Anonymous wrote:OP here. I'm not going to do it. I'm just so horny with no prospects in sight.

Try adult friend finder, co?

I slept with a married man for years. They had no children when it started, and then they had a child. He eventually left her for me. We are in love, and care deeply for eachother. I am pregnant with our first child together.
I would never do it again, or recommend it to someone else. It's a waste of time. I hate the way our relationship started. I've met his family, they seem to really like me. It all starts off innocently until feelings get involved.
Just my 2 cents

It's awful and you deserve all the horrible karma coming to you.

OP here. I'm not going to do it. I'm just so horny with no prospects in sight.

Go for it

Anonymous wrote:Considering some other woman just had sex with my husband (we have kids though) I can tell you I now think it's one of the cruelest things you can do to another woman. I truly think there's a special place in hell (or a lifetime of bad karma) for women who knowingly sleep with married men. And for the record, the same is true x 100 for the married men who do this to their wives.

+1000000000000! Special place in hell.

To each their own on the moral question. Most marriages see infidelity at some point, we are living a charade about monogamy.

The bigger issue, you are likely to get hurt. He is in it for the sex. Unless you are the rare female that can have sex just for sex with no emotions.

I know some wives who have set out to destroy OW's lives. In the very least, she could likely incflict a great deal of embarrassment by publicizing your actions to your family and colleagues.

Do you really have to ask this question? You need therapy.

No go for it. Most marriages are a no sex zone. Most of the poster know this because they are in a no sex marriage. If their husbands start getting sex they know it's over for them.

Anonymous wrote:Bad idea, but you already know that

+1
Find a single, divorced, separated guy.

Anonymous wrote:No kids. I'm looking for discreet sex, no relationship.

What the hell are you asking total strangers who won't be impacted by your inclination?
What you should do is ask someone who has a stake in the scenario to gauge whether or not its worth it.


Ask the wife of the guy you're interested in laying - see what she thinks.

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:Do you have psychological issues? Why would you even want to sleep with a married man? Are you so pathetic that you can't find a single guy? Even if he does not have children, why would you choose to commit a act that would deeply wound another person?

When I was young and single I sometimes had married try to pick me up. I thought they were gross and disgusting. But that is probably because I have morals.

Get over yourself.

Yes, I definitely have psychological issues and my self-esteem is in the gutter. I could find a single guy, but don't want anyone catching feelings - I just want to get laid once or twice a week.

His wife is a wacko and I'm pretty sure she's cheating on him. So....I don't feel so bad about it.

OP, is he in an open marriage? If so, I don't see where the problem is.

Only if you are both truly in love.

OP - what's so special about this guy? Why him?

I don't know about you OP, but I have a conscience. It's important for me to be an ethical person. You want to have terrible ethics? Hey, that's your choice, but you have to live with your conscience - maybe you're at peace with doing shitty things?

And just because you can, doesn't mean that you should.