Male here. 5 times in my life, including the my first time. Ages were 20,20,22, 24 and 25

The first three were pre-1986 (when they figured out that AIDS is a heterosexual disease). The last two were after later. Before '86, people only really used condoms for birth control...

There was also a time I turned her down -- she asked for money.


I am now 54. Married for 20 years.

Once, early 20s. Now 47 f...

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Lots of disgusting people here.

This should be in explicit.

Oh just stop it. You keep saying the same thing on the Swingers thread.

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Anonymous wrote:Apparently I'm a ho. I did it a bunch of times in my 20's and 30's. I'm now a nearly 50yo female.

Same here- in my early 20's. My friends and I all did. We all settled down in our mid 20's, got married and had families in late 20's.

Similar here, slightly later timeline. 25-28 when out of relationships but dating heavily and past the point of having sexual hangups from younger years (late bloomer, here). It's actually "worked" pretty well. This may not sound great, but almost all of my early 30-something first time married friends are married to "one night stands." If you don't view this as a shameful horrible thing to bury in your past as a one-off...there are actually many decent, lovely people who do this!

Anonymous wrote:Age and sex. This isn't and shouldn't be explicit, just want to know how common it is. I'm in my early 40s, male, and have been to bars hundreds if not thousands of times, and NEVER EVER have I gone home with someone I just met . I have with girlfriends I went in there with, but never ever have I been able to just go to a bar, and get someone to want to go home with me. I admit I have absolutely zero game.

Male, 42 years old. I did twice at a bar in my early 20s and 3-4 times at parties. I’ve been married for 16 years now though. Guess I was a male
ho.

As a college frat boy. Half of us did it each semester.

I remember the Vous - more of a beer joint and less of a pickup place. IMO

I did a few times in college. However I would not have taken them serious. DW is not so slutty - I think

PP Back. As a frat boy I did a couple dozen times and only Clamidia once - I blamed her (it was my fault). All is fair in love and war. A few of them are cherished memories. D

No never. I've met tons of guys at bars and maybe after a few dates I have slept with them.

Once in my early 20s with an Aussie I met at a bar in France. I was traveling with a group of girlfriends and we started a point system to see who would rack up the most for certain attributes (for example, I got extra because the guy had nipple rings). It was my "wild summer." Married for several years with kids now.

I lost my virginity as a college freshman (first month). I thought she was amazing and beautiful. She was in her mid 20s and just broke up. Sorry I did not tell her how special it was for me

Lots of disgusting people here.

This should be in explicit.

PP BACK AGAIN. I guess I should have told her - it c have been special for her.

Male here. I lost my V card by picking up a college girl at a party when I was a senior in HS - 1986. Despite being nervous, I still remember every second and how beautiful she was.