In a sad way, this thread makes me feel better about my own situation in that I can see I’m not alone.
My sister is 3 years older and resents the fact that I’m alive. We don’t talk, she has zero interest in my children, and is prickly to me and my family.
We live in the same town, so the whole thing is awkward. But she is a miserable, unkind person who doesn’t seem to know how to treat family.