Anonymous wrote:Victim identified as 35-year-old Wendy Martinez of Northwest.
http://www.fox5dc.com/news/local-news/woman-stabbed-to-death-near-logan-circle-police-say

Anonymous wrote:
Just because I always cross with the light in a crosswalk doesn’t mean I won’t ever be hit by a car, but I’m a lot safer than if I jaywalk mid-block on a busy street. Sometimes you do everything right and bad stuff still happens, which may be the case with this woman. Hearing about tragedies still can make people naturally take stock of their own behaviors. It’s a reminder, not a condemnation.
Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:Regardless of the idiot upthread who said it was dangerous to "think like that", women do need to be safe--meaning we need to be vigilant and aware of our surroundings when alone. We will always be prey for crazy men simply because we are (mostly) physically weaker. This is nothing new. Waiting for men to change how they act is not a solution so stay safe, ladies!
This! x a million.
Act like you live in our current world, not the way you think things "should be." So many people just don't get this.
minus a million
That's how we get to living in a society like Saudi, where women can't go out, travel alone, dress a certain way, because men can't control themselves or their actions. Give the men a curfew. Start redirecting, and telling men to be responsible - explicitly assert: don't attack, don't rape, don't shoot, don't kill, don't assault, etc. When you keep putting it on the shoulders of women, the entitlement of men and boys grow - they have no reason to change their end.
I am a female runner, and I am f*cking tired of this sh!t.
That's quite a leap you're making.
I'm a female runner as well, and I know enough to not run in unsafe situations. It's not that hard.
And lol at "explicitly assert: don't attack, don't rape, don't shoot, don't kill, don't assault, etc." I'm sure they'll listen!
Really? So what did the victim do wrong here? She was running in a populated, largely safe urban neighborhood before dark.
Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:Regardless of the idiot upthread who said it was dangerous to "think like that", women do need to be safe--meaning we need to be vigilant and aware of our surroundings when alone. We will always be prey for crazy men simply because we are (mostly) physically weaker. This is nothing new. Waiting for men to change how they act is not a solution so stay safe, ladies!
What do you mean by "stay safe, ladies"? What should ladies do to stay safe, in your opinion?
Oh for pete’s sake, really? Run in well lit and populated areas. Don’t run with headphones. Stay aware of your surroundings. If you run in the street, wear brightly colored clothes or lights so that drivers can see you.
No one ever asks to be raped, killed, hit by a car, etc. But it isn’t victim blaming to encourage people to make choices that might decrease the likelihood of something bad happening.
For example, Logan Circle before 8 pm on a Tuesday night.
Just because I always cross with the light in a crosswalk doesn’t mean I won’t ever be hit by a car, but I’m a lot safer than if I jaywalk mid-block on a busy street. Sometimes you do everything right and bad stuff still happens, which may be the case with this woman. Hearing about tragedies still can make people naturally take stock of their own behaviors. It’s a reminder, not a condemnation.
Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:Regardless of the idiot upthread who said it was dangerous to "think like that", women do need to be safe--meaning we need to be vigilant and aware of our surroundings when alone. We will always be prey for crazy men simply because we are (mostly) physically weaker. This is nothing new. Waiting for men to change how they act is not a solution so stay safe, ladies!
What do you mean by "stay safe, ladies"? What should ladies do to stay safe, in your opinion?
NP
For starters, don't run alone. Go with a buddy.
Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:Regardless of the idiot upthread who said it was dangerous to "think like that", women do need to be safe--meaning we need to be vigilant and aware of our surroundings when alone. We will always be prey for crazy men simply because we are (mostly) physically weaker. This is nothing new. Waiting for men to change how they act is not a solution so stay safe, ladies!
What do you mean by "stay safe, ladies"? What should ladies do to stay safe, in your opinion?
Oh for pete’s sake, really? Run in well lit and populated areas. Don’t run with headphones. Stay aware of your surroundings. If you run in the street, wear brightly colored clothes or lights so that drivers can see you.
No one ever asks to be raped, killed, hit by a car, etc. But it isn’t victim blaming to encourage people to make choices that might decrease the likelihood of something bad happening.
For example, Logan Circle before 8 pm on a Tuesday night.
Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:Regardless of the idiot upthread who said it was dangerous to "think like that", women do need to be safe--meaning we need to be vigilant and aware of our surroundings when alone. We will always be prey for crazy men simply because we are (mostly) physically weaker. This is nothing new. Waiting for men to change how they act is not a solution so stay safe, ladies!
This! x a million.
Act like you live in our current world, not the way you think things "should be." So many people just don't get this.
minus a million
That's how we get to living in a society like Saudi, where women can't go out, travel alone, dress a certain way, because men can't control themselves or their actions. Give the men a curfew. Start redirecting, and telling men to be responsible - explicitly assert: don't attack, don't rape, don't shoot, don't kill, don't assault, etc. When you keep putting it on the shoulders of women, the entitlement of men and boys grow - they have no reason to change their end.
I am a female runner, and I am f*cking tired of this sh!t.
That's quite a leap you're making.
I'm a female runner as well, and I know enough to not run in unsafe situations. It's not that hard.
And lol at "explicitly assert: don't attack, don't rape, don't shoot, don't kill, don't assault, etc." I'm sure they'll listen!
Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:Regardless of the idiot upthread who said it was dangerous to "think like that", women do need to be safe--meaning we need to be vigilant and aware of our surroundings when alone. We will always be prey for crazy men simply because we are (mostly) physically weaker. This is nothing new. Waiting for men to change how they act is not a solution so stay safe, ladies!
This! x a million.
Act like you live in our current world, not the way you think things "should be." So many people just don't get this.
minus a million
That's how we get to living in a society like Saudi, where women can't go out, travel alone, dress a certain way, because men can't control themselves or their actions. Give the men a curfew. Start redirecting, and telling men to be responsible - explicitly assert: don't attack, don't rape, don't shoot, don't kill, don't assault, etc. When you keep putting it on the shoulders of women, the entitlement of men and boys grow - they have no reason to change their end.
I am a female runner, and I am f*cking tired of this sh!t.
That's quite a leap you're making.
I'm a female runner as well, and I know enough to not run in unsafe situations. It's not that hard.
And lol at "explicitly assert: don't attack, don't rape, don't shoot, don't kill, don't assault, etc." I'm sure they'll listen!
Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:Regardless of the idiot upthread who said it was dangerous to "think like that", women do need to be safe--meaning we need to be vigilant and aware of our surroundings when alone. We will always be prey for crazy men simply because we are (mostly) physically weaker. This is nothing new. Waiting for men to change how they act is not a solution so stay safe, ladies!
What do you mean by "stay safe, ladies"? What should ladies do to stay safe, in your opinion?
Oh for pete’s sake, really? Run in well lit and populated areas. Don’t run with headphones. Stay aware of your surroundings. If you run in the street, wear brightly colored clothes or lights so that drivers can see you.
No one ever asks to be raped, killed, hit by a car, etc. But it isn’t victim blaming to encourage people to make choices that might decrease the likelihood of something bad happening.
Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:Regardless of the idiot upthread who said it was dangerous to "think like that", women do need to be safe--meaning we need to be vigilant and aware of our surroundings when alone. We will always be prey for crazy men simply because we are (mostly) physically weaker. This is nothing new. Waiting for men to change how they act is not a solution so stay safe, ladies!
This! x a million.
Act like you live in our current world, not the way you think things "should be." So many people just don't get this.
minus a million
That's how we get to living in a society like Saudi, where women can't go out, travel alone, dress a certain way, because men can't control themselves or their actions. Give the men a curfew. Start redirecting, and telling men to be responsible - explicitly assert: don't attack, don't rape, don't shoot, don't kill, don't assault, etc. When you keep putting it on the shoulders of women, the entitlement of men and boys grow - they have no reason to change their end.
I am a female runner, and I am f*cking tired of this sh!t.
Anonymous wrote:I wonder if she lost more blood because her heart rate was so elevated from jogging.