I am sorry to hear the communication with your husband did not go well. With communication one thing I have learned is to empathize with how the other person is feeling. I just recently read the article (
https://bit.ly/2IL9P47) that references using an empathy sheet. I would recommend you read the article and refer to the empathy sheet. Marriage is challenging but we need treat each other with love when we respond. Even if we don’t agree. Also, if you continue to have communication problems you might want to consider marital counseling. This group can help you with that (
https://bit.ly/2DS3v7S). Marriage is a blessing and it sounds like you love and care about each other. I will be praying for you. Hugs.