Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:I would not. No. I will do what it takes to help any children in my care get to safety if I could, but I would not affirmatively sacrifice myself to save a child. My life is no less valuable than a child's. I am also a mother and I need to be here for my child. No, and I deeply resent the expectation that this is what a teacher must do.
The issue is that teachers are seen as martyrs and the general expectation from society is that we would take bullets for our students. Maybe we need to be very vocal that we in fact will not and see if that changes the rhetoric. If parents don't have a false or real sense of comfort that their child's teacher will take a bullet for them, then maybe we'll actually get somewhere.
Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:This is not the same job anymore.I am always feeling that I can't keep these kids safe.Not just from a gunman, but from each other. Drugs, bullying, fights, sharing porn (yeah, that, too..) and the constant anxiety of being in trouble for not being able to. If a kid is on our technology, under my watch, and pulls up porn, I liable. If I don't step in to pull kids apart in a fight, one or both kids will be hurt. I knowcwho is bullying who. Don't exoect me to now fire a gun.
I am still and educator and in education, but i left classroom teaching because of a lot of this. And I love teaching, but I am not a bodyguard and never wanted to be one. I have my own kids and a family too. If this is the new culture of our schools more people will leave teaching and less will go into it. We need to attract the best and brightest and turning it into the Wild West shoot out style is t how to do that.
+100
I am a classroom teacher and really like my job but I was thinking last night if they actually start arming teachers with weapons I will leave the profession and never look back (I know a lot would have to happen for this scenario to come to fruition)
Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:I would do my best to save as many kids as possible. Whatever that looks like in the moment.
My biggest dilemma is that if we're runnning and a kid is hit, we're supposed to just keep going with the other kids. One of the things that haunts me about Sandy Hook is how scary it must have been for them in those last moments. If my child were hit, I would want someone with him, holding him in those last seconds, and I can't imagine leaving a child bleeding out on the ground while I run. But I also recognize my responsibility to the other kids.
Aaaaand now I'm crying. Damn it.
I'm not a teacher, but I've also been in tears since the FL shooting. I hate that teachers are even having to have this thought process. Taking a bullet for kids should not be in any teacher's job description. We are failing our kids and we are failing our teachers. I'm in awe of teachers like you who think through these scenarios and are still thinking about the kids...
Aaannnd now I'm crying again...
Anonymous wrote:I would not. No. I will do what it takes to help any children in my care get to safety if I could, but I would not affirmatively sacrifice myself to save a child. My life is no less valuable than a child's. I am also a mother and I need to be here for my child. No, and I deeply resent the expectation that this is what a teacher must do.
Anonymous wrote:I would not. No. I will do what it takes to help any children in my care get to safety if I could, but I would not affirmatively sacrifice myself to save a child. My life is no less valuable than a child's. I am also a mother and I need to be here for my child. No, and I deeply resent the expectation that this is what a teacher must do.
Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:This is not the same job anymore.I am always feeling that I can't keep these kids safe.Not just from a gunman, but from each other. Drugs, bullying, fights, sharing porn (yeah, that, too..) and the constant anxiety of being in trouble for not being able to. If a kid is on our technology, under my watch, and pulls up porn, I liable. If I don't step in to pull kids apart in a fight, one or both kids will be hurt. I knowcwho is bullying who. Don't exoect me to now fire a gun.
I am still and educator and in education, but i left classroom teaching because of a lot of this. And I love teaching, but I am not a bodyguard and never wanted to be one. I have my own kids and a family too. If this is the new culture of our schools more people will leave teaching and less will go into it. We need to attract the best and brightest and turning it into the Wild West shoot out style is t how to do that.
My own kid and my own family will always come first for me. I don't know what that would look like for me in a school shooting situation, honestly.
Me, too.
Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:This is not the same job anymore.I am always feeling that I can't keep these kids safe.Not just from a gunman, but from each other. Drugs, bullying, fights, sharing porn (yeah, that, too..) and the constant anxiety of being in trouble for not being able to. If a kid is on our technology, under my watch, and pulls up porn, I liable. If I don't step in to pull kids apart in a fight, one or both kids will be hurt. I knowcwho is bullying who. Don't exoect me to now fire a gun.
I am still and educator and in education, but i left classroom teaching because of a lot of this. And I love teaching, but I am not a bodyguard and never wanted to be one. I have my own kids and a family too. If this is the new culture of our schools more people will leave teaching and less will go into it. We need to attract the best and brightest and turning it into the Wild West shoot out style is t how to do that.
My own kid and my own family will always come first for me. I don't know what that would look like for me in a school shooting situation, honestly.
Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:This is not the same job anymore.I am always feeling that I can't keep these kids safe.Not just from a gunman, but from each other. Drugs, bullying, fights, sharing porn (yeah, that, too..) and the constant anxiety of being in trouble for not being able to. If a kid is on our technology, under my watch, and pulls up porn, I liable. If I don't step in to pull kids apart in a fight, one or both kids will be hurt. I knowcwho is bullying who. Don't exoect me to now fire a gun.
I am still and educator and in education, but i left classroom teaching because of a lot of this. And I love teaching, but I am not a bodyguard and never wanted to be one. I have my own kids and a family too. If this is the new culture of our schools more people will leave teaching and less will go into it. We need to attract the best and brightest and turning it into the Wild West shoot out style is t how to do that.
Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:This is not the same job anymore.I am always feeling that I can't keep these kids safe.Not just from a gunman, but from each other. Drugs, bullying, fights, sharing porn (yeah, that, too..) and the constant anxiety of being in trouble for not being able to. If a kid is on our technology, under my watch, and pulls up porn, I liable. If I don't step in to pull kids apart in a fight, one or both kids will be hurt. I knowcwho is bullying who. Don't exoect me to now fire a gun.
I am still and educator and in education, but i left classroom teaching because of a lot of this. And I love teaching, but I am not a bodyguard and never wanted to be one. I have my own kids and a family too. If this is the new culture of our schools more people will leave teaching and less will go into it. We need to attract the best and brightest and turning it into the Wild West shoot out style is t how to do that.
Anonymous wrote:This is not the same job anymore.I am always feeling that I can't keep these kids safe.Not just from a gunman, but from each other. Drugs, bullying, fights, sharing porn (yeah, that, too..) and the constant anxiety of being in trouble for not being able to. If a kid is on our technology, under my watch, and pulls up porn, I liable. If I don't step in to pull kids apart in a fight, one or both kids will be hurt. I knowcwho is bullying who. Don't exoect me to now fire a gun.