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Anonymous wrote:Not a lot. I don't want to know details with their spouse. Grosses me out. Although I went to a Bunco party a few months ago. The women were late 30's to 55.
Somehow ED got into the conversation. Most said that would be a blessing, and two women said their husbands had it which was the best thing for their marriage. I went home and told my husband who laughed his head off.

There are women who believe Viagra was created by Satan himself.
There are women who pray for an ANTI Viagra drug (one that *causes* ED) that they can slip into his coffee.

I'm not religious, but I know many would love a Anti Viagra!

This seems very sad to me.

From a woman whose husband is low drive, it IS sad.

Same

Many years ago I had a GF (still a friend!) who was incredibly open to talking about her sex life. She told me that she had slept with a mutual guy friend and that he had done it with her something like four times in one night. I ended up marrying him! 35 years later we still have a healthy sex life. Other than that the only conversations I have about sex with friends is when they complain about a lack of sex. When they ask about me I just say "we're fine". No one I know discusses details.

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Anonymous wrote:We rarely talk about details of sex. More like sexual frequency, how often, which usually is someone complaining their husband wants it too much or what techniques we use to avoid nightly sex. I count myself fortunate my DH doesn't push for it more than 1x per week.

SAD!

Not sad, so much as reality. This is a parenting website, most mom's of young kids want nothing to do with sex. I am fairly convinced these so-called women who write in about threesomes, claiming to be high-drive, etc. are either men pretending to be women, or wives in the newlywed phase.

There is a reason the world's oldest profession is still thriving, don't you think?

I'm a 52 year old wife and mother, and even when I had two children under 3, and was working full time, we managed to have sex once a week. That's the bare minimum. Now that we have teenager who sleep late it's up to 2 or 3 times a week. Yes, there are women with healthy sex drives, even after they become mothers and even if they WOH.

Anonymous wrote:Yes. Most recently my friend has been dating a crossfit trainer and has pretty much been giving me a play by play.

Much like Crossfit itself.

Yes. Most recently my friend has been dating a crossfit trainer and has pretty much been giving me a play by play.

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Anonymous wrote:We rarely talk about details of sex. More like sexual frequency, how often, which usually is someone complaining their husband wants it too much or what techniques we use to avoid nightly sex. I count myself fortunate my DH doesn't push for it more than 1x per week.

lol same here. It ranges from making him a few stiff drinks so he gets tired to planning girls night twice a week. Coming in after she knows he's asleep. Oh and the big one. Letting little Susie and Bobby sleep in their bed various nights.

My grandmother used to do this as a form of birth control ... it worked.

No.

Never. I have had friends discuss it with me when they have been concerned about something. But never have I felt the need to discuss it with anyone.

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Anonymous wrote:I know a woman that gives her husband Chasteberry and Skullcap (herbs) that decreases libdo. They have other benefits such as lowering blood pressure. She says it works.

I wonder if he's aware that she's doing this to keep from sleeping with him?

No!

I have a hot friend that is single and it is our favorite topic.

No, not specifically related to any of my partners. Maybe in general terms like when going to see magic mike with girlfriends or something.

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Anonymous wrote:Not a lot. I don't want to know details with their spouse. Grosses me out. Although I went to a Bunco party a few months ago. The women were late 30's to 55.
Somehow ED got into the conversation. Most said that would be a blessing, and two women said their husbands had it which was the best thing for their marriage. I went home and told my husband who laughed his head off.

There are women who believe Viagra was created by Satan himself.
There are women who pray for an ANTI Viagra drug (one that *causes* ED) that they can slip into his coffee.

I'm not religious, but I know many would love a Anti Viagra!

This seems very sad to me.

From a woman whose husband is low drive, it IS sad.

Anonymous wrote:I know a woman that gives her husband Chasteberry and Skullcap (herbs) that decreases libdo. They have other benefits such as lowering blood pressure. She says it works.

I wonder if he's aware that she's doing this to keep from sleeping with him?

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Anonymous wrote:AFAIK, DW does not talk about it with anyone. ANYONE. He libido is gone.

The most I will do is make a joke about lack of sex. Something like, "My wife was mad at me so she decided to withhold sex.....she broke my wrists."

Funny! Sorry, buddy.

That was funny. Best to cheat on his left hand with his right.

I know a woman that gives her husband Chasteberry and Skullcap (herbs) that decreases libdo. They have other benefits such as lowering blood pressure. She says it works.