Anonymous
Post 07/09/2018 13:38     Subject: Girlfriend Won’t Spend The Night..

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Anonymous wrote:Pooping in front of a new boyfriend is terrifying.


This.



Are you 15? Everyone poops.


I refused to poop until I got engaged to DH. Since I’m a morning pooper I would leave in the early morning because I knew I had to poop by a certain time.[b]


That's absurd. I do not understand the DCUM paranoia about having others realize you poop.

We all poop. It always stinks. Why is this something anyone is ashamed of???


[b]Years ago, there was a War of the Roses on 99.5 where woman called in because she had a great date with a guy, who then ghosted her. So they called the guy up and got him to admit he ghosted her because she pooped at his apartment twice over the evening and it grossed him out. So some people do find it a turn-off.


Also, some people can only poop in their own homes. It's very difficult to poop somewhere you aren't comfortable.


You know that show is fake/scripted, right?

OP, you haven’t answered if you have slept at her place?
Anonymous
Post 07/09/2018 12:44     Subject: Re:Girlfriend Won’t Spend The Night..

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Anonymous wrote:I love when my DH gets the hell out of my bedroom after sex.


Your bedroom? He likely pays the mortgage so it’s bis Breslin. You’re just a tenant. Sex in exchange for a house.


* his house.
Anonymous
Post 07/09/2018 12:44     Subject: Re:Girlfriend Won’t Spend The Night..

Anonymous wrote:I love when my DH gets the hell out of my bedroom after sex.


Your bedroom? He likely pays the mortgage so it’s bis Breslin. You’re just a tenant. Sex in exchange for a house.
Anonymous
Post 07/09/2018 10:38     Subject: Re:Girlfriend Won’t Spend The Night..

I love when my DH gets the hell out of my bedroom after sex.
Anonymous
Post 07/08/2018 22:08     Subject: Re:Girlfriend Won’t Spend The Night..

Anonymous wrote:She’s keeping you at a distance this way so that when she bails—and, sorry, she will—she won’t feel as guilty.


Bingo. A guy I dated was just like this. I should have paid attention to the signs! He never spent the night, and ended up bailing on me. Except then he’d keep coming back like a boomerang, until I finally saw the light and cut him off completely for good.

Don’t get sucked into the vortex OP. Let her go now before your feelings get hurt.
Anonymous
Post 07/08/2018 20:17     Subject: Re:Girlfriend Won’t Spend The Night..

I didn’t sleep over at DHs apartment for a long time. I had just gotten out of a relationship where we de facto lived together, and it turned out we weren’t a match for a number of reasons. Breaking up was really heartbreaking.
I wanted to be sure I was really with “the one,” or someone who was potentially the one anyway, before I got into that again. And three months seems very early to know how serious things will be.
Anonymous
Post 07/08/2018 18:58     Subject: Girlfriend Won’t Spend The Night..

Anonymous wrote:
Anonymous wrote:
Anonymous wrote:
Anonymous wrote:
Anonymous wrote:
Anonymous wrote:Pooping in front of a new boyfriend is terrifying.


This.



Are you 15? Everyone poops.


[b]I refused to poop until I got engaged to DH. Since I’m a morning pooper I would leave in the early morning because I knew I had to poop by a certain time.[b]


That's absurd. I do not understand the DCUM paranoia about having others realize you poop.

We all poop. It always stinks. Why is this something anyone is ashamed of???


Attractive women do not poop.



Idiot.