Anonymous wrote:You know what?

Screw her.

Whatever foul you committed 10 years ago is nothing compared to a decade of passive-aggressive pouting.

+1 Sounds like she was out to make herself feel better, not clear the air with you. I don't normally walk away from friendships but this gal doesn't sound like a friend.

Anonymous wrote:AND sister? Jesus Christ OP, this selfish jerk ignores your emails about family members dying and then comes at you with a peevish little grievance? Nah you're good.

+1,000. What a toxic person. I would have let her have it. Kudos to you for not losing your cool.

Anonymous wrote:You know what?

Screw her.

Whatever foul you committed 10 years ago is nothing compared to a decade of passive-aggressive pouting.

. This

Everyone makes mistakes. It sounds like maybe you or your DH made one, but come on - she chose to jettison the friendship instead of just forgiving you or discussing it with you. You didn't cause that. It is what it is. Just forgive her and move on with the friendship you have now, which is not as close but might bloom again or fade naturally and on good terms.