Anonymous
01/31/2019 10:49
Subject: Tell Me About Your Post-50 Post-Divorce Experience
Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote: Guy pushing 60 and looks like marriage may be ending. Look and feel much younger than my chronological age, but (I know this sounds bad, but. . .) am concerned that most folks my age (men and women, but only interested in women) look so much older and I'm just not attracted to them, and most women 10 years or more younger will run for the hills based on my age in an online world, Any guys out there with advice in the 60/early 60s range? Any women out there closer to 50 with whether they would date someone 10 or 10+ years older and, if so, what would (or did) make you interested in that?
I'm 54 FM, but can pass for a much younger age. I usually don't lie about my age, but people tell me all the time that I look much younger. I think age is not that important to me, rather how you act. I want someone fun, outgoing, passionate and definitely honest. If you fit those qualities, I would not hesitate to meet you.
If I were you, don't start with your age. Start with your best qualities, and be your best self when you meet a new person. When age comes up, don't lie. Good luck!
+1
Sometimes age is really just a number. I'd would absolutely meet you.
Anonymous
01/31/2019 06:32
Subject: Re:Tell Me About Your Post-50 Post-Divorce Experience
Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:.Of course they do! They have a end goal, just like like when they we're in their 20s and 30s
What is the end goal? I feel like many of the women I date who are over 50 are not focused on finding someone to marry or have as a long term partner and are happy with a FWB relationship.
Specifically, they are happy with a lover and do want him for anything more.
I agree. Recently divorced 49 year old. I have no desire to take care of a man.
And you’d have to have a lot to recommend you before I signed up to be ‘cared for’ !
NP. Not really. A woman who has "a lot to recommend" is smart enough to avoid becoming a nurse maid to an old geezer.
Anonymous
01/30/2019 23:20
Subject: Tell Me About Your Post-50 Post-Divorce Experience
Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:The menopause switch kicks off really quickly as vaginal atrophy and loss of libido starts. The rise in sex, only in your early 50s, completely collapses by your late 50s. I call it the "last hurrah." The first thing I noticed when Hillary was dumb enough to publish her drug list, was no Vagifem or topical estrogen. I immediately thought, oh her sex life is over too.
Women — is this really true?
No. I had several women tell me they enjoyed sex much more after menopause, as they just felt much more free