Anonymous wrote:Was it a big adjustment financially? Were you parents loaded and then they had to be frugal?
Op here. It was hard at first because we couldn't take anything but our clothes. No furniture, no sports equipment, no decor, nothing. They gave us a furnished apartment at first and a flat lump sum for towels and sheets and hair dryers and household things like that. My mom was so much happier bc whatever dad and her earned was clean and safe. She didn't mind any downsizing and welcomed the fresh start. My dad missed his cars and his golf clubs and all of that stuff.