Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:I swear there was a post exactly like this before

Time to call in the Troll Patrol! Sniff it out, PP!

True that

After the first time it gets a lot easier. I wouldn't buy the "just once" story. Do you really want to wonder if every "old friend" was a paying customer?

Anonymous wrote:I can’t believe how many people are actually advocating for the prostitute in this thread. She’s no different than a street corner whore.

“Street corner whores” are people too. So are douchebag misogynists.

I broke up with a guy when I found out he slept with a prostitute once. I mean, it was heartbreaking but there was NO WAY I could be with a guy who was raised or operated so differently from me. Give yourself enough time to let the disgust fester and then dump her. Sorry. Nothing wrong with sex workers but this would be a dealbreaker for me.

Get tested for STDs. Wear a condom so she can;t trick you into pregnancy.

Personally I would give it a try. I’d be cautious and be tested. Perhaps keep my eyes open. A good life partner can be tough to find for some people.

If it’s a deal breaker to you, walk

I can’t believe how many people are actually advocating for the prostitute in this thread. She’s no different than a street corner whore.

Does she work and have a respectable life now? I think life is a lot about which direction you are headed in compared to where you used to be.

This is Joe and I was her sugar daddy. I paid well and laid well. AMA.

It’s just a piece of a$$. Warm, wet and there’s plenty of it in this world.

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:It’s a question of morals. Imagine if you had kids— a daughter— together. You would set very different standards as parents. Not worth the heartache.

Not entirely true. My DH doesn’t know, but I had a generous fwb back in college. It was for 6 months and it helped me pay down a good amount of debt. Looking back, it’s not something I’m proud of, and I would never want my child to do something like that.

Grow up to be a prostitute like mommy?

OP, please look at this in a mature way. You dont have to like that she did this, but I honestly dont see it as that big of a deal. She saw an opportunity to get a better degree and better herself and it seems as though it was a good offer. People in this world do horrible things and hurt others to get ahead. What she did was not hurting anyone and is far from evil. I think her telling you openly also says a lot about her and her feelings toward you. You could leave her and find some other girl, but trust me when I say that everyone has their secrets and everyone is not as they appear to be. Some of the most moral people end up doing the worst things. If you love her and you think the two of you work well together then I think you should try and find a way to look to the future.

OP here. This is the first time I’ve posted on this situation. I found out from an old email on her computer. I do believe her when she said it was only 1 guy. She met him at a bar, they hooked up, and then he told her he was looking for a weekly arrangement. She first declined, but accepted the offer in order to pay off a big loan, and be able fo get a new loan to advance her degree. She said he was super nice, but she’s not proud of it, and it always made her feel bad. From what I know, she’s not the type to sleep around. She’s 29 and I’m her fifth guy. I still feel uneasy, but I’m glad that she openly talked about it with me.

I feel like we have had this exact post