. Way down in year 4 and afterwards.

DH would be shocked if he knew.

Why would DH be shocked? I assume my wife had a similar experience even though she claims a lower #. I had tons of fun in college with girls like you!

It was 1 before college and 3 at end of first year. I lost count in year 2 & 3, but was probably around 30 combined for both years. Most of my friends also had a similar number in years 2&3. Way down in year 4 and afterwards.

DH would be shocked if he knew.

My current partner only had 7 including me. I like that. I don't like being in a relationship with a woman who has a high number. For a FB, it's fine.

Agree with PP. I had a low number because I was married young. Divorced for four years and into the 30s. I am dating hoping to get married again, and a healthy sexual relationship is part of that.

Men who was at 20 partners when I got married at 30. And I am relationship minded and this includes three situations that were anywhere from over a year to two years.

It's really not that difficult to push it to 25+. Didn't go to bars, these are women I met at school or work or through people at both. So I can't/won't judge someone with a high count. I'm not a bad looking guy but seriously. it's pretty easy to do.

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:Age 18: 0
Age 19: 8
Age 20: 19
Age 21: 27
Age 22: 28 (met DH)
Age 42: 28

How would you judge me for 3 years in college?

Did you do stuff with those other guys that you deny to your husband?

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Anonymous wrote:That’s about 2.5 people per year. Not a high number.

Silly old me here is thinking that letting a different man stick his d*ck in me every three months is a bit gross. I don't even change my toothbrush that often.

That's kind of gross. Change your toothbrush!

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Anonymous wrote:I’m in my early 30s and married. But most of my male friends are well over that number. For a normal, non-celeb man to have a lot of partners (50-100+) I would assume they are absolute trash in bed as they presumably dont have a lot of repeat business if you will. Study after study has shown that women are, on average, less satisfied in casual hookups.

Although I couldn’t relate to a woman with a high number of sexual partners I don’t think I would think anything about that one way or another.

Do they want repeat business? A lot of guys just like to rack up body counts; especially those that can. No vajayjay is that special.

Maybe. But for every guy like that there are 10 more who are lazy and would value the ease of sleeping with someone they already slept with.