Anonymous
Post 04/19/2019 13:43     Subject: Neighbor with another woman
Anonymous wrote:
Anonymous wrote:A guy I went to college with saw a married female colleague leaving a hotel room that wasn't hers while they were on a conference trip.

He jokingly told her he'd tell her husband if she didn't give him a BJ.

She actually gave him one. He said he felt pretty bad about it but it was obvious that she was pretty much a tramp.



wow. blackmailing someone for sex is a form of non-consensual sex. your friend is a sexual assaulter.


It's also helpful to not engage in activities that make one vulnerable to blackmail.
Anonymous
Post 04/19/2019 13:37     Subject: Re:Neighbor with another woman
Anonymous wrote:OP here - DH said to mind my own business and I told him he is responsible going forward making the play date arrangements. I feel so bad and couldn't sleep last night. As I thought before posting on here, the recommendations are split on what to do.


Your husband is smart. MYOB!

Losing sleep? WTF? That is crazy. This has nothing to do with you.

By the way, I am a woman. I would not want to know. Keep your mouth shut.
Anonymous
Post 04/19/2019 13:10     Subject: Neighbor with another woman
The fate of the free world depends on your intervention OP you have to do something!!!

Anonymous
Post 04/19/2019 13:07     Subject: Neighbor with another woman
Anonymous wrote:
Anonymous wrote:
Anonymous wrote:A guy I went to college with saw a married female colleague leaving a hotel room that wasn't hers while they were on a conference trip.

He jokingly told her he'd tell her husband if she didn't give him a BJ.

She actually gave him one. He said he felt pretty bad about it but it was obvious that she was pretty much a tramp.

So what does that make your blackmailing friend?


You missed the 'jokingly' part?


Thot gonna thot
Anonymous
Post 04/19/2019 12:31     Subject: Re:Neighbor with another woman
Anonymous wrote:OP here - DH said to mind my own business and I told him he is responsible going forward making the play date arrangements. I feel so bad and couldn't sleep last night. As I thought before posting on here, the recommendations are split on what to do.



If my DW were losing sleep over something like this I'd be wondering if she was jealous and wishing she was the one having the affair with him...
Anonymous
Post 04/19/2019 10:28     Subject: Neighbor with another woman
Anonymous wrote:I would go up to the guy and say "I saw you kissing that woman at the store today. If you don't tell your wife within 48 hours, I will."

I view it as a health issue.


OP, do this and you will find yourself dead. Do not involve yourself in anyone else’s business, issuing ultimatums to a stranger will get you a completely irrational and possibly violent response; you have no idea who you are dealing with. You say you were up all night thinking about it??? You are acting like a child who just learned that Santa isn’t real- grow up and let adults do whatever they want without your meddling.
Anonymous
Post 04/19/2019 10:27     Subject: Neighbor with another woman
Anonymous wrote:OP you need to take responsibility for having seen this and get involved. You cannot just sit back and let others get away with immoral acts it is your moral and civic duty to intervene whenever possible to keep others on the straight and narrow. Not only is their marriage at stake but the plight of your respective children is at stake. A secret affair could potentially result in a messy divorce and have that kid your child plays with plunging down an emotional spiral of fear, anger, resentment, and depression that could potentially impact your child. You absolutely have to do something immediately!


please tell me this is tongue in cheek. If so, bravo. If not, die in a fire.

OP - MYOB
Anonymous
Post 04/19/2019 09:20     Subject: Neighbor with another woman
Anonymous wrote:Obviously, you need to confront this man and demand an explanation. You deserve one!


Lol yes yes you are a social warrior! Do not worry that this will put you firmly in the crosshairs of both your neighbors. People always act rational in this types of situations.
Anonymous
Post 04/19/2019 09:12     Subject: Re:Neighbor with another woman
OP here - DH said to mind my own business and I told him he is responsible going forward making the play date arrangements. I feel so bad and couldn't sleep last night. As I thought before posting on here, the recommendations are split on what to do.
Anonymous
Post 04/19/2019 08:10     Subject: Neighbor with another woman
This is gossip and not your business.
Anonymous
Post 04/19/2019 08:01     Subject: Neighbor with another woman
Anonymous wrote:Obviously, you need to confront this man and demand an explanation. You deserve one!


Why does OP deserve a damn thing? It’s none of her business.
Anonymous
Post 04/19/2019 07:52     Subject: Neighbor with another woman
Anonymous wrote:A guy I went to college with saw a married female colleague leaving a hotel room that wasn't hers while they were on a conference trip.

He jokingly told her he'd tell her husband if she didn't give him a BJ.

She actually gave him one. He said he felt pretty bad about it but it was obvious that she was pretty much a tramp.



wow. blackmailing someone for sex is a form of non-consensual sex. your friend is a sexual assaulter.
Anonymous
Post 04/19/2019 07:25     Subject: Neighbor with another woman
Obviously, you need to confront this man and demand an explanation. You deserve one!
Anonymous
Post 04/19/2019 07:23     Subject: Neighbor with another woman
I wouldn’t say anything.

It could have been his sister.
J/K.

I would however, stop the play dates if they take place in their home.
Anonymous
Post 04/19/2019 06:27     Subject: Neighbor with another woman
Anonymous wrote:I would go up to the guy and say "I saw you kissing that woman at the store today. If you don't tell your wife within 48 hours, I will."

I view it as a health issue.


Not your health issue weirdo