Anonymous wrote:I feel so selfish writing that question but I don't know why since plenty of people without fertility problems have 3+ kids.
I currently have two kids, one from IVF and one naturally. I have severe DOR. I always wanted three children. I'm not sure if I can stomach/convince my husband to pay out of pocket for IVF (first IVF was covered by insurance). I used to be enthusiastic and open to adoption but even that is very costly and there is less pressure to decide on that now since it's not dependent on my ovaries.
1. Did anyone do IUI for siblings (after doing IVF for first) since it's cheaper and technically "less is on the line" emotionally? Were you successful?
2. Did anyone do IVF (not just FET) for a 2nd or 3rd child?
If I was trying for a first child and reading this I would be extremely annoyed, so I apologize in advance if this seems like a stupid or insensitive problem to ask about.