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Anonymous wrote:One day I was joking with my DH about getting tied up. That xmas, DH got me thick red ribbons to use as cuffs. It was a gag gift, sort of.. he reminds me every so often that we haven't used it yet. The problem is.. we don't have bed posts to tie them to.

No way on the butt plug. Neither of us are into that. I just find it really gross.

Trust me, he’s into the butt put / anal, but be sue he know you’re not he doesn’t push the issue.

+1
Lots of men want their asses played with

First PP here... I asked DH if he would like it, and he said no. I tried going near it. He wasn't into it. "Lots" of men probably do like it, but not all.

My husband loves when I play near that area but I’ve never gone in. If he wanted me to I’d do it but until he asks I will just continue doing what I do.

Anonymous wrote:OP here - I finally gave into the handcuffs last night but I required him to wear them first and we have a really good bed for using them so it was simple. The surprising thing was the power and control I felt given that anything that was going to happen was up to me. At one point I pinned his arms down with my knees and he had no alternative but to give me a very good time. He's very ticklish so at one point I had him almost begging me to stop and we were both laughing so hard I was very glad we are empty nesters. I don't know if using handcuffs will be a regular thing for us but it can certainly spice things up once in awhile. I did promise to wear them the next time.

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:We have some really nice lined leather ones, lined thigh cuffs, bindings and a matching leather and rose gold spreader bar. Fun times are frequently had.

Where is the spreader bar from?


OP - I hope you trust your husband. Make a safe word even for this initial trial. It should be a random word like pineapple or dolphin. Go in to it knowing it might not be for you but it also might! Talk and talk about it

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:One day I was joking with my DH about getting tied up. That xmas, DH got me thick red ribbons to use as cuffs. It was a gag gift, sort of.. he reminds me every so often that we haven't used it yet. The problem is.. we don't have bed posts to tie them to.

No way on the butt plug. Neither of us are into that. I just find it really gross.

Trust me, he’s into the butt put / anal, but be sue he know you’re not he doesn’t push the issue.

+1
Lots of men want their asses played with

First PP here... I asked DH if he would like it, and he said no. I tried going near it. He wasn't into it. "Lots" of men probably do like it, but not all.

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:One day I was joking with my DH about getting tied up. That xmas, DH got me thick red ribbons to use as cuffs. It was a gag gift, sort of.. he reminds me every so often that we haven't used it yet. The problem is.. we don't have bed posts to tie them to.

No way on the butt plug. Neither of us are into that. I just find it really gross.

Trust me, he’s into the butt put / anal, but be sue he know you’re not he doesn’t push the issue.

+1
Lots of men want their asses played with

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:One day I was joking with my DH about getting tied up. That xmas, DH got me thick red ribbons to use as cuffs. It was a gag gift, sort of.. he reminds me every so often that we haven't used it yet. The problem is.. we don't have bed posts to tie them to.

No way on the butt plug. Neither of us are into that. I just find it really gross.

Trust me, he’s into the butt put / anal, but be sue he know you’re not he doesn’t push the issue.