Anonymous
04/20/2018 20:24
Subject: Solution for all the Single Women
Anonymous wrote:But, I will say that some women do have unrealistic expectations in terms of money and looks. But then again, some men have unrealistic expectations regarding a woman maintaining a high libido and not gaining weight after having kids.
False equivalency. Big difference between expectations BEFORE getting trapped into marriage versus bait-and-switch AFTER marriage.
The equivalent of a woman losing desire and getting fat would be a man who starts out attractive and wealthy just to get the relationship started, then he tattoos his face, pierces his nose, dreadlocks his hair, stops working and spends every dime on video games.
Anonymous
04/20/2018 19:52
Subject: Solution for all the Single Women
Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:Import one from out of state. Worked for me.
Kansas and Alaska has a high concentration of men.
Women in Alaska have a saying: "In Alaska the odds are good, and the goods are odd."
lol...
The problem is that women have upped their game but men haven't. I got a mail order DH from Europe. Kidding, but he is an immigrant from Europe, and I'm Asian American.
I hate to disagree with you (because I find Asian-American women to be goddesses) but no, women have not upped their game.
It is true. Remember, we are talking about DC metro area. More and more women are educated, making a lot more, and in good shape, who have their sh1t together, while there are less and less men who fit this bill.
And I have no idea why you would think Asian American women are goddesses. We're all different. We come in different shapes and sizes and personalities and temperaments.
Well maybe the women will become more like men and seek out men who make them happy vs a bank account.
Anonymous
04/20/2018 17:06
Subject: Re:Solution for all the Single Women
More and more women are educated, making a lot more
And ... ? If you hold out a rich guy, there is a supply and demand problem.
Anonymous
04/20/2018 16:39
Subject: Solution for all the Single Women
Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:What are the actual numbers in the DC area? How bad is the ratio?
http://labs.time.com/story/see-the-ratio-of-single-men-to-women-where-you-live/
"On the west side of Washington, D.C., for example, there are 1.4 college educated women between ages 18 and 30 for every man of the same description."
Lucky men! Must be raining p**sy for them!
Except 8.6% of them are not into that.
Anonymous
04/20/2018 16:20
Subject: Solution for all the Single Women
Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:Import one from out of state. Worked for me.
Kansas and Alaska has a high concentration of men.
Women in Alaska have a saying: "In Alaska the odds are good, and the goods are odd."
lol...
The problem is that women have upped their game but men haven't. I got a mail order DH from Europe. Kidding, but he is an immigrant from Europe, and I'm Asian American.
I hate to disagree with you (because I find Asian-American women to be goddesses) but no, women have not upped their game.
It is true. Remember, we are talking about DC metro area. More and more women are educated, making a lot more, and in good shape, who have their sh1t together, while there are less and less men who fit this bill.
And I have no idea why you would think Asian American women are goddesses. We're all different. We come in different shapes and sizes and personalities and temperaments.
Anonymous
04/20/2018 15:53
Subject: Solution for all the Single Women
Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:All of this is BS. Any woman can go online and be inundated with messages from men. Case closed.
Try it and see what type of men you get. Again most women want prince Henry not George the part time house painter.
And if you’re pretending that those are your only choices, you’re full of crap. There are a lot of us accountants in there, there are a lot of guys paying alimony instead of driving bmws, there are guys who have their kids half the time. But keep pretending there aren’t any men.
Anonymous
04/20/2018 15:48
Subject: Solution for all the Single Women
Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:The problem facing women in DC is that there are too few men: http://labs.time.com/story/see-the-ratio-of-single-men-to-women-where-you-live/
https://www.vice.com/en_us/article/3bj5yv/youre-single-because-there-arent-enough-men-253
"We all have that friend: the beautiful, intelligent, driven woman who—like Katherine Heigl in every rom-com—can't find a decent date. Every guy she goes out with is an asshole; she consistently dates "below" her league, and she's on the verge of giving up on a committed relationship altogether.
Not long after he turned 30, the writer Jon Birger realized he and his wife knew a lot of women like that. The couple didn't have a lot of single male friends left, but the many single women they knew all seemed to be buyers stuck in a seller's market. One of those friends, Birger told me, "had been dating a guy for a couple years. It certainly seemed like they were well on their way to getting married. She was in her late 30s, he was in his mid 40s. She really wants to have kids, get married, the whole [thing]. And she's amazing in every way." "
It's raining men out there, all you need to do is check the forecast and go where the rain is:
https://www.washingtonpost.com/graphics/2018/world/too-many-men/?utm_term=.5d7f20db85f1&wpisrc=nl_most&wpmm=1
Time to start up a Mail-Ordered Husband and visa processing service.
But from what country can I import a non-chauvinist man?
Iceland
https://mic.com/articles/114962/here-s-how-iceland-became-the-most-feminist-country-in-the-world#.9HY6ow40J
https://www.sofeminine.co.uk/career-finance/womens-rights-worldwide-top-10-feminist-countries-s2384854.html
"What's more, it was announced that Iceland will be looking into tighter controls on censoring, and even banning, Internet pornography after carrying out extensive research into its negative effects on the women it objects, and the men who are subjected to it. While this might seem pretty out there (some may even consider it a breach of Internet freedom) for a government to recognise the harm of sadistic pornography and put their money where their mouths are to target one of the biggest industries in the world, is actually pretty impressive.
Iceland is one of the many countries that has a woman as it's leader too, plus almost half of the parliamentarians in Iceland are female. We're tempted to move there tbh."
"Iceland became the first country in the world to grant unconditional equal inheritance rights to men and women in 1850. Women's suffrage has also been around for 100 years. Women got the right to vote in 1915, five years before the United States."
Do you know what the dating culture is like in Iceland? Most women on this board would not like it. You have to pay for your own stuff. If you like a guy, you have to ask him out and pay for his meal. LOL
Anonymous
04/20/2018 15:45
Subject: Solution for all the Single Women
Anonymous wrote:All of this is BS. Any woman can go online and be inundated with messages from men. Case closed.
Try it and see what type of men you get. Again most women want prince Henry not George the part time house painter.
Anonymous
04/20/2018 15:43
Subject: Re:Solution for all the Single Women
Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:As a mid 40s man in the process of separating from his wife, I find this thread very encouraging. Apparently there will be a lot of mid 30s and older women out there who are attractive, intelligent, and available. My only problem is that I will be broke for quite a while…
Don't be too encouraged. Many of them are not attractive, or are overweight, or are selfish, or aren't as smart as they think they are, or are just plain crazy.
Word! They are attractive, smart, etc in women terms. They are not the same by men’s standard definition of the terms.
Anonymous
04/20/2018 15:33
Subject: Solution for all the Single Women
All of this is BS. Any woman can go online and be inundated with messages from men. Case closed.
Anonymous
04/20/2018 15:24
Subject: Solution for all the Single Women
Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:The problem facing women in DC is that there are too few men: http://labs.time.com/story/see-the-ratio-of-single-men-to-women-where-you-live/
https://www.vice.com/en_us/article/3bj5yv/youre-single-because-there-arent-enough-men-253
"We all have that friend: the beautiful, intelligent, driven woman who—like Katherine Heigl in every rom-com—can't find a decent date. Every guy she goes out with is an asshole; she consistently dates "below" her league, and she's on the verge of giving up on a committed relationship altogether.
Not long after he turned 30, the writer Jon Birger realized he and his wife knew a lot of women like that. The couple didn't have a lot of single male friends left, but the many single women they knew all seemed to be buyers stuck in a seller's market. One of those friends, Birger told me, "had been dating a guy for a couple years. It certainly seemed like they were well on their way to getting married. She was in her late 30s, he was in his mid 40s. She really wants to have kids, get married, the whole [thing]. And she's amazing in every way." "
It's raining men out there, all you need to do is check the forecast and go where the rain is:
https://www.washingtonpost.com/graphics/2018/world/too-many-men/?utm_term=.5d7f20db85f1&wpisrc=nl_most&wpmm=1
Time to start up a Mail-Ordered Husband and visa processing service.
But from what country can I import a non-chauvinist man?
Iceland
https://mic.com/articles/114962/here-s-how-iceland-became-the-most-feminist-country-in-the-world#.9HY6ow40J
https://www.sofeminine.co.uk/career-finance/womens-rights-worldwide-top-10-feminist-countries-s2384854.html
"What's more, it was announced that Iceland will be looking into tighter controls on censoring, and even banning, Internet pornography after carrying out extensive research into its negative effects on the women it objects, and the men who are subjected to it. While this might seem pretty out there (some may even consider it a breach of Internet freedom) for a government to recognise the harm of sadistic pornography and put their money where their mouths are to target one of the biggest industries in the world, is actually pretty impressive.
Iceland is one of the many countries that has a woman as it's leader too, plus almost half of the parliamentarians in Iceland are female. We're tempted to move there tbh."
"Iceland became the first country in the world to grant unconditional equal inheritance rights to men and women in 1850. Women's suffrage has also been around for 100 years. Women got the right to vote in 1915, five years before the United States."
Anonymous
04/20/2018 15:18
Subject: Solution for all the Single Women
^except, why would they want to live here unless they can make a lot of money?
Anonymous
04/20/2018 15:17
Subject: Solution for all the Single Women
Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:The problem facing women in DC is that there are too few men: http://labs.time.com/story/see-the-ratio-of-single-men-to-women-where-you-live/
https://www.vice.com/en_us/article/3bj5yv/youre-single-because-there-arent-enough-men-253
"We all have that friend: the beautiful, intelligent, driven woman who—like Katherine Heigl in every rom-com—can't find a decent date. Every guy she goes out with is an asshole; she consistently dates "below" her league, and she's on the verge of giving up on a committed relationship altogether.
Not long after he turned 30, the writer Jon Birger realized he and his wife knew a lot of women like that. The couple didn't have a lot of single male friends left, but the many single women they knew all seemed to be buyers stuck in a seller's market. One of those friends, Birger told me, "had been dating a guy for a couple years. It certainly seemed like they were well on their way to getting married. She was in her late 30s, he was in his mid 40s. She really wants to have kids, get married, the whole [thing]. And she's amazing in every way." "
It's raining men out there, all you need to do is check the forecast and go where the rain is:
https://www.washingtonpost.com/graphics/2018/world/too-many-men/?utm_term=.5d7f20db85f1&wpisrc=nl_most&wpmm=1
Time to start up a Mail-Ordered Husband and visa processing service.
But from what country can I import a non-chauvinist man?
Canada, Scandinavian countries, UK...
Anonymous
04/20/2018 14:50
Subject: Solution for all the Single Women
Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:The problem facing women in DC is that there are too few men: http://labs.time.com/story/see-the-ratio-of-single-men-to-women-where-you-live/
https://www.vice.com/en_us/article/3bj5yv/youre-single-because-there-arent-enough-men-253
"We all have that friend: the beautiful, intelligent, driven woman who—like Katherine Heigl in every rom-com—can't find a decent date. Every guy she goes out with is an asshole; she consistently dates "below" her league, and she's on the verge of giving up on a committed relationship altogether.
Not long after he turned 30, the writer Jon Birger realized he and his wife knew a lot of women like that. The couple didn't have a lot of single male friends left, but the many single women they knew all seemed to be buyers stuck in a seller's market. One of those friends, Birger told me, "had been dating a guy for a couple years. It certainly seemed like they were well on their way to getting married. She was in her late 30s, he was in his mid 40s. She really wants to have kids, get married, the whole [thing]. And she's amazing in every way." "
It's raining men out there, all you need to do is check the forecast and go where the rain is:
https://www.washingtonpost.com/graphics/2018/world/too-many-men/?utm_term=.5d7f20db85f1&wpisrc=nl_most&wpmm=1
Time to start up a Mail-Ordered Husband and visa processing service.
But from what country can I import a non-chauvinist man?
If you’ve got a problem with the vast majority of your options, you’re the problem.
Anonymous
04/20/2018 14:35
Subject: Re:Solution for all the Single Women
This is a pretty sad thread.