Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:You could be talking about me...except for the FB part. What you DON’T know is that we’ve been separated for a year and had serious problems for about 4 years prior to that. MYOB, you don’t know the whole story.

Wait..so you moved out to be with your AP and left your kids with your husband?
What more to the story do we need to know???

I didn't have kids.

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:You could be talking about me...except for the FB part. What you DON’T know is that we’ve been separated for a year and had serious problems for about 4 years prior to that. MYOB, you don’t know the whole story.

Wait..so you moved out to be with your AP and left your kids with your husband?
What more to the story do we need to know???

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:you should support your friend. you don't know what abuse she suffered in the marriage. She most likely now feels empowered and is using social media posts to help promote that as an example to other women in her community. As for the kids, if she has a daughter she is showing her daughter how a strong woman takes control of her light. If she has sons then she is illustrating to her sons that they should take better care of their wives.

what the F*CK?????????? you are one seroiously f*cked nut job.

Anonymous wrote:You could be talking about me...except for the FB part. What you DON’T know is that we’ve been separated for a year and had serious problems for about 4 years prior to that. MYOB, you don’t know the whole story.

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:When a woman gets fixated on an AP, she does not care about anything else - not even the safety or psychological well-being of her children - and she easily rationalizes her behavior as right and moral no matter how outrageous it is. If you say anything to her, she's just going to tune you out, and you'll hear a lot of bleating about "I wasn't haaaaaappy" and "he's my soul-mate and I deserve a chance at True Love!"

Yeah, my ex-wife was like this. She stopped grocery shopping and fed our three year old nothing but boxed mac and cheese for a few weeks. She said that since we had joint custody, I could provide the veggies, fruit, and everything else on my nights. Her friends tried talking sense into her about other reckless things she was doing, but it was like talking to a brick wall. Two of them called me concerned and suggested I get our kid out of the house ASAP. When her and the AP broke up, it got even worse.

I don't think there's much the OP can say or do.

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:When a woman gets fixated on an AP, she does not care about anything else - not even the safety or psychological well-being of her children - and she easily rationalizes her behavior as right and moral no matter how outrageous it is. If you say anything to her, she's just going to tune you out, and you'll hear a lot of bleating about "I wasn't haaaaaappy" and "he's my soul-mate and I deserve a chance at True Love!"

Not just women. An older man in my family did the same thing and is now public with the other woman.

Anonymous wrote:When a woman gets fixated on an AP, she does not care about anything else - not even the safety or psychological well-being of her children - and she easily rationalizes her behavior as right and moral no matter how outrageous it is. If you say anything to her, she's just going to tune you out, and you'll hear a lot of bleating about "I wasn't haaaaaappy" and "he's my soul-mate and I deserve a chance at True Love!"

Anonymous wrote:you should support your friend. you don't know what abuse she suffered in the marriage. She most likely now feels empowered and is using social media posts to help promote that as an example to other women in her community. As for the kids, if she has a daughter she is showing her daughter how a strong woman takes control of her light. If she has sons then she is illustrating to her sons that they should take better care of their wives.