Anonymous wrote:If a parent has to use money to motivate a player, that player is motivated/passionate about money not soccer.
The best players on our team are self-motivated and I can tell they love the sport.
Please show your DC the soccer movie, “Alex and me”.
Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:Get back on topic PLEASE.
The OP described a U9 team on which kids were already pigeonholed into certain positions. The OPs perspective was that this was because of a legacy of bias - three former rec coaches had favored their kids by letting them play the offensive positions, while making some else play defense. Even after the team had a new coach, it seemed to OP like this pattern continued. The OPs question was whether the parents should speak to the new coach about this.
One of the first couple of responses was yes, the OP should address this with the coach, and if nothing changed shouldtry to find a new team next year, one on which the coach rotates players through different positions.
Pretty much covers it.
A U9 player is pigeonholed into certain positions all the way into September? Crazy.
It is funny how so many forums about youth sports jump from topics like 9 year old playing time to US top tier professional track soccer (or lack there of).
Anonymous wrote:If a parent has to use money to motivate a player, that player is motivated/passionate about money not soccer.
The best players on our team are self-motivated and I can tell they love the sport.
Please show your DC the soccer movie, “Alex and me”.
Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:Get back on topic PLEASE.
The OP described a U9 team on which kids were already pigeonholed into certain positions. The OPs perspective was that this was because of a legacy of bias - three former rec coaches had favored their kids by letting them play the offensive positions, while making some else play defense. Even after the team had a new coach, it seemed to OP like this pattern continued. The OPs question was whether the parents should speak to the new coach about this.
One of the first couple of responses was yes, the OP should address this with the coach, and if nothing changed shouldtry to find a new team next year, one on which the coach rotates players through different positions.
Pretty much covers it.
A U9 player is pigeonholed into certain positions all the way into September? Crazy.
Anonymous wrote:Do you realize that USSF has only 1 full time scout for all age groups? The scouting is virtually non-existent. The call ups are not based on meaningful scouting and evaluation, but are designed to send one message to US based players: you must play for DA to be considered and even then, you are a long shot unless you play for MLS DA. Take a look at the announcements from USSF, they emphasize how many players come from DAs. As for the results, the talent gap should be too large, if the players were properly identified. A team with 4 youth national team players should be crushing teams, which do not have players of similar caliber. However, VDA scored 4 goals against this "uber talented" DCU team and beat it. Bethesda, which also did not get any call ups, held them to 1 goal.
Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:Get back on topic PLEASE.
The OP described a U9 team on which kids were already pigeonholed into certain positions. The OPs perspective was that this was because of a legacy of bias - three former rec coaches had favored their kids by letting them play the offensive positions, while making some else play defense. Even after the team had a new coach, it seemed to OP like this pattern continued. The OPs question was whether the parents should speak to the new coach about this.
One of the first couple of responses was yes, the OP should address this with the coach, and if nothing changed shouldtry to find a new team next year, one on which the coach rotates players through different positions.
Pretty much covers it.
Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:Only a player can make the ultimate decision to stop being a hog. Then again, there’s certain players that have a skill set which lends itself to being allowed to put the team on their backs. We need more creativity, not less. The ability to beat someone 1v1 is invaluable.
There’s a player on our team that her parents give her $10 each time she scores a goal. Hence, she’s a complete ball hog and wouldn’t pass even when her teammates are wide open to score. So some ball hoggers are created and not born.
Anonymous wrote:Get back on topic PLEASE.
Anonymous wrote:Par for the course for this forum, you open a thread with a given topic expecting to read about the subject title, and you end up reading long monologues trashing US soccer.
Dead horse firmly beaten. Have you and your friend ever given thought to the fact people simply tune it out after a little while?
You aren't changing anything from within this forum.