don’t be surprised it is such a turn on. My brother has three pen or pencils he kept that Alicia Sliverstone chewed on in class. Told me before he kept them because it has her teethmarks and was something that she has bitten on and he already found her cute then.

So maybe the same for OP’s man. They could be something of significance for him that she needs to find out. Agree with pp. check out those pinky stuff and those glasses!

That seems so high school. Biting on your pencil and winking at him or chewing on your glasses.

I am the Gucci girl. Was surprised at its effects but I think some guys might find it flirty. my ex bf was really turned on when I chew on my glasses and let the arms glide against my teeth or bite on it. True it killed my glasses but it was well worth the effects.

My currently husband also likes that too and especially when I give him the look across the room and bite my glasses. Always says it’s seductive. Don’t use it too often or unnaturally but doing it once a while gets him in the mood.

So just sayin’ Maybe if you having a good relationship still with him, try new things. maybe you discover what other things turns him on rather than him having to collect other girls stuff and fantasize about them. Maybe he just likes the pink girly stuff after all and you could get some just for him to get turned on.

Check the pink glasses. It might be no coincidence that they have teeth marks on them!

Is he crossdressing, OP?

OP, take photos of the backpacks, the contents, and the entire storage area of the basement. Like, extensive photos. Unfortunately you can't rely on your memory and you need to establish facts about what is there and what isn't so you can monitor changes. Don't put up a nanny cam. I have tons of nanny cams and I think in this situation it's overkill and not helpful.

There's a reason you think he is a creep. There's no good, reasonable explanation for why he had that woman's Gucci glasses. So you know he is a creep. The only question is whether he is harming someone or not.

You could always quietly meet with the police, tell them it's weird and off-normal but not criminal, in case it matches with something they are working on. But only do that if your gut tells you he is hurting someone. Listen to your gut very carefully, it tells us bad things about men in the faintest whisper.

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:OP here. All three spot on to be honest. Should i trash it and see what else comes back. But it could divert it somewhere else. He was also prviously suggesting my daughters leave their room as they are even though they were keen to pack up. He says they are aleays welcome to come back but i on the other hand happy for them to cart off and clear their junk!

You are both a bit odd, Op. Maybe he's packed that stuff away so that your girls always have the option of coming back home to their familiar stuff if they want to.

Your insistence that they cart off and clear out is a bit heavy handed on your part. Your husband seems to want to keep the door open w/o challenging you. Just a guess.

Except it is NOT familiar stuff.

OP is writing a book and is having writer’s block.

Ask him if you can donate, and if so, then donate. If you find any more don't say anything, just watch to see what happens.

Anonymous wrote:OP here. All three spot on to be honest. Should i trash it and see what else comes back. But it could divert it somewhere else. He was also prviously suggesting my daughters leave their room as they are even though they were keen to pack up. He says they are aleays welcome to come back but i on the other hand happy for them to cart off and clear their junk!

You are both a bit odd, Op. Maybe he's packed that stuff away so that your girls always have the option of coming back home to their familiar stuff if they want to.

Your insistence that they cart off and clear out is a bit heavy handed on your part. Your husband seems to want to keep the door open w/o challenging you. Just a guess.

I'd be thinking serial killer as well. Those boxes would be gone, either way.

Doe he sell stuff on ebay? I know its a stretch...just trying to help.

My dad preyed on young women and kept photos but I never saw anything else.

I hope you figure it out.

He was “let go” and they mailed his stuff to him? Def fired and considered a threat or else they would let him box up his own desk. And he sounds like a kleptomaniac. Stealing someone’s stuff is beyond creepy. He got caught at work. OP stop being willfully ignorant.

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:A roadhouse? Like the one in the movie with Patrick Swayze? Where was this roadhouse? Not many in the DMV, but there used to be some along route 1 in Alexandria, and route 1 between DC and Baltimore. I miss those days! My memory is hazy, but I don't recall seeing any attractive young women there.

Bizarre response.
OP, I’d say set up a nanny cam.

Yeah, that is weird. PP reads “teen girls” and then thinks “attractive young women”. Creeper.

Anonymous wrote:A roadhouse? Like the one in the movie with Patrick Swayze? Where was this roadhouse? Not many in the DMV, but there used to be some along route 1 in Alexandria, and route 1 between DC and Baltimore. I miss those days! My memory is hazy, but I don't recall seeing any attractive young women there.

Bizarre response.
OP, I’d say set up a nanny cam.

Hate to break it to you folks, but op is definitely trolling you. It always kills me when people respond seriously to an obviously bs post.