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Anonymous wrote:STD symptoms? i had a guy blame me for giving him something years ago. Turned out to be heat rash. I was PISSED. (and even more pissed when i found out that he took off the condom during sex because he was "uncomfortable". Not cool, dude.)

Don't assume STD unless you have proof of an STD. And then don't assume your wife gave it to you, especially during her maternity leave. There is no way on earth I would have had sex during my leave. sex is not exactly the first thing on your mind when you've just pushed out a human or had one removed via c-section.

Of course he should assume STD if he has symptoms. He needs to get tested and possibly treated. He isnt' going to get tested if he iesn't thinking STD..
So bizarre that youa re against STD testing. untreated STDs lead to all kinds of infections and diseases. Please don't advocate against it.

Anonymous wrote:STD symptoms? i had a guy blame me for giving him something years ago. Turned out to be heat rash. I was PISSED. (and even more pissed when i found out that he took off the condom during sex because he was "uncomfortable". Not cool, dude.)

Don't assume STD unless you have proof of an STD. And then don't assume your wife gave it to you, especially during her maternity leave. There is no way on earth I would have had sex during my leave. sex is not exactly the first thing on your mind when you've just pushed out a human or had one removed via c-section.

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Anonymous wrote:Cheating during maternity leave is a ridiculous idea, unless her maternity leave was two years long.

Cheating during pregnancy, however, could happen. Some men have a weird pregnancy kink, and some pregnant women get very horny.

Don't they check for STDs before birth though?

Yes. At least it was standard procedure to check all patients for STDs when I was pregnant.

I can't imagine an exhausted woman who is recovering from childbirth and taking care of a newborn 24/7 cheating on her husband. That just does not seem likely at all.

No. They do not test for herpes. It has never been standard procedure. You would need to specifically ask for the blood test for HSV.

They ask you about it and you go to umpteen million prenatal appts before your baby is born. If something like that is going on down there the doctor is going to notice it.

I do not think that Op's wife suddenly became contagious with Herpes years after they got married and while she happened to be on maternity leave. She has probably been to the doctor since the birth for a follow up appt. Yet, the doctor noticed no symptoms?

Whatever is wrong with Op is probably not his wife's doing.

Uh, no. Not if you're asymptomatic.

Herpes often lies dormant for many years. Childbirth is frequently a catalyst for initial outbeaks.

Please do not bother replying to threads if you have nothing of value to add.

+1 Pregnancy was what brought on my initial outbreak of herpes. I only had a handful of partners before marriage and my husband was -and 15 years later- still is HSV negative thanks to Valtrex. It sucks but it happens and it's not the end of the world. And all the PPs are right. My doctor told me that the standard STD panel doesn't test for herpes unless you roll up with what looks like an active outbreak.

Did you go throughout your pregnancy, childbirth and post natal appts w/o your doctor noticing your outbreaks? That really seems extremely unlikely.

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Anonymous wrote:Cheating during maternity leave is a ridiculous idea, unless her maternity leave was two years long.

Cheating during pregnancy, however, could happen. Some men have a weird pregnancy kink, and some pregnant women get very horny.

Don't they check for STDs before birth though?

Yes. At least it was standard procedure to check all patients for STDs when I was pregnant.

I can't imagine an exhausted woman who is recovering from childbirth and taking care of a newborn 24/7 cheating on her husband. That just does not seem likely at all.

No. They do not test for herpes. It has never been standard procedure. You would need to specifically ask for the blood test for HSV.

They ask you about it and you go to umpteen million prenatal appts before your baby is born. If something like that is going on down there the doctor is going to notice it.

I do not think that Op's wife suddenly became contagious with Herpes years after they got married and while she happened to be on maternity leave. She has probably been to the doctor since the birth for a follow up appt. Yet, the doctor noticed no symptoms?

Whatever is wrong with Op is probably not his wife's doing.

Uh, no. Not if you're asymptomatic.

Herpes often lies dormant for many years. Childbirth is frequently a catalyst for initial outbeaks.

Please do not bother replying to threads if you have nothing of value to add.

+1 Pregnancy was what brought on my initial outbreak of herpes. I only had a handful of partners before marriage and my husband was -and 15 years later- still is HSV negative thanks to Valtrex. It sucks but it happens and it's not the end of the world. And all the PPs are right. My doctor told me that the standard STD panel doesn't test for herpes unless you roll up with what looks like an active outbreak.

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Anonymous wrote:Cheating during maternity leave is a ridiculous idea, unless her maternity leave was two years long.

Cheating during pregnancy, however, could happen. Some men have a weird pregnancy kink, and some pregnant women get very horny.

Don't they check for STDs before birth though?

Yes. At least it was standard procedure to check all patients for STDs when I was pregnant.

I can't imagine an exhausted woman who is recovering from childbirth and taking care of a newborn 24/7 cheating on her husband. That just does not seem likely at all.

No. They do not test for herpes. It has never been standard procedure. You would need to specifically ask for the blood test for HSV.

They ask you about it and you go to umpteen million prenatal appts before your baby is born. If something like that is going on down there the doctor is going to notice it.

I do not think that Op's wife suddenly became contagious with Herpes years after they got married and while she happened to be on maternity leave. She has probably been to the doctor since the birth for a follow up appt. Yet, the doctor noticed no symptoms?

Whatever is wrong with Op is probably not his wife's doing.

Uh, no. Not if you're asymptomatic.

Herpes often lies dormant for many years. Childbirth is frequently a catalyst for initial outbeaks.

Please do not bother replying to threads if you have nothing of value to add.

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Anonymous wrote:Cheating during maternity leave is a ridiculous idea, unless her maternity leave was two years long.

Cheating during pregnancy, however, could happen. Some men have a weird pregnancy kink, and some pregnant women get very horny.

Don't they check for STDs before birth though?

Yes. At least it was standard procedure to check all patients for STDs when I was pregnant.

I can't imagine an exhausted woman who is recovering from childbirth and taking care of a newborn 24/7 cheating on her husband. That just does not seem likely at all.

No. They do not test for herpes. It has never been standard procedure. You would need to specifically ask for the blood test for HSV.

They ask you about it and you go to umpteen million prenatal appts before your baby is born. If something like that is going on down there the doctor is going to notice it.

I do not think that Op's wife suddenly became contagious with Herpes years after they got married and while she happened to be on maternity leave. She has probably been to the doctor since the birth for a follow up appt. Yet, the doctor noticed no symptoms?

Whatever is wrong with Op is probably not his wife's doing.

Uh, no. Not if you're asymptomatic.

Herpes often lies dormant for many years. Childbirth is frequently a catalyst for initial outbeaks.

Please do not bother replying to threads if you have nothing of value to add.

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Anonymous wrote:Cheating during maternity leave is a ridiculous idea, unless her maternity leave was two years long.

Cheating during pregnancy, however, could happen. Some men have a weird pregnancy kink, and some pregnant women get very horny.

Don't they check for STDs before birth though?

Yes. At least it was standard procedure to check all patients for STDs when I was pregnant.

I can't imagine an exhausted woman who is recovering from childbirth and taking care of a newborn 24/7 cheating on her husband. That just does not seem likely at all.

No. They do not test for herpes. It has never been standard procedure. You would need to specifically ask for the blood test for HSV.

They ask you about it and you go to umpteen million prenatal appts before your baby is born. If something like that is going on down there the doctor is going to notice it.

I do not think that Op's wife suddenly became contagious with Herpes years after they got married and while she happened to be on maternity leave. She has probably been to the doctor since the birth for a follow up appt. Yet, the doctor noticed no symptoms?

Whatever is wrong with Op is probably not his wife's doing.

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Anonymous wrote:Cheating during maternity leave is a ridiculous idea, unless her maternity leave was two years long.

Cheating during pregnancy, however, could happen. Some men have a weird pregnancy kink, and some pregnant women get very horny.

Don't they check for STDs before birth though?

Yes. At least it was standard procedure to check all patients for STDs when I was pregnant.

I can't imagine an exhausted woman who is recovering from childbirth and taking care of a newborn 24/7 cheating on her husband. That just does not seem likely at all.

No. They do not test for herpes. It has never been standard procedure. You would need to specifically ask for the blood test for HSV.

Anonymous wrote:Yes, your wife definitely cheated on you during maternity leave. She felt good, she definitely didn't feel fat, wasn't losing her hair, had plenty of sleep, wasn't sore at all, and had lots and lots of free time.

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Anonymous wrote:Cheating during maternity leave is a ridiculous idea, unless her maternity leave was two years long.

Cheating during pregnancy, however, could happen. Some men have a weird pregnancy kink, and some pregnant women get very horny.

Don't they check for STDs before birth though?

Yes. At least it was standard procedure to check all patients for STDs when I was pregnant.

I can't imagine an exhausted woman who is recovering from childbirth and taking care of a newborn 24/7 cheating on her husband. That just does not seem likely at all.

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Anonymous wrote:The point is HPV can be dormant in your wife, then become active and infect you. But there are typically no symptoms.

A friend who was married 7 years got HPV throat cancer. We believe it was from his wife. Now she's with someone else. Does that men she'll give it to him as well?

Yes.

But nearly every sexually active person has/has had it.

Well that's a bummer. He died from it, now she has a boyfriend which I know she didn't tell.