Thank you for sharing your concerns with us. I am so sorry you are dealing with such a difficult situation. These forums are great for sharing burdens, and venting. There is always hope even in the most difficult moments of our lives. Please let me tell you that you are important valuable and a person worth of dignity. Did you know when people get married both bring their own luggage? I want to mean that people bring their own wounds from their families to the marriage. Have you ever thought that your husband must be able to face some rough or difficult childhood that he went through as a child? Counseling or therapy can be helpful to work through things like this. You and your husband are valuable and worth fighting for. Is for humble couples to seek for help outside the marriage. Have you thought of encourage your husband to join to a marriage support group? I leave you the name that you can seek on the internet if you are interested World Wide marriage Encounter. It is a group to help couple to strengthen their marriage. Humility, forgiveness and acceptance are the first steps for change and healing. There is always hope for your marriage and family. It seems that he tries to do all of his part but the results are not that you are expecting. Perhaps have you considered having a dialogue on why he is doing all these things? We are calling to love not just the strengths of the person but accept him with all his weaknesses or flaws. Spouses are calling to accept and help to each other to be better persons. Marriage is to make a decision for your husband every moment, and every day. Love is mutual and is reciprocal in the marriage. Have you considered to forgive your husband? Forgiveness does not mean that he is doing right but you appreciate more the relationship that you have with him. Forgiveness means that you let the problem go. It is very important to remember that both spouses should look for ways to make each other happier and should have a more generous heart to give. Hang in there! Sending you hugs. I will keep you in my prayers, my friend. Keep us posted, Ok?

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Anonymous wrote:There is a very well known doctor with ADHD in the DMV who diagnosed and treats ADHDs. But everyone, including the parents of his patients, knows he has ADHD. He is a very good doctor which is why people tolerates with very late reports (or none) and other things that makes them crazy.

Heh and atkins died of a heart attack!

He actually died from a fall in which he hit his head.