Anonymous wrote:Op - if you got your degree in your home country of Croatia, then are you living here in the US now? And if so, are you currently employed?
Your GF isn't the same poster who posted in the GP forum about "Giving Up Dream Job for Family" is she?
Anonymous wrote:You should apply for jobs in quantitiative finance. My DH works for a quant fund, only has a masters in statistics, and makes over ~ 700k.
At your age (mid to late twenties), he was making over 200k with bonus.
Anonymous wrote:Your GF posted about your job search and tryals getting the PhD.
Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:Why can't you get a job with at least a Masters level degree?
I guess the tradeoff of a PhD program is you lose out with tons of student loans and zero real-life work/office/business experience.[/quote
My girlfriend got an offer in Florida and she's pressuring me to take this job. We don't have any student loans. She has had to make big sacrifices in her career to make our relationship work for the past 7 years. We're both at our breaking points. I don't want to take this job but I also don't want my relationship to fall apart.
The sacrifices will have been for nothing if you take this job.
You will have put in the work for a PhD and get nothing in return. You will have nothing to show for the past decade of work. All her sacrifices were for nothing too. It's like quitting a marathon a few steps from the finish line. That's really depressing.
Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:If you have a phd in statistics hold out. Do you have data visualization skills? You can make more than that.
With 0 work experience?
Take the job. In a few years you'll be way more marketable.
Uh, no pp. I hire statistics (and other STEM) phds fresh out of grad school for more than $100k. Plus the job description does not demand a phd. There are better jobs op. 5-6 years of a rigorous phd program is not "no work experience".
It is absolutely zero work experience. OP has proven that he is very good at doing statistics in an academic setting. This doesn't necessarily mean he will be a capable employee, as he has no track record. Tons of people have big degrees but never perform well in their chosen field. If a PhD in statistics is that in demand, then you have nothing to worry about if you hold out.
Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:You and your girlfriend sound like a total train wreck honestly.
She's applying for jobs on your behalf????
You have perhaps the most marketable phd degree yet you have to ask dcum of all places for career advice????
You thought it was a good life choice to reproduce with someone you don't love enough to marry???
I hope you all get your shit together and grow the f up soon cause damn
You sound like the crazy one here. This is a forum for job advice. That's why I am here. I am also not from the US originally, so things can be confusing for me. You need to calm down. I'm not sure what your problem is. My personal life has nothing to do with this. In my country, it's fine to have children without being married. Maybe you could travel to Europe and enlighten yourself a little.
weren't you from India or Pakistan before?
I have dual citizenship: Croatia and U.S. My girlfriend is on OPT. It's more difficult for her to find a permanent job.
Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:You and your girlfriend sound like a total train wreck honestly.
She's applying for jobs on your behalf????
You have perhaps the most marketable phd degree yet you have to ask dcum of all places for career advice????
You thought it was a good life choice to reproduce with someone you don't love enough to marry???
I hope you all get your shit together and grow the f up soon cause damn
You sound like the crazy one here. This is a forum for job advice. That's why I am here. I am also not from the US originally, so things can be confusing for me. You need to calm down. I'm not sure what your problem is. My personal life has nothing to do with this. In my country, it's fine to have children without being married. Maybe you could travel to Europe and enlighten yourself a little.
weren't you from India or Pakistan before?
I have dual citizenship: Croatia and U.S. My girlfriend is on OPT. It's more difficult for her to find a permanent job.
Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:You and your girlfriend sound like a total train wreck honestly.
She's applying for jobs on your behalf????
You have perhaps the most marketable phd degree yet you have to ask dcum of all places for career advice????
You thought it was a good life choice to reproduce with someone you don't love enough to marry???
I hope you all get your shit together and grow the f up soon cause damn
You sound like the crazy one here. This is a forum for job advice. That's why I am here. I am also not from the US originally, so things can be confusing for me. You need to calm down. I'm not sure what your problem is. My personal life has nothing to do with this. In my country, it's fine to have children without being married. Maybe you could travel to Europe and enlighten yourself a little.
weren't you from India or Pakistan before?
Anonymous wrote:I'm surprised someone with that much education thinks 150k in the bay area is worth taking. People with BA degrees get job offers for that much in CA. They are both lowballing you. You will be miserable on 150k in cali.
TBH I’d say no to both of them and keep looking.
Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:Taking a bachelor's level job after a PhD can be bad for your career (even if the salary difference is smaller--like a bachelor's level job vs. a postdoc) because it signals to an employer that you don't value the autonomy and potential for growth that comes with a PhD and that you are desperate. If you take the job in Redwood City, yes the COL is high, but you would be more able to move to another PhD-level job later on in another location than if you took a bachelor's level job. Also 150K, even in California, is good money and you will be fine, provided you have appropriate expectations for housing in a high COL area.
But what if it's temporary? For maybe 1-2 years to get job experience. We really like the city in Florida. It's a good place to raise a family.