Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:
See, it’s a cultural issue. Some cultures view things differently.
In which culture(s) is it unacceptable for grandmothers to provide child care? I'm asking sincerely.
The white and self-claimed residence police.
If anyone rents a room, an apartment, a basement apartment in a good school distract with a lease and live there, they have the right to send their child to local school.
Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:
See, it’s a cultural issue. Some cultures view things differently.
In which culture(s) is it unacceptable for grandmothers to provide child care? I'm asking sincerely.
The white and self-claimed residence police.
If anyone rents a room, an apartment, a basement apartment in a good school distract with a lease and live there, they have the right to send their child to local school.
Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:
See, it’s a cultural issue. Some cultures view things differently.
In which culture(s) is it unacceptable for grandmothers to provide child care? I'm asking sincerely.
Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:
See, it’s a cultural issue. Some cultures view things differently.
In which culture(s) is it unacceptable for grandmothers to provide child care? I'm asking sincerely.
Anonymous wrote:
See, it’s a cultural issue. Some cultures view things differently.
Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:If I rent a basement of a house in another school boundary - but still live in current home, Can I use the rental as my address to get DD into school?
Yes. You can absolutely do this. Many families do.
You'll get some posters on here who feign outrage, but in many cultures, you do what you need to do to get ahead. So, many families in MCPS use relatives' addresses, or friends' addresses to attend schools that are out of their boundary. It's NBD, and nobody every gets caught.
My coworker even lives in Frederick County, and her daughter attends MCPS because they are using an aunt's address. It's very prevalent, though I'm not an MCPS fan, so not sure what the appeal is!
Not feigning outrage here.
?? Not sure what you're saying.
PP is actually wrong. I have reported someone myself when my kids were younger. So, definitely not nobody.
And, what came of it?
Nothing.
My neighbor also reported someone. The person was definitely NOT living in our neighborhood. Kids lived at a completely different address. Did not have a COSA, but the parents used a grandparents' address. They said it was 'shared housing', even though the kids slept at their actual home every single night. Mom drove them to and from the bus stop daily.
That's a totally different situation. Using grandparents address is accepted practice because many families rely on grandparents for after care. Totally legal.
As for what came of my reporting, how do you know nothing came out? You really shouldn't BS things you don't know about. Dont' get worked up.
LOL, not actually legal. I mean, can I use my nanny's address? You don't know the rules, you're just an unethical human being who is being a selfish jerk.
It's not unethical to fill out a COSA and tell the truth that you parents provide care in the afternoon.
First Granny shouldn't be a child care provider. How cheap can you be?
Second, Granny can be at your house to pick child up from bus.
Not a reasonable COSA at all.
This is just obnoxious. Grannies have been providing childcare for centuries. Why shouldn’t Granny do child care? This comment is individualism to a crazy extreme.
See, it’s a cultural issue. Some cultures view things differently.
Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:If I rent a basement of a house in another school boundary - but still live in current home, Can I use the rental as my address to get DD into school?
Yes. You can absolutely do this. Many families do.
You'll get some posters on here who feign outrage, but in many cultures, you do what you need to do to get ahead. So, many families in MCPS use relatives' addresses, or friends' addresses to attend schools that are out of their boundary. It's NBD, and nobody every gets caught.
My coworker even lives in Frederick County, and her daughter attends MCPS because they are using an aunt's address. It's very prevalent, though I'm not an MCPS fan, so not sure what the appeal is!
Not feigning outrage here.
?? Not sure what you're saying.
PP is actually wrong. I have reported someone myself when my kids were younger. So, definitely not nobody.
And, what came of it?
Nothing.
My neighbor also reported someone. The person was definitely NOT living in our neighborhood. Kids lived at a completely different address. Did not have a COSA, but the parents used a grandparents' address. They said it was 'shared housing', even though the kids slept at their actual home every single night. Mom drove them to and from the bus stop daily.
That's a totally different situation. Using grandparents address is accepted practice because many families rely on grandparents for after care. Totally legal.
As for what came of my reporting, how do you know nothing came out? You really shouldn't BS things you don't know about. Dont' get worked up.
LOL, not actually legal. I mean, can I use my nanny's address? You don't know the rules, you're just an unethical human being who is being a selfish jerk.
It's not unethical to fill out a COSA and tell the truth that you parents provide care in the afternoon.
First Granny shouldn't be a child care provider. How cheap can you be?
Second, Granny can be at your house to pick child up from bus.
Not a reasonable COSA at all.
This is just obnoxious. Grannies have been providing childcare for centuries. Why shouldn’t Granny do child care? This comment is individualism to a crazy extreme.
Anonymous wrote:Yep. I rent a basement apartment in the neighborhood of the best school in our district so my son can go there. I am a teacher and can’t afford anything in a nice neighborhood like this so I thought this would be a good plan. We’ve been here for years and have no plans to leave.
Anonymous wrote:Do you people not read the paper? There’s a huge scandal on DC right now about this and kids and getting kicked out and parents being made to pay back tuition. I realize that we’re probably talking about within Montgomery County here, but the evidence from DC is that yes, sometimes it really blows up when you cheat.
https://www.fraud-magazine.com/article.aspx?id=4294984805
https://wamu.org/story/19/09/05/d-c-attorney-general-sues-16-parents-over-school-residency-fraud/
Anonymous wrote:Its pretty common. Some people do it and use the close in apartment as a resting/stopping point until the traffic dies down. Some people stay there overnight on non-telework days to avoid traffic. Some people hire after school sitters to watch the kids in the apartment and then pick them up on the way home.
MCPS can't say anything if you are spending time in both houses nor do they have interest in wading into this. There is too much complexity with people maintaining multiple houses or situations with divorce and shared custody.
Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:If I rent a basement of a house in another school boundary - but still live in current home, Can I use the rental as my address to get DD into school?
Yes. You can absolutely do this. Many families do.
You'll get some posters on here who feign outrage, but in many cultures, you do what you need to do to get ahead. So, many families in MCPS use relatives' addresses, or friends' addresses to attend schools that are out of their boundary. It's NBD, and nobody every gets caught.
My coworker even lives in Frederick County, and her daughter attends MCPS because they are using an aunt's address. It's very prevalent, though I'm not an MCPS fan, so not sure what the appeal is!
Not feigning outrage here.
?? Not sure what you're saying.
PP is actually wrong. I have reported someone myself when my kids were younger. So, definitely not nobody.
And, what came of it?
Nothing.
My neighbor also reported someone. The person was definitely NOT living in our neighborhood. Kids lived at a completely different address. Did not have a COSA, but the parents used a grandparents' address. They said it was 'shared housing', even though the kids slept at their actual home every single night. Mom drove them to and from the bus stop daily.
That's a totally different situation. Using grandparents address is accepted practice because many families rely on grandparents for after care. Totally legal.
As for what came of my reporting, how do you know nothing came out? You really shouldn't BS things you don't know about. Dont' get worked up.
LOL, not actually legal. I mean, can I use my nanny's address? You don't know the rules, you're just an unethical human being who is being a selfish jerk.
It's not unethical to fill out a COSA and tell the truth that you parents provide care in the afternoon.
First Granny shouldn't be a child care provider. How cheap can you be?
Second, Granny can be at your house to pick child up from bus.
Not a reasonable COSA at all.