Anonymous wrote:This acquaintance of mine is...cute. She’s chubby and not exactly what I’d imagine would turn heads. She does have a fun light adventurous personality though. I saw on social media that she is engaged to this absolute stud. He is tall dark and very handsome with an great body. Like...she’s a 5 and he’s a 10.
My jaw dropped!
Is this a thing?
I think when you first start out in the dating world, physical attraction is THE most powerful influence in who you will consider dating. That goes for both men and women. Ever dated a person that you thought was hot as hell only to stop being attracted to them after you get to know them a little better? It happens.
After you get a little experience under your belt, you begin to truly value personal traits like humor, personal responsibility, reliability, consideration, compatibility. There is something about this pairing that works well for this couple. It goes beyond skin deep.