Anonymous wrote:Everyone has something to work on in kindergarten, whether it's academics, fine motor skills (handwriting, scissors, etc.), behavioral management, social skills, etc. If your kid is way ahead on academics, great, now figure out where they're not so ahead of the curve and put your attention to that instead.
Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:NP here:
My K kid went to a fairly normal DMV preschool and is also bored with the worksheets.
When does APS start differentiating the kids who know how to decode and have some of the sight-words down from those who are unfamiliar with the alphabet?
Just curious. I"m afraid she's going to get in trouble in class when she's bored like I did...apple falling far from the tree and all that.
Your kid has had four days of school. Four. It's way too early to get agitated about this.
Anonymous wrote:NP here:
My K kid went to a fairly normal DMV preschool and is also bored with the worksheets.
When does APS start differentiating the kids who know how to decode and have some of the sight-words down from those who are unfamiliar with the alphabet?
Just curious. I"m afraid she's going to get in trouble in class when she's bored like I did...apple falling far from the tree and all that.
Anonymous wrote:NP here:
My K kid went to a fairly normal DMV preschool and is also bored with the worksheets.
When does APS start differentiating the kids who know how to decode and have some of the sight-words down from those who are unfamiliar with the alphabet?
Just curious. I"m afraid she's going to get in trouble in class when she's bored like I did...apple falling far from the tree and all that.
Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:So you pay for "academic" memorization summer camps and Chinese school to jump your kid ahead of everyone else, and then complain that....your kid is ahead of everyone else? Its public school, dude.
Hate to break it to you, but this is how asian culture works. Chinese are highly competitive when it comes to academics. The school basically going back to pre-school level is unacceptable in my opinion. Today my son came home with a zip lock bag that he is supposed to put beans in to count.
We live in a global world, our kids will get trounced if they don't keep up with others. Our parents pushed us the same.
And your teen suicide rate is one of the highest in the world, much higher than the U.S., most of which are attributable to school stress. But yeah, you’ve got it all figured out, dead kids are fungible anyway, right?
I'm not sure how well traveled you are, but you might find that other cultures in the world place premiums on other things and don't consider life and equality to be as important. China is highly competitive place, where people will do whatever they can to get an advantage over others. The attitude there is pretty much, if you can't make it you either didn't try hard enough, didn't cheat enough, or didn't have the connections.
I know that may sound horrible to a western mind, but that is the truth of life in Asia. Here in American we are competing against that mentality, and yes we are loosing on that front.
So you’re saying that in Chinese culture, kids commuting suicide over school pressure is totally okay because if they’re not the best they might as well be dead? You are a depraved human being.
In Asian cultures, this is considered acceptable. Things haven't changed. In asia (China, Japan, Korea) working crazy hours, or at the very least the appearance of working many hours, is part of the culture. People kill themselves over failure at work and school. It isn't just me, you're calling a billion plus people depraved. Why aren't you respecting our culture, like a global citizen should?
Keep in mind that in ancient China, anyone could take the imperial exams as a way to get out of poverty. http://www.chinasage.info/examinations.htm It was one of the first meritocracies in the world going back around 2,000 years.
The pressures back then continue today in the high stakes exams required for high school and college admissions, for example the Chinese gaokao:
You can see some of the sample questions here: http://www.thatsmags.com/shanghai/post/19325/30-absolutely-insane-questions-from-china-s-gaokao-exam
Most of the rest of the world, the culture is sink or swim, thats what you have to compete against. There is no coddling, its tough love.
Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:Maybe you should send your child to a school in China, if the Chinese educational experience is so great.
Do you not see how ridiculous it is to do all these extracurriculars based on memorizing and then complain
that your child knows more and is bored??
No, I just wonder why the schools aren't more rigorous. Many asian parents wonder the same, and it is why they do all the educational extracurricular they do, and thats on top of having to memorize a couple thousand chinese characters. If these kids are able to do this kind of work, why does the school wait so long to differentiate beyond reading groups?
I'm just trying to maintain the level he was at when he finished Montessori kindergarten back in 2017, which for most kids in his class was roughly end of first grade beginning of second.
Why does it take so long to do a placement test, to figure out where the kids are? Just boot up iready and have at it. That could have been completed this week, after 9 full days of school.
He has to bring in a baggy with things to count on monday. They were doing (very) simple addition, at the end of last year in kindergarten! Yesterday they learned.... the letter I! Last year with the exception of one non-verbal child, every kid in the class could read and write at the very least simple sentences. I saw all the kids writing workshop stuff at an end of year presentation.
Even if I didn't send my kids elsewhere to keep up with his peers, I would still wonder why the heck this is so slow. Its not like I expect all the kids are going to go to a math kangeroo competition, but at an Oakton feeder school, most of the kids are capable of more than this.
Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:So you pay for "academic" memorization summer camps and Chinese school to jump your kid ahead of everyone else, and then complain that....your kid is ahead of everyone else? Its public school, dude.
Hate to break it to you, but this is how asian culture works. Chinese are highly competitive when it comes to academics. The school basically going back to pre-school level is unacceptable in my opinion. Today my son came home with a zip lock bag that he is supposed to put beans in to count.
We live in a global world, our kids will get trounced if they don't keep up with others. Our parents pushed us the same.
And your teen suicide rate is one of the highest in the world, much higher than the U.S., most of which are attributable to school stress. But yeah, you’ve got it all figured out, dead kids are fungible anyway, right?
I'm not sure how well traveled you are, but you might find that other cultures in the world place premiums on other things and don't consider life and equality to be as important. China is highly competitive place, where people will do whatever they can to get an advantage over others. The attitude there is pretty much, if you can't make it you either didn't try hard enough, didn't cheat enough, or didn't have the connections.
I know that may sound horrible to a western mind, but that is the truth of life in Asia. Here in American we are competing against that mentality, and yes we are loosing on that front.
So you’re saying that in Chinese culture, kids commuting suicide over school pressure is totally okay because if they’re not the best they might as well be dead? You are a depraved human being.
Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:So you pay for "academic" memorization summer camps and Chinese school to jump your kid ahead of everyone else, and then complain that....your kid is ahead of everyone else? Its public school, dude.
Hate to break it to you, but this is how asian culture works. Chinese are highly competitive when it comes to academics. The school basically going back to pre-school level is unacceptable in my opinion. Today my son came home with a zip lock bag that he is supposed to put beans in to count.
We live in a global world, our kids will get trounced if they don't keep up with others. Our parents pushed us the same.
And your teen suicide rate is one of the highest in the world, much higher than the U.S., most of which are attributable to school stress. But yeah, you’ve got it all figured out, dead kids are fungible anyway, right?
I'm not sure how well traveled you are, but you might find that other cultures in the world place premiums on other things and don't consider life and equality to be as important. China is highly competitive place, where people will do whatever they can to get an advantage over others. The attitude there is pretty much, if you can't make it you either didn't try hard enough, didn't cheat enough, or didn't have the connections.
I know that may sound horrible to a western mind, but that is the truth of life in Asia. Here in American we are competing against that mentality, and yes we are loosing on that front.
Anonymous wrote:Are you sure the "video" is not announcements. Our school has a morning news show on the "TV" produced by kids and a teacher.